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Tried talking to girls in a slower speed with a deeper voice and better tonality and received positive results: can someone explain how this works and how I can take it further?

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September 5, 2019
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I read that recent post from an Asian guy who spent 3 years TRPing and gave a few gems, one of them was to stop paying attention to what you say and focus more on how you say it, an approach I've never tried.

I've been practicing comebacks and dodging shittests since time immemorial, but just 2 days after applying this magic pill, I can sense girls getting "stimulated" more the moment I open my mouth.

I removed that question tonality with everything that I say and I started speaking muuuch slower than usual, in a way that is unnatural to me, and what do you know? Girls fucking love it. I get IOIs as I said the moment I slow down and deepen my voice. Sometimes I even talk about my day, and they're there paying attention and wanting to keep talking.

How is this working? I've always thought it was a bit weird to speak slowly and sound deeper vocally. But it's working and I still can't believe the results.


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Title Tried talking to girls in a slower speed with a deeper voice and better tonality and received positive results: can someone explain how this works and how I can take it further?
Author cuztrp
Upvotes 244
Comments 44
Date 05 September 2019 11:38 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/252020
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/czzmqd/tried_talking_to_girls_in_a_slower_speed_with_a/
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[–]FinancialThanks1234 points235 points  (8 children) | Copy

You tend to speak faster, quieter and higher when you’re nervous. A person that is nervous is either hiding something or in an unfamiliar situation or unconfident in their abilities.

When you’re relaxed your voice gets deeper and slower. A slower, deeper voice implies comfort which implies confidence which implies competence. Bitches love competence

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nah, fuck that. It's because the deeper sound waves rumble her vajayjay and make her nipples vibrate.

[–]imtheoneimmortal26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

It doesn’t matter the gender This works on everything

[–]hmsthinkingmeat14 points15 points  (4 children) | Copy

And deeper voice = bigger balls = more fertile.

[–]Alt_Mayday0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

deeper voice = bigger balls

Not necessarily

[–]Sendmeloveletters0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Never compared balls but I’m like just under 5’9” but I have a deeper voice than dudes my height bc I have a longer torso than most people my height, but I’m guessing the balls are regular sized.

[–]Alt_Mayday0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

The pitch of your voice mainly depends on the length of your vocal chords, and I doubt that larger balls = longer vocal chords. But idk

[–]Sendmeloveletters0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That’s what I was saying. I have the voice of someone like way taller bc my torso is unusually long and my vocal cords are longer. I’m a baritone that looks like he’d have a high voice. I’ve actually never learned to speak correctly bc I’ve always raised my voice to match others and I don’t know how to change how I talk at this stage of the game.

[–]gloriousfart54 points55 points  (3 children) | Copy

a deeper voice is considered more attractive in general: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2995855/

[–]DaftOdyssey0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Now the question is "why is it attractive to have a deeper voice?"

I haven't read the article btw

[–]geo_gan11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Physics. Bigger animals always produce lower frequency tones. Think of a small monkey sound compared to a rhino/bull sound. To the female of the species this signifies male strength. Females nearly have orgasm at t-Rex roar.

[–]cilantromakesmepuke127 points128 points  (4 children) | Copy

Big dick energy???

[–]Protocol_Apollo84 points85 points  (3 children) | Copy

Deeper and slower voice is a sign of higher testosterone.

So yes.

Something like that.

[–]jackandjill2210 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

This dude thinks talking like Barry White is going to make wimmenz hop on his dick.

[–]rambler4298 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Barry White was an ugly, overweight dude and could make women cream their drawers with his voice so....

[–]cdh10032 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ah, the Walrus of Love.

[–]WB2E46 points47 points  (5 children) | Copy

Here are some additional speaking tips:

  • You covered deeper voice, slower speed. Someone else covered saying less.
  • Speak loudly and clearly, don't be afraid to project.
  • Speak from your stomach - or if you can from your groin area. You'll have more conviction and be more grounded.
  • Eliminate filler words.
  • Don't be in a rush to respond right away to a girl or anyone. After she asks you a question, feel free to take a deep breath to think about your response and then blow her away.
  • Similar to above, don't be afraid of silence. When a girl makes a statement, if you have nothing to say, feel free to take a sip of your drink or look her in the eyes. This can be very powerful. Keep in mind you're not doing this after every statement she makes. That'd make you awkward and a bad conversationalist. But every once in a while it's good to break rapport, put her on the spot, and create some tension.

[–]ZeppKfw12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Need help. Spoke with my dick now bitches all over me.

[–]shouldergirdle16 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy

Excellent Comments: Some points of clarification...

Filler words (which you mentioned above)are words such as "like", "to be honest", "in my humble opinion", "as a matter of fact", "actually". Filler words are feminine. Don't use them.

Uptaking: Uptalking (i.e. valley girl intonations, or saying everything as if it is a question) is feminine. Don't uptalk. Instead use declarative statement with a downtone at the end of the sentence. Men know what they are talking about and are confident in saying it. This is how men speak.

Excessive talking: Girls talk excessively about nothing at all. Excessive talking is girly.

[–]SomaNoob7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

filler words are feminine

What

[–]fields-of-shields10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Uhhh and i just want to say like I think and feel that you’re kinda confused

[–]SomaNoob2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I see 0: thanks

[–]SimplyFishOil40 points41 points  (0 children) | Copy

Simply speaking slower shows you're comfortable, which to women shows confidence since most guys usually aren't.

Deeper voice shows masculinity.

You're acting like a man. Keep it up

[–]kyzen14223 points24 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well look at it this way when a person is nervous and experiencing anxiety when talking to people their breath becomes shallow and more rapid and in order to speak with a deep voice your breath must be deep and slow. When you talk slow you are actually slowing down the speed at which you breath and when you talk with a deep voice you are actually breathing a full deep breath that fills your lungs. So what you are doing is actually reversing the the reaction of your body when it is nervous.

[–]WB2E5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Great response. Your breath is one of your life forces. We breathe to inhale oxygen which powers our body.

Shallow breathing = less oxygen, life force and power.

Deep breathing = stronger life force and more powerful.

Girls can absolutely feel it. Everyone can feel it.

[–]robbiedigital0016 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

On top of this I've found when you get into the mindset of talking lower it actually grounds you physically and affects your body language, girls can pick up on you being grounded before you have even said anything

[–]cuztrp 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Speaking of body language, what cues should I pay attention to besides the posture?

[–]cpotpie15 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Read a book on body language. Joe Navara has a couple that are really good. “The Dictionary of Body Language” is what id recommend

[–]red2hilt30 points31 points  (4 children) | Copy

it. doesn't. just. apply to.

conversation. write less. people will pay...

more attention.

[–]milkywaymaster22618 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy

pregnant pauses...

another game changer

[–]RPthrowaway1231 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ah yes, the Shatnerian delivery!

[–]SteveStJohn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

LOL

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

good point

[–]rockyp324 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t know man it’s a lot of things but just think about it when people speak very clearly people tend to listen I think part of it is deeper voice means more attractive but also just slowing down like forced them to pay attention to your words

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's all about the bass. Back in the barbaric 90s, when we still had answering machines, girls would tell me that my out-going message would give them the tingles. One, in a moment of drunken candor, admitted to calling my machine when she knew I wasn't home just to listen to it. Evidently, my "telephone voice" is a bit deeper than my speaking voice, enough to cross the border into "Tinglesville".

[–]Proximer6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

For some reason I was reading this with a Morgan Freeman voice slowed down 2 times and it sounded realy influencing. I bet it works!

[–]Sobinia5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Speaking slowly proves that you're calm and confident, making the girl feel safe at a subconscious level.
  2. A deep, clear voice indicated high testosterone levels.

It all down to nature. We, women, desire alpha males that can give our offspring good genes and protect us and the child.

[–]herrLitschka1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Could you link that post that you're referring to?

[–]mojokabobo1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I cycle, a lot. In a separate line of thought, there's a little vocal trick that one can do to make your voice deeper. When you tilt your head back and look directly straight up into infinity and say the words "Hong Kong, Bing Bong, Ding Dong" three times in a row, when you drop your head back to normal and say something, your voice will be octaves lower than before.

When I cycle, my head is naturally lifted up like that. While I'm riding like that, I occasionally say the key words so that they can deepen my voice. I do this exercise (secretly) daily when noone is around and can overhear me, so that my voice will be deeper with those who I have conversations with.

[–]celincelin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Satire?

[–]SolidLiquidGasPlasma0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It works unless you’re trying to tell a bit for a joke use inflection and stuff, can’t say I’d laugh at a joke Hamilton Morris is making

[–]celincelin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How is this working?

Self suggestion, should go away in a few days, maybe a week.

[–]fender18780 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is all explained really well in the book Never Split the Difference. The book is written by one of the FBI’s best hostage negotiators who teaches business negotiating techniques. He talks about getting people to concentrate on your words by transitioning to the Late Night FM DJ voice.

[–]smartfunction300 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Works for chicks, too. Elizabeth Holmes talked in a low voice and stood out.



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