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Ex I haven't spoken with in a year messages

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pallydin1289
July 24, 2016
109 upvotes
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Broke up, moved on. She was amazing in bed, had a drug/alcohol problem that she refused to get help with so I broke up with her. I deleted her number after a while.

Her: "Hey how have you been"
Me: "Who is this"
Her: "Tanya"
Me: "Oh"
Her: "I saw your pics on FB you look great! I'm gonna be in town we should meet up. Are you free?"
Me: "Idk how fat are you now"
Her: "Wow fuck you I can't believe I messaged you thinking you wouldn't be an asshole"

Is it a good idea to get with her? She's lots of drama but I'm kinda pussy-starved right now.


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Title Ex I haven't spoken with in a year messages
Author pallydin1289
Upvotes 109
Comments 21
Date 24 July 2016 09:14 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/250
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4uf363/ex_i_havent_spoken_with_in_a_year_messages/
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[–][deleted] 71 points72 points  (0 children) | Copy

I loved your response. TBH, it's easy to be on the other side and say, "No, don't do it" but if I was in a dry spell and my ex wanted to hook up, I'd probably say yes.

[–]youcantdenythat78 points79 points  (1 child) | Copy

hahahaha... if you have to ask then the answer is no.

[–]JamesSkepp15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bad idea, skip her.

The message tho is hilarious.

[–]freeligious74 points75 points  (2 children) | Copy

Me: "Idk how fat are you now"

Her: "Wow fuck you I can't believe I messaged you thinking you wouldn't be an asshole"

Judging by her reaction, she's definitely fat.

[–]Nodeal_reddit12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm old enough to remember back when women with drug and alcohol problems were always skinny. I guys it was the cigarettes. Ah - the good ole days.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

The coke whores are still skinny.

[–]AdjectiveSaint23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

You had me at "IDK how fat are you now"....

[–]Thewelshpill16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Idk how fat are you now"

that's the best shit ive ever read on this sub, fucking creased

[–]awalt_cupcake54 points55 points  (14 children) | Copy

Go for it but treat her like any other plate. There's some guide here around here somewhere about hooking up with exes. Basically it went like this:

  1. Meet in public
  2. HUG her when you meet her
  3. Have a good time
  4. Get ready to cut the meeting brief
  5. When you both say goodbye she's going to want to hug you again- DON'T
  6. Politely dodge hug and shake her hand or something equivalent
  7. This will make her think she did something wrong and eagerly seek your approval
  8. She will text you. Prepare logistics.
  9. Fuck her (PLATE STATUS ONLY)

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

My longest-standing plate started with a handshake. I met her when Tinder was actually used to hookup. We met for drinks, chatted a bit and she told me all about how busy she was with school and blah blah blah [insert every setup for excuses not to fuck]. At the end of the night I didn't tell her I wanted to see her again, or hug her/kiss her, I just stuck my hand out and told her it was very nice to meet her. She shook my hand and started walking to her car, looking perplexed. Halfway there she turned around, walked back over to me and said "you're not getting off that easy" and hugged me and kissed my cheek. She texted me two hours later (at around 3 a.m.) asking to meet up again and I closed that night. All because I shook her hand. She just couldn't shake the mindfuck it left her with. 2 years later she still brings it up, "what kind of asshole ends a date with a handshake?" The one who gets laid, apparently.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

i'm the most begginer possible in TRP but i just did this hug thing "naturally" last week when she said she wouldnt go to be with me that night (didnt even know it was a thing). can confirm it drives them crazy

[–]PantsonFire12341 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It still surprises me how some guys don't get punished mercilessly for their beta transgressions. Makes me wonder how much luck is involved in dating life.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy

TIL #6. will use this.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (7 children) | Copy

Pretty girls will execute a hard reset over this kind of shit. A few weeks ago I was hanging out with a new girl and she asked me what "my move" was. I asked what she meant and she said "y'know, 'your move.' The thing you do to get girls to have sex with you." I smiled and walked away from her. Predictably, she gave chase. I walked her back to my truck and we fucked. She later complained that "I never answered her question." I winked and said "didn't I?"

Every girl today has daddy issues. They all want male attention but won't admit it, which is what feminism is really about IMO. If you withdraw your approval, they will work to get it back if you have adequate SMV. Since sex is all they really have to offer, that's the card they'll play.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

The girl I recently met is a hard read. Really shy and doesn't talk much. When we were at a concert whenever a guy tried to go up to her she would bounce before he could even say anything. I can't get a read on her and that's what I'm really good at which is driving me nuts.

[–]awalt_cupcake1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

I would have first assumed introvert and not much of a people person but she went to a concert so she's clearly comfortable around lots of people. She could be the quiet predator playing the shy girl game hoping to be chased. Don't.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shy girls aren't worth the risk. You basically have to commit sexual assault before they commit to the act because they aren't going to initiate anything. Too much work when there are plenty of willing and proactive girls out there.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So if I shouldn't chase her then what's the gameplan with a girl like this?

[–]awalt_cupcake0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I've only met a few like this and I literally did not care about her. She wanted to find excuses to be with me even more. Another girl I ignored every cue of interest and played it off like we were just friends (I friend zoned her) and that drove her nuts.

[–]PantsonFire12340 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly. OP has a nice picture on social media. SMV has gone up.

[–]hamstercide0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don't get it. How are you supposed to fuck her without escalating physically first?



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