I’m writing this because of all the posts I read where guys are complaining that their wife’s don’t cooperate. Too many posts of betas that don’t understand training.

I had a sales manager years ago that was very successful in my company. She was a fiery South African. Picture a blonde 5’3” Nicole Kidman and you’ve got it.

Anyway, I’d worked for her for a few months before she came to my office for some field visits. She was so cool and chill that I made the mistake of being to relaxed with her and in a single moment, I did something stupid and treated her like a peer, instead of a Regional VP. She lit into me immediately for it. Then, while apologizing to her, I made it worse and she, expectedly, unloaded both barrels into my ass. It was about 5minutes worth of events but it shaped the future of our relationship. I truly believed that when I fucked up, Kim would know and she’d obliterate me.

This is the concept you guys are missing. Your wives don’t think there is a punishment or retribution for their transgressions, disrespect or poor behavior because you haven’t laid down the law. And it’s because of you. They don’t just think they are your equal, your beta behavior has them significantly buzzed at the realization that YOU report to HER!

You have to stand up for yourself once. Do that properly, without asking for their agreement or giving a shit if they like it and the rod ahead won’t be as bumpy. #NMMNG