1.) call me an idiot because I tried to flirt with a girl at work. I get it.
2.) call me an even bigger idiot for flirting with her knowing she had a bf. I also get it.
Ok, let’s begin.
Just met this girl for the first time today. We work as community safe keepers, so we’re to report any danger we see.
We are usually paired with a partner, and are area is pretty private/quiet. Who we work with changes everyday, and today, by the luck of Jupiter’s cock, I was paired with a beauty.
I had just read “how to slay like a warlord” on this subs side bar, so I was like “fuck it, what can go wrong”.
Initially things are going great. She digs my confidence, she’s laughing, blah blah blah.
She then tells me she has a BF, and that she’s pretty happy. I say something a long the lines of “poor guy, he doesn’t know who he’s dealing with” or something like that. She starts going crazy laughing, touches my shoulder.
I poke a little fun at her relationship, and we continue talking.
She then asks me to walk with her to a place that’s absolutely abandoned. At this point I’m wondering if I’m about to rail this broad right here.
She even lifted up her shirt, clearly showing her amazing abs/flat stomach, and making a comment about “her pants are too big” and how “you can see her underwear.”
Nothing happened, but not because I didn’t make a move. It’s because we weren’t isolated after all, as more of our coworkers ended up showing up.
Later in the night we’re able to finally be alone again. She’s different this time though. She’s on her phone the whole time. Is acting very quiet. Complete 180.
I keep talking/acting as if I don’t know it, or not aware to how quiet she’s being. Hoping that it’ll end up changing (like the warlord thread says).
Nope. She continues to be quiet, and giving me one word responses. At this point, I tell myself “fuck it just walk away”. So i tell her, “I’m going to go chat with some other friends, be safe.” And I walk away.
This wasn’t the first time that night I drew space between us. I had done it a couple times earlier and both times she walked up to me and made an excuse to come talk.
Anyway, you’d imagine my surprise when..
I get back to main base at the end of my shift to see her in there and a supervisor telling me that “we need to talk.”
They start telling me how I made her feel very uncomfortable. How she told them I was a nice guy, but she thought our conversations were inappropriate for work.
Idk guys, Idk how the fuck this happened. I was embarrassed. Told the supervisors that nothing inappropriate was said, and that this catches me totally off guard.
WTF. Never again, man.