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Separated and don't want to be married again

by aita2899 | August 24, 2019 | askMRP


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Working on the divorce and started in MRP Sidebar. Since I don't ever want to be married again, do you work the sidebar in this case differently?

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Title Separated and don't want to be married again
Author aita2899
Upvotes 15
Comments 24
Date 24 August 2019 01:59 PM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/250780
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/cutprj/separated_and_dont_want_to_be_married_again/
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[–][deleted] 27 points28 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nope. The sidebar helps you unfuck your mind and become a man of value. Good luck.

[–]aita2899[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]The_LitzRed Beret18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

Somewhere down the line you will want a plate, GF, FWB or whatever you want to stick your dick into.

The sidebar will guide you and put you into the mindset so that you can handle any relationship, no matter whether it is short or long term.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Read the rationale Male, grab a gym pass and live your life.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sidebar is still awesome, even if you decide to never marry. Date have fun, just dont get married, dont let them move in and dont mingle finances. Youll be golden.

[–]Iammrp27 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

The sidebar doesn't tell you how to be a better husband. It tells you how to be a better man. Unless you plan on getting a sex change it remains the same.

[–]Redpillbrigade175 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not wanting to be married again could be a good rule for leading yourself, but it should be secondary and a consequence from living your life on your own terms. Not the main goal. The work should be on finding what those terms are. Clarifying them, testing, and then living your mission.

[–]red-iron-man5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Becoming the best version of you that you can be is only going to make your life better. If you ever feel the desire to get married again, call a friend to come over and ask him to kick you in the balls over and over until you forget about the idea.

[–]FoxShitNasty834 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm not his friend but I will put my name down

[–]DespisedMouse2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why would you? The sidebar is there for YOU to grow as a man, not to fix your marriage/separation/divorce/whatever.

[–]Bcomingr82 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Stay strong man! The troops are here for you!

[–]NoCoast822 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Unfuck yourself or you are just going to go through the same thing with a new girl sooner rather the later

Seems like you you are still at step zero of unfucking yourself, and your soon to be ex is several steps ahead of you

[–]Captain_pants41 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I started this journey married. Ended up pulling the plug.

Dating while RP aware is great

[–]weakandsensitive1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

[–]Imaginary_Historian1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude, what the fuck? I got out of my marriage 50/50, zero alimony and zero child support and every single day I am pretty damn pleased with that, especially when I hear of guys having to pay off disgusting sums of money to bitches who no longer want to fuck them.

$40k ain't shit. What are you, 12? If you're smart you'll build that much up again in no time.

If you aren't a fucktard, you'll be shitstruck at how much money you have post-divorce. Every month I spend less than I earn and I'm not even trying to be cheap. I have everything I want and yet the money just keeps piling up.

Sign the fucking papers already.

[–]Thorondor_Rising1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This guys a fucking retard. His stbx offers him 50/50 in the clear and hes quibbling over wanting half of her 401k (40k) and 75$/month in child support. What a fucking faggot.

Its going to be awesome when she retracts the 50/50 option, assumes full custody, and takes him for well over a quarter million over the next 10 years for veing a petty faggot.

[–]mrp_awakening1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

MRP and TRP have a pretty similar sidebar, but MRP is more about how to be as alpha as possible while maintaining an LTR. Personally... if I were getting divorced, I'd read more of TRP's sidebar and try to implement plate theory. It'd be my personal choice, but I'd avoid monogamous LTR's in addition to just marriage. Spinning plates honestly sounds quite ideal, but I could see my opinion changing 10 or 20 years down the line. You need to figure out what you want. LTR's might better be suited by the material here. STR's would be better by the material in TRP.

[–]helaughsinhidden2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Stay plan is the go plan

[–]amalgamator1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Any kids? If not, do you see yourself wanting kids?

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

He has 3 kids and she earns more than him.

Hes omitting details to why she branch swung, atleast to us.

[–]aita2899[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I didn't omit. I said I got lazy in the relationship

[–]teaandtalk5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get a vasectomy so you don't end up with a new set of problems.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You know why you’re here ?

You know why you’re going through the divorce ?

Lift. Sidebar. All. Of. It. All.

Ya. It is your fault. Avoid the rinse and repeat.

[–]LivingRPLife0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Aaaaah, if you read anything you would know the answer.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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