Lets PURGE ourselves. What's the most beta thing you've done?

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September 10, 2019

I'll get the ball rolling....

In my days before the Red Pill I was dating a tinder thot for a while. She was HB7 half asian but smoked so make of that what you will.

She started getting flakey on text after a while I sent her a butthurt text giving an ultimatum that if she doesnt want to take things seriously she should let me know.

πŸ˜‚ I may aswell have been the female with that kind of behaviour.

She replied with some typical female bs of having family shit going on blah blah blah. But yeah, very beta on my part.

How about you guys? EC's are welcome to explain their past shitshows too.

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Title Lets PURGE ourselves. What's the most beta thing you've done?
Author Rkingpin
Upvotes 246
Comments 320
Date 10 September 2019 09:29 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/252776
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/d2ev2z/lets_purge_ourselves_whats_the_most_beta_thing/
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[–]ManOfFlesh101289 points290 points  (11 children) | Copy

At the end of highschool I bought a rose and marched to the doorway of where my crush lived and rung, when she came down I gave her the rose and confessed my love to her, she said NO before I even finished the sentence. That was after sitting right next to her at the same desk for like a year. Good old times.

[–]Rkingpin[S] 104 points105 points  (3 children) | Copy

Sounds like Straight out of a movie/sitcom

[–]Xerexes386927 points28 points  (1 child) | Copy

Specifically one from CW

[–]Noitrasama2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Vampire diaries?

[–]TheLesserWeeviI37 points38 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Xerexes386915 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

Accept my condolences my fallen comrade

[–]wagakodontme4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]datduckyo4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]PickUpScientist640 points641 points  (54 children) | Copy

i bailed a girl's boyfriend out of jail because she asked me to. his bail was 30k, so i paid 3k to the bail bonds place in installments.

[–]impotentludius513 points514 points  (3 children) | Copy


[–]caoboi0251 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

He loved her 3000. LMFAO

[–]blackswan2whiteswan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

By far.

[–]Protocol_Apollo93 points94 points  (10 children) | Copy

Jesus Christ.

[–]MisterMarbles198828 points29 points  (7 children) | Copy

Jesus Christ indeed

[–]PandaLitter25 points26 points  (6 children) | Copy

Jesus Christ reloaded

[–]GirlsAreReallyFeline36 points37 points  (5 children) | Copy

Jesus Christ: Parabellum

[–]LiteraIIyJesus7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy


[–]Hardwire67 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

jesus christ woah

[–]Alt_Mayday2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Jesus Christ returns

[–]gainz746 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Jesus Christ: Electric Boogaloo

[–]Standgrounding7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's Jason Bourne

[–]Rkingpin[S] 143 points144 points  (4 children) | Copy

Bro what?

[–]PickUpScientist147 points148 points  (3 children) | Copy

i have dozens of nightmare worthy beta memories. i would preform a factory reset on my brain if it was possible.

[–]Fiendorfoes65 points66 points  (2 children) | Copy

Ahh man, don’t sweat that shit, you’ve used those memories to achieve a form of success non the less. I feel like the ones who were delt a shit hand for one reason or annother are WAY better for it, once they have learned from these things. If not, then there is no hope, but your here so good on you bro! Need more comrades around here instead of killing each other with instant insults!

[–]AtlasCuckd16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Final form Frieza

[–]PickUpScientist10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

yeah, it was painful to type but you are only as sick as your secrets as they say.

[–]Fromstatepharm35 points36 points  (1 child) | Copy

I need to find this woman and have her sell things for me.

[–]PickUpScientist12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

i can try and track her down for you. her waterworks are on point.

[–]seducter15 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy

Ah man, sorry to hear that. How far along in the payments did you get, and did he pay you back?

[–]PickUpScientist34 points35 points  (1 child) | Copy

nah. he went back to jail pretty quick. pretty sure he's in prison now. i think i talked them down to like 2500. little bit fuzzy.

[–]oldschooltx20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

That’s one of those things the mind tends to try and erase

[–]sanji_9715 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Damn, reading it hurt my soul.

[–]TitySuker13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Sylvester_Sterone5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy

Did the girl at least say thank you?

[–]PickUpScientist62 points63 points  (4 children) | Copy

she did. i have no hard feelings about it. it was a weird time, we were all on drugs, later on me and her boyfriend "rescued" her from a sober living, they lived with me for a while until they were fighting one morning, i went to tell them to be quiet and i was holding a knife just for protection, but the tweaker bitch freaked out and jumped across the room and grabbed a knife. it was all bad. she's a mom now. i saw it on facebook.

[–]Ekhochambeer29 points30 points  (0 children) | Copy

What the fuck

[–]rnsbrum19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

lol tweaker tales

[–]trudote8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

omg they always end up with kids

[–]AlmostFresh0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]leepicfeminist19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is so pathetic I almost wanna downvote it

[–]FiveStarTendieDinner2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Goddamn you got fucking played.

[–]frognads3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy fuck! I hope he blew you for that. God knows she wouldn't

[–]Look_Ma_Im_On_Reddit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Omg this one hurt the most!

[–]smhfamswag1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

what the fuck ??? why ??

[–]xKalista 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

I asume you make a lot of money? Don't feel bad, those who are middle class/have decent pay are jerked around the most.

[–]PickUpScientist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

middle, yeah. i had a pretty bad do-unto-others complex back then. i'm cured now. as bill murray said in that christmas movie, "if you want to save somebody, save yourself"

[–]MCFiletMignon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Did he say thankyou though.

[–]vondoom9000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Lightways4340 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That’s a unique form of cuckoldry right there

[–]Jani11570 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]ziphias0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My jaw dropped for a solid five seconds. Holy fucking shit.

[–]sebastianconcept0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Holly betamollies

[–]redpilllogin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What the actual fuck...

[–]kyzen1420 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You win the most beta competition.

[–]PickUpScientist1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

alright already i was just answering the goddamn question lol. think i'm proud of myself?

[–]Flip_Angelo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus Christ: The Dark Knight Returns

[–]red88lobster0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why the hell would you do this?

[–]TitySuker150 points151 points  (11 children) | Copy

Let a chick talk me into "taking a break" and my only reply was "for how long".

[–]Schhwing72 points73 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha fuck, if you didn’t laugh at that one you’d cry

[–]Xerexes3869118 points119 points  (5 children) | Copy

Use it as dread next time. I use it on my gf sometimes when she is bitchy. Just ask her 'do you need a break', 'you should take it if you need it'. Scares the shit out of her. Shows abundance mentality

[–]novalentineforyou51 points52 points  (0 children) | Copy

This 200 iq bastard haha

[–]Chaddeus_Rex1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


Using girls lines on them short circuits their brain. My fav is when she wants to smash but you say, "what? you think I'm that easy...you haven't wined and dined me yet"

[–]lovesprite-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wouldnt it give her permission to fuk whoever she wants and come back to you?

[–]Xerexes38690 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If she agrees to take a break, she has already lost significant interest in being with you. You should break up. A girl who considers you alpha would never agree to a break because she fears you'll fuck someone and start liking her. That shitty friends sitcom has instilled that fear in women

[–]datduckyo6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

ahahahahah, bruh thanks for the laugh

[–]oooKenshiooo2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy fuck. Nice one!

[–]Holacrat0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

That aint so bad

[–]TitySuker0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In theory no, but I was too blue pill to understand that "taking a break" meant that she found someone else and wanted to give them a trial run conscious free without feeling that she was cheating on me.

[–]intl_plyrs_clb184 points185 points  (10 children) | Copy

Oh I got a few of those. From bad to worst:


Invited this girl out on a date. Through a series of events we end up at Ikea (not relevant). I try to be slick and ask her to come back to my place and help me setup the lights. She says no to my place but invites me back to her place instead. I took her rejection of the suggestion of my place as "there will be no sex" rather than "I want to have sex at my place". She ghosted me soon after only for me to bump into her on the street weeks later. We schedule one more date. I get all dressed up, we go for lunch, I pay for everything of course. I walk her back to her office, she takes me up the back stairwell and lingers. I was too chicken shit to go in for the kiss. She ghosted my ass again. This woman was easily a 9.


Was really into this woman. Spent tons of time and money on dates. Finally pulled myself up by the balls and asked her out. She shut me down. I remained in her orbit. We go to a comedy show with a group, she shows up together with this other guy from the group. I sense a disturbance in the force. She sits next to me at the show and I take it for a win, but eventually she goes and cuddles up next to him. She then proceeded to talk me into having both of them over at my apartment. I watched them be cute together until 3AM.


Dated this woman for years. YEARS. We broke up because she found out I kissed another woman. Spent years basically begging her to take me back, forgive me etc. Thought I just had to find the right words to say how sorry I was. She strung me along for years. She invited me to an event. I show up and immediately notice she has a shadow...some dude. Spent the day watching her stroke his hair, share food and be cute together. It should have been over then, but I still invited her as my plus one to a wedding a few months later thinking I had a chance to fix things. She slept over on my couch while I slept in my bed. My worst blue pill behavior was with this woman. More shame:

  • I still remember one night while "trying to fix things" she lay down on the couch and I fell asleep on the floor holding her hand. Fuck me.
  • Asked her to marry me while we were broken up. She took the ring and said "I need to think about it", gave it back like 2 months later.
  • I gave her my car so she could use it as her own and even paid the repair bills for it.
  • We would spend hours talking on the phone and watching TV

Dark days.

[–]catriel25111 points112 points  (2 children) | Copy

Dear fucking god.

I feel so much cringe that i'm going to die. Respect for being so honest about yourself bro.

[–]PIGamer8614 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dear fucking God.

I was laughing at the original comment, now I’m dying.

[–]z2a1-90 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Truedemocracy525 points26 points  (2 children) | Copy

2 hurts. Weve all been there buddy

[–]Twenty_league_boots4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

No. No, we haven't.

[–]Truedemocracy56 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cool story faggot

[–]buttgoogler3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I still remember one night while "trying to fix things" she lay down on the couch and I fell asleep on the floor holding her hand. Fuck me.

Oh my fucking god.

[–]boolDozer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This makes me feel so bad lmao

[–]Chaddeus_Rex0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

gave it back like 2 months later

At least she gave it back lol

[–]caius10084 points85 points  (14 children) | Copy

Travelled 200km to see the love of my life after only meeting once and chatting for 8 months(havent talked to any girls in this period of time), she rejected me and I started crying while she held me in her arms. Beautiful times. Another year was to come until I discovered TRP.

Edit: I was about 15yo

[–]pussykiller00944 points45 points  (3 children) | Copy

It’s okay You were just young and dumb

[–]spungebawbswegpants40 points41 points  (1 child) | Copy

This, everyone is pretty retarded at 15.

[–]z2a1-9-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]caius1002 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Im greatful for it. I am who I am today because of it

[–]shark30k16 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy

I am 22 and I recently discovered trp, kissed and had sex for the first time after I turned 22 so you're doing just fine don't worry.

[–]caius1004 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I aint worrying man, life’s great

[–]shark30k3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well I worry sometimes that I realised the truth very late regarding dating and other social settings. That is why I usually say this to me through others.

[–]caius1009 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re so young, others getting raped divorced and cheated on at 35 after 10years of marriage. No time is wasted and no mistakes are in vain if you learn from them

[–]Sylvester_Sterone0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

At the early stages of the internet my friend chatted with this girl who sent us pictures. Damn she looked great. We were invited to go meet her down in Southern New Jersey... pine barrens and trailer parks. Three of us were going to meet these girls.

We get there and EVERYONE is a land whale. My friends wanted to "run to 7-Eleven" to get something and wanted to leave me there. I openly said oh hell no and we sped off.

[–]MisterMarbles19880 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

This is awesome

[–]caius1000 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Not exactly how I’d call it but yeah

[–]MisterMarbles19881 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's awesome like that scene in Eurotrip when his gf dumps him right in front of his family and he starts crying and they're all video taping him telling him "wow she's a keeper huh" and she is posing for the camera like a cunt lmao


[–]MCFiletMignon0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

she held me in her arms

Not a complete loss then

[–]caius1000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol hahahahaah

[–]LAdude7177 points78 points  (15 children) | Copy

Took a hot cougar on 7 'nice guy' dinner dates. On all 7 dates I was too scared to touch her and escalate things, and totally missed her clues that she wanted sex, although I did get the kiss. Met with her one last time for morning coffee before she rushed off to work. Asked her if she wanted a massage after ( my way of beating aroumd the bush asking for sex, without escalating) she said she'd get back to me on that (which I now understand is a "No")... Sent her a gushy text saying I miss her and I think about her when I'm at work ect. She waits 4 days to text a reply saying she's tired from work and "I'll text U another day". By then I've been watching AMS and Darius M on YouTube and recognized it as a rejection and never heard from her again.

Chick before her, also hot cougar took her out to 3 'nice guy' dinners. Didn't know how to escalate and afraid to make a move. I went in for the kiss and she cringes with a look of disgust on her face. I still drive her home. Both these women initially hit on me and asked me out. I still kick myself every time I think of them. They were sexy ass cougars. I managed to screw up every chance I had with them. Blue pill days were a bitch.

[–]Rkingpin[S] 67 points68 points  (4 children) | Copy

Fuck dinner dates, less eating food and more eating dick... as in them, they eat the dick....

[–]superbad4life78 points79 points  (1 child) | Copy

as in them, they eat the dick....

Thanks for the clarification

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, I was totally lost without that.

[–]z2a1-90 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Pete_Worst19 points20 points  (3 children) | Copy

Damn. That's rough. It was a glorious moment when I finally gave up on dinner dates

[–]Truedemocracy520 points21 points  (2 children) | Copy

Don’t buy a girl dinner if you aren’t fucking her is my rule of thumb

[–]LAdude716 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I know that now. Back when I first got out of a relationship I thought thats what the guy was supposed to do. I didn't keep up on dating stuff while I was a blue pill simp. Now I know better. The chick gotta earn a McDonald's dinner with lots of fukin and sukin.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Finger lickin' good

[–]shark30k4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I've been there, girl initiated the flirting and meeting(of course pretending to be here because you called), but there was something I did or didn't do that lead to not having any physical intimacy. And my date involved alcohol with the dinner.

[–]LAdude7111 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

Forgot, the second cougar. On the first date we ended up back at her friends condo in Palm Springs. She wanted to lay down with me. So we spooned. My dick was right at her ass and I was too afraid to feel her up. Too afraid to kiss her neck. Too afraid to make a move with her ass right on my dick. Blue pill days were so damn frustrating.

[–]shark30k5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

At this point all we can do is accept, acknowledge, move on and be different the next time.

[–]RoccoPinkman1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Everyday is a school day brother we live and we learn.

[–]LAdude710 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

True that!

[–]lovesprite0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh my God it reminds me so much of my own date with a finnish girl. It was the first date i had ever been to(back in 2015). The girl was holding hands, touching me. My brain said she was into me but my thick brain didnt understand it was supposed to be a hookup and she wanted sex.

I contacted her after the date and she told me she had something on that weekend. I never contacted her again thinking she was not interested.

[–]Dimenzije9073 points74 points  (2 children) | Copy

Was beeing too friendly with a gf, she friendzoned me and she told me we can still talk sometimes. Then i said this will be the last time we talk. 2 weeks later i hit her up and she just sends 1 word reply.

After this i discovered TRP and i cringe everytime i think about this relationship.

[–]dani09847 points48 points  (0 children) | Copy

That’s not THAT bad as far as bata actions go

[–]Differential42015 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ya i think you get a pass on this one buddy. All of us have done far worse.

[–]Sylvester_Sterone49 points50 points  (31 children) | Copy

Wish I knew about the term oneitis when I was younger. In my early 20s I spent too much time chasing after women who were party girls and ones who did reciprocate any love. Started hitting the gym and 12 years later my life has improved dramatically. Im now on TRT and able to approach younger girls in their 20s without hesitation. Gym pays off.

But fuck was my oneitist towards these type of women bad. Nowadays they are in their 30s and post wall fat and ugly.

[–]Rrfei 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

I'm 24 and i'm you in your 20s, just started gyming a few months ago and have some nice gains and don't plan on stopping

[–]Sylvester_Sterone0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Keep going it's a lifestyle. As for oneitis, I appreciate the sidebar information saying that there are no special people out there, especially women. That disease makes you focus on one person while ignoring all abundance and opportunities around you. It's such a common thing hearing people talk about this "one special person" who makes their life "complete." A month, year, or decade later that person leaves and they are an emotional wreck thinking their life a ruined. No saving them... it's their responsibility.

[–]rnsbrum14 points15 points  (28 children) | Copy

I'm doing a testosterone cycle and holy shit, that thing REALLY makes a difference

[–]DiosJ2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

I still wouldn't recommend it until you hit your Maximum Muscular Potential

[–]rnsbrum2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Well that could take 10 years. But I WOULD recommend it for cutting. I've cut naturally and it really sucks to lose a good amount of lean mass AND get weaker at your lifts, not to mention the lack of energy in the day to day. Unless you have something to prove to yourself, that "you can do it naturally", I'd 100% recommend it.

On the other hand, If you have been lifting for at least 3 years, has a good muscular base, has good knowledge about training and nutrition, there shouldn't be nothing stopping you from doing it. A little test never killed anyone. Do your research and go for it.

[–]DiosJ0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Are there any huge side effects when only doing it for cut? My biggest fear is that your natural test production stops.

[–]rnsbrum0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It doesnt stop completely and you can get it up back to normal in 3 weeks with a proper pct. For a cutting cycle I'd recommend Anavar/oxandrolone, they are oral drugs, very androgenic and only require a very mild pct. Do a 4-6 week cycle and you will get shredded and keep your strength. You could also try a SARM, they are legal and do not require PCT at all. Look up LGD or Ostarine, you can stack them both or use them alone. I've only used Ostarine and had good results.

[–]billyb870 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Inbox meeeee

[–]Sylvester_Sterone0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

All you need for a cut is a lower dose of test. TRT levels are fine. Strength will be maintain with reduced volume. Still keep the intensity drop and no stupid high caloric deficits.

[–]Sylvester_Sterone0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. Have a good baseline for strength. Understand nutrition and sleep health. Test isn’t a miracle either as the media portrays.

[–]bruiser180 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Considering a Test E 500 cycle, hows it been going for you so far? Also what age are you?

[–]rnsbrum1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yep, its test e but im running 300mg. Its been fucking amazing. Im 20

[–]bruiser180 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Tell a little about your experience bro

[–]rnsbrum1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Increased drive, increased energy, a lot more performance in the gym, more vascularity, better pumps, feeling more hungry, increased mental focus and of course, lots of gainz. No sides effects so far.

[–]bruiser180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nice I’m 19 considering a cycle too. Probably will go for it. Best of luck with it

[–]42gauge0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Did your doctor prescribe it due to you having low T?

[–]rnsbrum0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

No, lmao

[–]42gauge0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Then how did you get it? Isn't it prescription-only?

[–]rnsbrum0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah it is, but I have my own source if u know what I mean

[–]42gauge0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Well then I guess I'll have to stick with my low-but-not-low-enough T levels.

[–]rnsbrum0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No, you just have to find the right docs. There is one in Florida that gives u prescriptions and everything online, you just have to send in your blood tests and etc

[–]FAKH890 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

What's that?

testosterone cycle


[–]rnsbrum1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

Steroids cycle. Im using testosterone enanthate 300mg/week

[–]EnterTheN1nja5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

That's a tiny amount too... add some tren and a little more test and you'll really see some next level gains.

[–]rnsbrum4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Its my first cycle. I'm running a low dosage cycle because I wanted to see how my body would react/how would I feel. I still have a whole lifetime to grow, so I'm not rushing anything. Next cycle I'm gonna run the same dosage but add Boldenone to the mix. I have some tren in hands (10ml) but dunno if I should use it or not.

[–]EnterTheN1nja2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good plan, don't rush it. You'll never get as much bang for your buck as you do on your first cycle, so enjoy it!

[–]spungebawbswegpants2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Tell us about the difference ( in you personally, i know what test does i just want your experience).

[–]rnsbrum5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

Its my 5th week. I only have positive things to say about it. So far I haven't experienced any side effects. My performance in the gym has increased a lot. My strength has increased, I'm getting leaner and feeling way more hungry. I have a lot more energy throughout the day, and I don't need as much sleep as I used to, I wake up fired up. My mental aspect has been a lot better as well. I really do not give a fuck about anyone anymore, I feel like I have to GOGO all the time (kinda like when you snort some coke, that confidence and energy). I'm either to climb a fucking mountain or kill a dragon. My confidence has increased, anxiety decreased.

One thing that I did notice is that I'm not getting erections like I used to, I don't know if its mental, or maybe my Estrogen is getting high, but I used to get hard or every girl, now I only do for girls that I really like or when I'm in the moment. Another thing is that I find hard to sleep in the day that I make that I pin it (mondays/thursdays), I only "deep sleep" for 2/3 hours and then I'm ready to go.

[–]Sylvester_Sterone1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Are you taking anti estrogens?

[–]rnsbrum0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No. I have them on hands but I haven't seen the need to do so. I dont have acne, oily skin or puffy nipples

[–]Sylvester_Sterone1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That’s smart. No need to go over that amount.

[–]porkmissiles49 points50 points  (14 children) | Copy

Ok I'm about to make all you fuckers feel a lot better.

I was 25 and just finishing medical school. Fucking prime of my life and in amazing shape with no idea of my worth or potential.

I was with a girl who was not even close to good enough for me and for some background I'd been with her for over 5 years. I found out she'd cheated on me recently and I literally cried to her like a scared child practically begging her to stay with me balling like a borderline bitch hoping she'd feel bad for me.

Now to be fair I had cheated on her 4 years earlier (and right after basically went to my MOTHER in fucking tears asking for advice) and ended up telling the girl. Really I should have given her 6 months of my life max but ended up wasting much of my prime with her.

Every time I think about I cringe audibly. Live and learn.

[–]depressedfuckboi29 points30 points  (3 children) | Copy

Fuck bro. Relatable. I have begged before a cheater to "pick me over him he doesn't love you like I do"

I wanna kill myself when I think of it now Jesus Christ. I was a little bitch.

[–]MisterMarbles19884 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yup I've done this too when I was 19 with my first serious LTR. Felt like my whole world was crushed.

[–]datduckyo-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

damn dude, that is so fucking weak and pathetic, don't mean to sound mean, but shit, you'll need to have surgery to remove that memory. my ex started chilling with some dudes from work, and because I already was aware of parts of Red Pill, thanks to Corey Wayne, I basically told her we are over. I would have definitely did what you did if it was not for knowing some basics, I'm so happy I didn't do any weak shit and then carry that cringe memory with me for the rest of my life.

[–]depressedfuckboi4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah it's hard to live with my man. It's what led me here and it's what keeps me from ever doing that again.

[–]RiskyRewarder8 points9 points  (5 children) | Copy

Early 20s is not the prime of your life. Men don't peak until late 30s, then the decline is very slow. Shit most men in their 50s and some in their 60s and 70s are closer to prime than any man in his early 20s.

[–]Aestheticcunt19961 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yeah... apart from the aesthetics part probably.

[–]RiskyRewarder1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Actually women find aging sexy as long as you stay fit. Men who live a long time are rare in human history, aging as a man is a sign of success.

[–]ironmag230 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

HGH and less than 1g of gear a week. Aesthetics.

[–]Aestheticcunt19960 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You reduce aesthetics to shredness. Theres more to aesthetics. And it's not wrinkles or a receding hairline or thinning hair.

[–]ironmag230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You'll lose your hair regardless if you have the gene for it. HGH, keeping dosing below 1g and proper skin care with Tretinoin and moisturizing will stave off wrinkles for a long time.

[–]dani0982 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dude if you are calling early 20s your prime you are not living right.

[–]porkmissiles1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I meant more physical prime. That being said I'm probably in better shape 20 years later than I was then...

[–]Aestheticcunt19960 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

What was your mother's advice?

[–]porkmissiles0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Haha really good question. It was actually good advice that I unwisely disregarded.

She said that if I admitted cheating to her it was the most selfish thing I could do because it would just be to assuage my conscience and would just end up hurting the girl unnecessarily.

She also said I should break up with her.

I unfortunately followed neither of these pearls at the time (although I did break up with her a few years later).

[–]Pete_Worst91 points92 points  (1 child) | Copy

Took a girl who had model-tier looks out to a concert/drinks on a snowy night and at the end of the date, she had me drive her to her ex-boyfriend's house (who was unemployed, lived with his parents, and smoke/drank all day) where she was sleeping over. I didn't even get as much as a kiss on the cheek. To be fair, I did drop her completely after that so I had that going for me but I cringe in retrospect.

[–]bluepillcarl22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol wtf

[–]evenfurtherbeyond51140 points41 points  (6 children) | Copy

I was 14

I asked a girl to be my gf.

She says yes.

That night She texted me saying that she was in the shower then in bed thinking about me. I replied β€œok nice”

Got dumped.

Also I asked another girl out twice and got rejected both times.

[–]spungebawbswegpants51 points52 points  (1 child) | Copy

ok nice

Lmao that's hilarious but nothing beta about that. Seems you had balls to ask girls out at a young age.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck you - dr. Dre starts playing in the background

[–]MisterMarbles198838 points39 points  (2 children) | Copy

lmao dude thats awesome! you were TOO fucking aloof, I love it!

Similar story when I was 15 with the first girl I banged. We dated thru the summer and had sex a few times a week when our parents weren't home.

I was SUPER inexperienced obviously but this chick would start TALKING DIRTY to my 15 year old ass as I fucked her! she would say things like "yeah fuck me like your whore...Mmm yeah fuck your whore good..." and I'm just there, thrusting, thinking to myself, "what the fuck would the difference be if I was fucking a whore? wouldnt it be the same thrusting and everything?" I was so confused and intimidated lmao

[–]Aestheticcunt19963 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hahahahahahaha just lol.

[–]bestsparkyalive4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is absolutely amazing.

[–]JiggyStreet34 points35 points  (3 children) | Copy

Not one specific case stands out. There’s just a bunch of situations in freshmen year of college where girls made very strong IOI’s toward me and I was too dumb to recognize or too pussy to capitalize on it and got friend-zoned in every situation.

It’s funny to look back on how far you’ve come and laugh at yourself. (β€œWhy is she sitting on my lap when there’s a bunch of open seats? They’re probably uncomfortable..”)

[–]Sylvester_Sterone4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oh yea, I had tons of missed opportunities in my 20s.

[–]realname30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol girls invite me to Netflix and chill.. we'd end up chilling watching Netflix..

[–]lovesprite0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

too pussy to capitalize on it

This happened to me a lot during my early 20s. Even happened last week.I get a lot of IoIs from fat chicks. I mean what would I say when it happens during the day?

[–]I-am-ed36 points37 points  (1 child) | Copy

grade 9. I sang love songs for a girl i had a crush on. every friday, club meeting. we would spend about 2 hours and i was entertaining her hoping ill make her fall in love with me.

after the two hours her boyfriend will come pick her up.

this happened for a whole school year. how many fridays spent with a boner that i was trying to hide ( thinking girls dont like getting lusted for ).

[–]idontmiind6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bro that hurt..

[–]Lyxeka36 points37 points  (2 children) | Copy

I hit it off with a cute girl that was a couple of years older than me. Made all the right moves. Got her in bed by the third date.

Plot twist: we had been drinking and after she swallowed my cum I told her that she was the first girl to swallow my cum and that I was intimidated by her because I dropped out of college and she was finishing a bachelors in accounting. Never heard from her again.

[–]idontmiind34 points35 points  (1 child) | Copy

Legend says she stopped sucking dick altogether after that

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[–]Blaze-Bless37 points38 points  (2 children) | Copy

I was engaged to a chick, seemed really solid loyal and honest, no pass on phone and always would be open to it being used for stuff like Bluetooth, etc. One night about 3 and a half years in I picked up her phone to take a picture cause my battery was low enough that it prevents camera function, she flips and snatches it back. Turns out she was texting some guy she met, I flipped out gave ultimatum, she agreed, blocks/deletes in front of me, then we go to work "rebuilding trust" fucking retarded idea what a cuck πŸ˜‚.

Shit happens a second time and we do the same conversation AGAIN, what in the fuck was wrong with me I cannot say gentlemen. Sure enough round 3 comes along (all inside of 2 months btw) and finally I kicked her ass to the curb I was so goddamn done. We lived together and I ended up keeping the place she moved to the States, house value increased by 50 grand and the whole ordeal led me to TRP. Best damn thing that ever happened to me.

[–]tjoh12711 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

You had us in the 1st half not gonna lie.

Glad you ended up coming out on top brother!

[–]Blaze-Bless0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Edit: naturally I cried like the BP bitch I was each and every time, don't want to seem like I wasn't the typical cuck in this situation, I absolutely was, but man what a turning point in learning about the nature of chicks!

[–]MisterMarbles198825 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wined and dined a short, thick 27 year old Russian Jewish girl for about 2 months, or 5-7 dates without getting any pussy. We did a LOT of heavy making out in the car and had a date set up to have a hotel room together for the night, when my ex-gf asked me to stop seeing her so that she and I could bang exclusively. I complied and made up a story involving my family to semi-ghost the Russian girl.

I tried to get her about a year later, took her out on ANOTHER dinner date plus drinks, more making out but ultimately got blue-balled and she never saw me again. She must have gotten hundreds of dollars worth of free food and drinks out of me and gave nothing in return but some making out.

[–]Immuchtooawesome26 points27 points  (3 children) | Copy

My wife at the time left me for a man she knew for two weeks. We had been together for about 2 years, knew each other for about 9.

A year later she called me up full of regret and implied she wanted me back.

I quit my job and drove across the US to pick her up in my sedan.

She changed her mind again halfway through the trip home and flew back to her new man the day after we arrived back to my place.

[–]DeadlyCrape3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

f wow

[–]FocusMore1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy shit

[–]Suave_Terry0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]AnxiousProof53 points54 points  (1 child) | Copy

I invited my post-wall ex gf to live with me so that she could "get out of a bad household and get back on her feet". Realized my mistake and evicted her 3 months later.

[–]z2a1-92 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

good job on evicting her

[–]ZealousFeet22 points23 points  (1 child) | Copy

When I was a sophomore in high school, I was head over heels for this chick I lost my virginity to. All she wanted to be was a FWB, but I wanted more. I had never been more intimate with any girl before, and as soon as I got my dick wet, I got pussy whipped so bad.

Months passed and she was still just using me for my dick. The "me" now would've welcomed it. She wanted to cut all ties, but I was like: "No!" So, I went to her house to confess my undying love for her.

Her little brothers pitied me and actually sided with me. I got on one knee and took her hand, and begged her to stay, but was met with disgust. I even cried on my way to the bus stop. I talked to some old woman all sad and shit at the bus stop. She was so fucking confused and took a few steps away from me.

As I rode home, I learned that you can never make someone love you, and I never made the same blue-pilled mistakes again.

This is the most cringe-worthy shit I've ever done.

[–]hmsthinkingmeat0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I even cried on my way to the bus stop

Sounds like the lyrics for Jilted John - great song from the days of punk rock !

[–]tolstushki70120 points21 points  (6 children) | Copy

Spent $3k on a girl and didn’t even get a kiss from her.

[–]Erikacoleman1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I spend 4 $ on a girl and she kissed me but didnt suck my dick so i was pissed.. So you lose

[–]z2a1-90 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]eljefe760 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

On dates?

[–]tolstushki7010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeap. And she ended up fucking other guys. After I discovered TRP, I haven’t spent a penny on a girl and got laid many times. TRP was a life changer for me.

[–]geo_gan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Seems thousands of complete idiots do the same to cam-girls all over the world every day.

[–]yoshireddox0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

ahh, this is classic

[–]redpilllogin20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy

As a freshman in college I was dating this go who was still on her last year of high school (We met in school and she was a grade below me). I would skip class all the time to hang out with her and on one Valentine's day, I didn't show up for a final exam so I could go to her school and drop off her gift.

The gift consisted of a 6-part story of how we met and our love story and I left one part with each of her teachers (6 in total) so that at the beginning of each class, she would getna card, in order of 1 through 6. With each card, I also left a red rose.

I them picked her up from class and took her to my parents home who were away on holiday and made sweet romantic love to her on my parents bed, which I had covered in roses.

I then dropped her off home, where a bouquet of flowers was waiting for her and left. Her gift to me? A shitty t-shirt.

That exam I didn't take was the last straw to get me kicked out of college. I got a job in a wharehouse and started saving money to rent us a place to move in together and start a family. By then she had already started college and "met a friend". πŸ˜‚ You guys already know how this ends.

[–]datduckyo11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

damn. men are the real romantics like rollo says

[–]johncillo18 points19 points  (5 children) | Copy

Late to the party but I have one, my ex-wife. We got divorced because she started going out with a guy at her job. Few months later, already divorced, we started seeing each other again. After paying a whole vacation weekend, next week she dumped me (TRP me knows now why), so I sent her this butthurt message stating that she tricked me into it (smh). 2 days later she started a relationship with the same guy we broke our marriage. Nice days.

[–]yoshireddox0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

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Hope she get fat

[–]yoshireddox0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Hope she get fat and ugly

[–]johncillo0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Nah bro, I hope I get millionaire and better at my life. That’s it.

[–]yoshireddox0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I hope u get millionaire and she get fat

[–]thesatellite2317 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck. It makes me cringe to even think about it.

During college (like 5-6 years ago) I met a girl in my class. We worked on an assignment together. Instead of being confident and asking her out, my dumbass waited until after the semester was over, then emailed her about my attraction toward her. She claimed she was seeing somebody but it wasn't serious, so she was open to going out with me.

We did go on a few dates. But my gaming/escalation skills were next to zero. So she strung me along, got me to buy shit for her all the time, and put me in the dreaded friend zone. Still we literally emailed each other back and forth every single day.

The next semester, she met another dude. He was buff, handsome, quiet, typically physical-alpha traits. So of course I was jealous of him.

Turns out the original guy she was seeing (who she rejected me for) -- they had never even met in real life. This guy was another beta orbiter who lived in a completely different state. That's when I realized that she was not worth the trouble, and I effectively "broke up" with her.

She eventually married the tall, handsome guy from her other class. I'm happy for them.

[–]Fiendorfoes27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cried and been upset about my ex fiancΓ© cheating on me with my β€œbest friend”.... fortunately for me, this was both before taking trp and my catalyst for doing soπŸ‘βœŒοΈπŸ˜Ž

[–]vullnet12311 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

So much crying and begging I did towards my ex . So pathetic lol. Sending 100 messages when drunk begging for more attention lol

[–]Hutongs 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

I learned how to drive, got my license and bought a car in the span of like 2 weeks so I could show up to a party to impress a girl because I thought it would be embarrassing to have to take the bus.

On the bright side it ironically made me "more of a man" by forcing me to grow up and take the next steps forward (learning to drive, getting a license and getting my first car). Still makes me cringe looking back on it.

[–]grenadehappy41914 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Right actions, wrong motivations

[–]ToraChan2318 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

Take back a GF who cheated

[–]thedonuts35210 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Accepted an LJBF situation and left the relationship on my knees after a few weeks of orbiting and letting my butthurt cards show.

[–]datduckyo8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

wrote a big long fb message to my ex who had just dumped me, about how much she helped me and how much i loved her and needed her in my life lol. i was 14 and she was my first girlfriend. she was just like "move on dude". this led me to cocky and funny by deangelo, which later led me to Corey Wayne, which then led me to SoSuave, which then led me to Rollo Tommassi books and everything else. So her reaction to my pussy ass message led me to red pill eventually.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy

Nobody can match my story. First oneitis, 20 yo male at time of event. Dated a girl in my class briefly, hot canadian white babe with big tits and ass, cute face. but all it gave me was the confidence to approach and ask for her IG on first week. I had a plan to approach. She was a huge alpha widow, talking 7 years way back to high school sweethearts. All this happened in college 2019.

Anyways, got her IG, then got her number. Talked about out prev relationship, found out she was single. I was so ready to practice the so called β€œgame” I’ve heard so much about (first girl I EVER tried to consciouslly game in my life)

So shes in my class, and she still is because my program has a few more years and shit. We sat during class a fucking LOT and we’d talk a lot and she was super receptive. We’d flirt during class at first here and there.

I used an assignment as an excuse to see her. Drove to her town (25 min drive from my school) and we worked on it.

Pulled out a rose and gave that to her. She was kinda happy.

Valentines day, bought her some chocolates and flower put that shit in my passenger side seat. Turning point event, because before what happens here she was totally chill with me.

Kissed her there and drove around her city then to her work. Kissed her outside her workplace, made out and groped her there in my car. Take her to dinner, then put my arm around her though I try to do some kino but she gets spooked as fucked for some reason. Deletes off social media, and posts β€œhappy singles awareness day” and a pic of the flowerrs I got her on snapchat.

Starts sending one word replies and basically said sorry I rejected you

There is more beta shit i wanna post in this story but dont because thinking about them makes my stomach turn.

There is a huge air gap between us now in class

[–]Lyxeka12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

This isn't bad at all. Good job for making the moves you did! Lot of guys here wouldn't have done anything close to groping or even kissing.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I got pretty confident because I startes lifting last september. I actually had kissed her in the parking lot of our school before we went to drive.

I did practice kino lol, kino is great to start off with. I told her to stay in class and when everyone left I used this one excuse to go through her hair. So there was like one fat dude still in the class working on his laptop, and I’m up in her face combing thru her hair. I think I should have scaled back the kino later but kino does help

[–]bestsparkyalive4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Man fuck that bitch.

[–]SgtRimjob 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

I got plenty involving begging for LTR to continue, but nothing exciting. So this is my best one:

Matched some girl on Tinder in college who went to another school ~45 min away. I knew the distance didn’t make it practical or worthwhile, so just hit on her while I was drunk or bored. Eventually got her number and we got closer.

I had some outside drama go on that I discussed with her and actually maintained frame for. I think it turned her on, because she begged me to come visit her. A week later I did. It was uneventful for the most part, so I tried to leave when it got late. She urged me to stay and we cuddled in her bed which led to sex. I wanted to go exclusive with her so bad after that, but held my tongue because I know she was so casual about it.

We kept talking as we went into winter break (she went back home hours away). A week after we got back to school, she texted me at 11:30pm to bring her cheesecake. My horny, beta ass said fuck it. Bought a cheesecake and drove the 45 min to see her.

Show up and we go straight to her bedroom. Lots of 1st-2nd base action immediately. She tells me to β€œsuck on them” when I grabbed her tits. I did. Then she started playing with my dick so I said β€œsuck on it”. She immediately does a 180 and gives me a weird look. Then she says β€œI only do that to guys I like”.

I get off her, mostly out of confusion. She turns over and asks if it hurts. I was just like β€œidk, I guess I had the wrong idea about this.” She teases me a bit, and I ask her questions about her feelings. Basically she still has a thing for her ex and I’m just a rebound or something.

Not sure how I pulled this off, but I said something to the extent of β€œNot mad, but want to have sex anyways?” She agrees and we do.

For the next few weeks, got closer and I talk shit about her ex and how he’s using her. We hooked up a few more times, but she got sick of it and fully branch swung to her ex as soon as he β€œcommitted”. They dated a couple months before he left her for someone else. She ghosted me almost immediately before all this.

Honestly, no ragrats. I’m ashamed of being her beta pillow, but hey, I still smashed.

Still cringe about it though.

[–]Erikacoleman4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thats actually cool

[–]SonOfMammon7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I begged her to marry me because I started getting attached and needy, after she was the one begging me to marry her in the beginning.

[–]Truedemocracy58 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dated this girl for a few months and had unicorn feelings towards her. I’ve been with my fair share of women, so no at least a quality one when I see it. Things are great, but she wants to move states so ends it. However, still wants to hang out so we do cute couple type stuff (go to fairs, get drinks, long walks, etc) with next to no intimacy. Made out at end of one, invited her back to my place after another which she immediately got uncomfortable and left. Just a lot of mixed signals and confusion on my end

Year later she reaches out to catch up, I turn it into a coffee catch up. Turns out she never moved, tried to - just failed. I thought in my head surely she reached out to possibly rekindle what was once a great relationship and I ask her out again but no - she has no interest.


[–]naroadi7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I slept in the same bed with my high-school crush multiple times just cuddling. Was so beta she didn't have to worry about me trying something.

[–]thetotalpackage78 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ughh, I wanna puke thinking about this. Dated a single mom bartender from a family where every sibling/parent was divorced, or a drug addict and from the wrong side of the tracks. Was about 24 years old.

We took a week off as we were arguing. She of course had a back up dude who she immediately jumped on and cut me loose.

I went nuts. Spent two days drawing a picture of her and her kid in charcoal and mailed it to her with a recording of me professing my love.

When that didn't work I sent her a vomit email saying I couldn't live without her, blah blah blah....it was like 10 pages long.

Finally I called her and cried and told her I was planning on asking her to get married and I would support her kid and to give me a chance.

Fuck, this is so cringe worthy I want to go back in time and slap the shit out of myself.

[–]Deadly_chef1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Omega oof

[–]shark30k6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Last year So this college classmate passively asking me to go out on a date. I started working right after college(I avoided a hot chick hitting on me in this girls hopes). So I make plans on weekends she cancels twice. I'm angry but I forgive her believe whatever excuses she has. (She's still studying to study abroad for masters btw). Finally the two of us to out together for first time alone and not with group. I was introverted so struggled a lot with ordering food drinks ( being indecisive ). We hop bars go to a little more secluded bar. I ask her to be my girlfriend (with a rose so cringy) she doesn't say no. She says why do you want to be my boyfriend? I have no answer I take it as a no and change conversation. I drop her to her room. She stalls and delays. I'm broken then I come home. Then she chats and call me every night for about 6 months wasting my time and I'm still attached so didn't try on another girl. Later on calls she says I'm so nice because the guy she's fucking never bring her rose but I did (it hurt at this point lol) Then I focus on career and block her still angry. 4 months ago I am suicidal so install dating app be Honest and upfront and go to third base in 2nd date with my online date.

I thought I'm doing something right let's try this on the old girl. Last month I think there's still a chance and try again. She invited me to her place we drink. I go in for the kiss she says no, I stop because no means no. Now I'm not angry anymore (maybe because I have a backup) i get why I'm a loser it's not her fault. It's her nature. It was my fault i didn't move on quick and focus on myself. Last few months I'm unemployed but my priority was meeting her rather than finding a job which is wrong. Now I'm gonna focus on me and stop being such a pussy and focus on me. I don't trust anyone anymore and no special treatments to no one from now on. I lacked discipline.

[–]Johnnyprez7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Saying I love you first. Asking them to be in a relationship with me. Fuck

[–]Schhwing5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I bought a girl presents she didn’t really want/need and gave her $400 after she flew and paid for a hotel for a week to come and see me. Looked a gift horse in the mouth

[–]Schhwing6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Also let an ex come over to my house after breaking up while she was fucking an acquaintance. She was a drama queen and wanted revenge because I cheated on her then ghosted her. Also think she still wanted me. Then she proceeds to invite me over to her bfs house (my acquaintance) while they were together to fuck. Needless to say she was a slut, but I should’ve had better boundaries.

[–]Sake994 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Several ones:

  1. Told one girl, she can come and leave into my life as she wants.
  2. Telling the girl on text that she was waaay out of my league.
  3. Crying infront of her because of the problems she went thorough.
  4. Telling a girl, that I will love her even if she dates another guy just to make sure she is being protected.
  5. Becoming emotional with her Like her girlfriends.
  6. Expecting that she loves me for who I am.

[–]AA70 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I did that 3rd one with the girl I lost my Virginity to. I still managed to get in bed with her somehow.

[–]Sake990 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You are a legend.

[–]Alpha271456 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wrote a girl a love letter.......

[–]Houston2NYC5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Took a chick to a Taylor Swift and Ed Sheeren concert that wasn’t even in our city and didn’t even end up getting any.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha was her name Jess? I dated a half Asian girl who smoked who did the same thing, although I thought she was a 9, so it hit hard when I realised my turn was up and she became flakey 6 months later.

Easily the best lover of my life (so far)

[–]idontmiind4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Read the entire harry potter series in my 4 inch android in 2012. Someone said she loves that shit and thus so did I afterwards(jk). Funny thing is I used to borrow the books and keep them untouched cus I didn't wanna make a dent or sth hahha

[–]throwawaylilbastard4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I bought a teddy bear for a girl once on valentine's day. I was 13. I gifted it to her. She didn't accept it and returned the gift, i got shamed by my best friend for being a beta idiot and i ended up going home and crying. She ended up dating my best friend.


[–]GingerBeard_JM4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Got into a relationship

[–]WonderfulPipe4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

There was a girl who was obsessed with me, I kinda rejected and years later I got ONEitis for her, idk why that happened too much to me. She started talking to me again so I was like FUUCK YEAH.

Long story short, we went on a couple of dates, I started to pretend we had the same interests, agreed to every opinion of her, music tastes, and as she is vegan, I even started to suggest that I was interested in being one.

It’s still a mystery why she stopped talking to me and got a boyfriend quickly after that...

[–]sleepkxng6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I reeled her in (using PUA tactics but still bluepill, horny teenager) then she reeled me in i.e caught feelings. Then she used me for goodies (movies, weed) and I was too afraid too close for a fuck many times. Thinking back, I'm glad I didn't cuz she was a crazy bitch.. I think her tits were her only redeeming qualities.

Now I'm focusing on becoming a doctor. Pussy ain't the goal anymore.

[–]mrdeeds19723 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Taking back my ex wife after she cheated and wanted to leave and telling her that our relationship could be better than it ever was...

[–]frognads2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Send that beta as fuck 'I'm worthless give me attention out of pity' wall of text message to a girl I had oneitis for. Soon after that I found rollos blog thank the lord! God the message was pathetic, sent it on facebook too so I could only delete my copy πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ

[–]thatdeterminedguy3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Before getting red pilled , I was an orbiter of a woman for almost 4 years. I have simply stopped contacting her since Jan 2019 and life has got much better. She thinks I am her "friend" , but I avoid her stinking vagina to focus more on my career and my hobbies

[–]_teh_overloard4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. believed my own lie that i actually liked the girl i was dating. ended up falling terribly in love in the most beta way possible. I remember going from "whatever it takes to get laid" to "omfg i love you so much". I makiavelied myself.
  2. I went on a holiday to a city with a girl, we even slept in the same bed, but for some reason i couldnt make a move. TBF to me i was in a pretty bad spot; depressed, low self esteem etc. AND she had been with a buddy of mine so I just couldnt get over that either.

[–]fuck_everyone__3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Got several model tier women alone in my bed when I was younger and did not make a move.

[–]ModTheRedPike8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

I usually don't like polls, but I'll leave this one.

[–]champuradopapi2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ask her out on Valentine’s Day and buy her food after she stood me up the first tine smh

[–]NaturalDistrict2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

had a dinner date with my ex. paid everything. brought her to my place. we slept cuddling. not even a kiss πŸ€—

[–]ExoticPanther2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thought the photo of me and my girlfriend disappearing off of her feed was because her Instagram was glitched. Conveniently it would go down shortly after a disagreement or if she’d been a little distant that day. I knew what was happening but was too scared she’d leave me to confront her. Man I was bad.

[–]StormOfHoney2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Oh boy.... my oneitis!

I went on an international holiday with her, stayed in the same room as her for one week and didn't have sex.

I honestly don't know what the fuck happened...

[–]PB00340 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Umm yea it’s kinda hard to tell what happened

[–]StormOfHoney1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Haha i was a fucking simp back then. I cringe just recounting that story.

[–]PB00343 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Made eye contact with this girl when I was 13-15 for three years without doing anything. Plot twist she was into me as well.

[–]pimptendo2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

God I had oneitus throughout highschool to some girl. Then my junior year I found a girlfriend and we dated for 5 years. Got engaged. She cheated on me with 2 of my friends. Best friend turned me to the red pill and its done tons to help me get over her. That was roughly a year ago or so. Still striggle with approaching and yalking to woman though. But its a start.

[–]LeonidasGER2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Had a huuuuge oneitis for a girl for five years (starting from 15 to 20) and basically had the idea that i dont need another women and i will marry her, be there for her, protect her and so on...

Finally got the balls to "ask her out" via text at 17 after i got myself shitface drunk. Of course my gigantic romantic text (and me) got rejected.

Fast forward one year and she made out with my best friend while i wrote her love poems(!) and generally was an attention seeking bitch, cutting out all my friends and focusing only on her while creating as much drama as possible. Dont even want to list ALL the cringy and stupid things i ve done but believe me it was a lot.

This was 2 years ago and i cut her out of my life got my first kiss, laid and went to the gym so things are starting to improve although i still struggle with beta behaviour, beta activities and a generall lack for discipline.

[–]anonbast2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Main examples of my beta behaviour in LTRs:

  1. University sweet heart, the relationship started wonderfully, but, quickly via beta behaviour like giving gifts, flowers, etc, she started seeing me as the beta provider and her pussy dries out for me.

I would sleep with her in her bedroom without fucking for months in a row just because she isn't comfortable that the other girls are next door. This LTR lasted for 5 years until after I started working, the last year or so it was LDR. When I finally managed to move to where she lived, after 3 mostly sexless months she dumped me. After some time she is with this other guy she knew from basketball since before uni, with whom she got a daughter to quickly get dumped and be a single mother.

I wasn't a total beta, I cheated on her during the whole relationship because I wanted sex and opportunities arise if you are partying, good looking and witty, but, my behaviour towards her was totally beta.

  1. Without learning from previous failure, not 6 months went by and I'm again in a commitment with a new girl. Although it was a LDR we were together during weekends and holidays. It was intense and fulfilling. My beta inlove behaviour didn't change, though.

So, this girl is better, I thought... After 2 years we decided to marry. Immediately the sex lowers and the shit tests go up. I was so silently frustrated that I hooked up with a FWB before the marriage, but, frustratis frustration, got ED that night. I keep with the plan, we marry and have a sexless honey moon!!! She wasn't comfortable because we stayed at her sisters in Florida... Lame on me not ending it after returning.

After some years and a child, me and our child had serious health issues. She gave me 2 sexless years as a reward. I was the perfect beta provider since we got married with the exception of me being away during the work weeks. Although my wife wasn't a total bitch, my behaviour did make her look at me different from what it was at the starting years of the relationship.

So, pick your winner!

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[–]RoccoPinkman2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Went to an after party, fucked a HB8 who had been riding the CC for years, then carried on dating her, lent her money gave her lifts etc. I could stop there that’s easily bad enough. We went out to a gay bar with her lesbian mate a few weeks later and she accused me of trying to fuck her dyke friend because we went to the toilet at the same time. Then stormed off after shouting obscenities, I got a taxi home with her whilst begging her to believe me. Do I win?

[–]Lightways4342 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

In my junior year of high school, one of my female friends at the time put me on to her best friend who went to a different school. We chatted non stop through text for a while. At the time I played piano and had my own Yamaha keyboard- she took interest to this and told me it’d be real cool to learn how to play. My beta cuck ass translated this to β€œyou should give me your piano and I’ll suck your dick”. So I tell her to come to my house and when we get there I grab the keyboard and hand it over to her. Of course she’s surprised and seemingly repulsed at my beta behavior. I barely know the chick and was already gifting her one of my most prized possessions. I never heard from her ever again after that day.. fuck I still miss that keyboard.

[–]Deadly_chef1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

β€œyou should give me your piano and I’ll suck your dick” - that's some beta mindset if I ever have seen one

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear2222 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was a 13 and orbited my oneitis HB6 for years constantly being the guy she’d complain to about her trashcan BFs via phone calls for hours at night. She would take her ambien and ask me to stay on phone with her til she passed out and I did every night so I was always tired and sleeping in class every day.

I moved 2 states away and continued that behavior. We confessed love for each other. Eventually I convinced my dad to buy me a ticket there to go stay at her lake house for the weekend.

Even though she’d fucked all her previous junkie bfs she only let me kiss/finger her and wouldn’t reciprocate. I continued to talk to her each night and when she got thrown in rehab from ecstasy abuse stemmed from her new bf, I wrote her letters all the time.

The amount of wasted time and effort on her was sickening.

Lost my virginity at 16 and finally cut ties. It cleared my head real fast.

Like the holocaust; NEVER AGAIN.

[–]GiraffeOnWheels2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Same thing as you. She was a solid 9 long red hair had the little mermaid thing. Tried to get her to commit to a relationship and ruined the good thing I had going on. I hate that i ruined it but it would have been even worse if she said yes. So many red flags.

[–]AlmostFresh2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Found out an Ex was cheating on me. She was in her mid to late thirties and I was in my late 20’s. Ran to her house to catch her red handed. Daughter answered the door with a confused face she lets me in the building I get to the door and the ex is there. Ex grabs my arms, I react bust through the door to see the guy putting pants on. Literally dark as fuck in the room but I’m swinging in the guy going crazy. She jumps on me to defend him. I’m the midst of throwing her off my back her finger breaks. Words are exchanged she tells me that we been broken up to my surprise lol. I was all fucked Up eventually dude leaves I stay and she says they didn’t have sex but I know they did but refused to believe it. We talk and have sex... this back and forth happened for 2 - 3 weeks then I stubbled upon TRP

Boy was I stupid but I got back in order rather quickly

[–]Flamethrowa213 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I got mad at my ex and called her a bitch because she was seeing me less and less. Anyway she asked for space and I gave her a few days of it and decided the relationship was over so I dumped her.

[–]ggggggggee1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Caught feelings for a girl I went out with after 3 dates. She went on vacation, lost interest and my feelings were broke. Blocked her on IG, and her #. This was while I was on the redpill. Live and learn

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Couple of things, but mostly not doing anything when a girl was clearly hitting on me because I was too shy and awkward to handle it. That happened about 5 or 6 times in my life before I got a handle on things.

Like OP I was once dating a girl who was a bit flakey. She cancelled on me for the 3rd time and I got incredibly moody and sulky and broke things off with her. She got in touch a few times after that and I was always just too bitchy and butthurt and complained about her being mean to me and not caring enough about me. Wasted a good plate opportunity. She got back with her ex not long after that.

[–]throwaway697641 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Had a suicidal female friend, kept orbiting her and being her emotional tampon until I had suicidal thoughts myself.

[–]8bitmadness1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I orbited a popular girl in high school. Like, constantly and to the point where I tried to coordinate my classes so I was in the same ones as her.

[–]tjoh1271 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Not sure if this counts but I was β€œtalking” to this girl while I was doing work up for my first deployment to Iraq (2007); ended up buying her a plane ticket to San Diego where she promptly found some other guy she was more into so after crying myself back to the hotel I called the airline and cancelled the flight back home to her then checked out of the hotel leaving her stuck in San Diego. I’m not sure if she stayed the long weekend with the dude or how she got back home.

I am now 30 still in decent shape keep frame and no longer allow myself to be put in situations like that. I would say I am a strong 7 weak 8, moderately successful in terms of women.

I now have a counter question for you gents:

I recently broke my back in a bad accident and have been damn near bed ridden so I am forced into a kind of monk mode. I cannot work my past job as a heavy equipment operator and looking into the IT field (network admins / helpdesk type role) or possibly getting into coding / programming. My question is how do you keep motivated to totally restart basically. The second part of we have any tech guys which part of the tech world would you pursue?

Edit: possibly dumb question I haven’t found the answer to. Does HB 7, 8 mean β€œ[at]her best #”

[–]TitySuker4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

HB = hot babe and the number part is her attractiveness 1-10.

You should the other part of your question a post. You'd get a better response.

[–]tjoh1272 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks and I am gonna rephrase it and post it now.

[–]TigerXtrm1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Girlfriend broke up with me (over the fucking phone) so I hopped in the car and drove for an hour to her house to see her.

It ended successfully and we had a good relationship for like 4 more years after that before she cheated. When it broke up again I still kept chasing for a good three months. We agreed to meet three times and she canceled all three times at the last minute.

Fast forward a few years, I found TRP, now I'm here. There's still sporadic contact between me and her, and we're on fairly good terms despite all that happened. Not friends, but acquaintances, I guess. I stopped chasing long ago, thankfully. Today I wouldn't take her back even if she begged me.

[–]imfuckingbroke 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

Lol she cheated on you, completely disrespected you and you still contact her and are on β€œgood terms”. Embarrassing

[–]TigerXtrm0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Good terms, considering the circumstances of how it ended, yes. As in, I don't wish her to be run over by a bus tomorrow and we talk maybe once every two months. That doesn't mean I approve of everything she did, nor does it mean I approve of everything I did.

Unlike some of the TRP pro's here I don't pretend to be a stone cold person. I spent 5 years of my life with this person and I have both good and bad experiences. Fond memories and less fond memories. There is nothing embarrassing about that.

[–]TitySuker0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Stone cold or not, you have to stop talking to her period.

[–]imfuckingbroke 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

You sound pathetic tbh. Cheating is a complete break in trust and respect. I’ve dropped friends that I’ve known for 5+ years for breaking my trust.

[–]TigerXtrm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Or you could maybe not throw insults around based on a stranger's 3 paragraph anecdote that happened years ago. I think I'm in a better position to judge this situation than you are, kind sir on the other side of the internet whom I've never met.

[–]Appex11 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

When I was in Vietnam, I met this chick(HB6) at our hostel bar and I did pretty good game on her and after about 5 minutes of talking to her, I got her to the dorm room, where no one was. It was the perfect place for fucking. Instead we just sat there, and I started talking about the weather and about roads or something stupid shit like that, where she burst out in laughter and said: "All right, I'm gonna go to the bathroom and let's meet outside."

I felt like such a loser. It could've been the easiest fuck in my life, but instead I blew it off like that.

[–]geo_gan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ah there is nothing better than snatching defeat from the jaws of victory. Done it many times.

[–]OPs_Real_Mom1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not too many since I am fortunate to discover TRP when still young. I have taken this girl out for 3 dates, tried to escalate on the 2nd date was shot down. Gave her another chance, same thing. As Patrice O'Neal said, that is how women fuck guys, so I nexted her since I'm no time whore.

[–]kingofclubsmorde1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Was so addicted to sex that I was in relationship 9 months with HB8 feminist that is dumb as a boot. She made my life miserable but because I was beta as fuck and hooked on sex and affection, I had no guts to break up with her. I was so fucking beta that I did everything she asked and did not disagree with her to avoid conflicts. She broke up with me because she found a better looking guy than me because my motivation to maintain healthy lifestyle was decreasing. They both seem to be heavy drug users nowadays with no jobs or education.

Things are better now. Found TRP after taking LSD after the break up and never been happier than ever before. I have managed to get more fit, rapid improvement career wise, upgrade in finance, moved to my own apartment and am close to graduate university. Got also a HB8 plate.

This is all thanks to this subreddit's advices (you just need to be aware which posts are made of MGTOW -cucks).

I have managed to lift my self esteem and that has improved my quality of life. I want to thank you guys for this. Your advices have made me a better version of myself and I have never been happier in my adult life.

[–]niceguyputin1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I knew a girl liked me. I approached her asked her out. Expected her to confess her love for me during the β€œdate”.

[–]InwexMusic1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I begged my ex to take me back, i've always reported where i go, with who etc

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I used to text a girl who lived 5km away from me for 2.5 years, trying to resolve her emotional problems, drawing her portraits. Basically I was her Facebook therapist. Honestly at some point she sent some clue to meet each other, because "she needs someone like me to talk sometimes".

Then I confessed her I loved her, on Facebook obviously, and she told me I was too good for her because she had "emotional tumblr problems".

Basically I was as Dante Alighieri was to Beatrice (see Divine Comedy), with idealized oneitis for how I imagined her.

I was 13-14, I used to see her on the bus, but never had balls to talk to her. To this day we never spoke in real life. That shit scarred me.

[–]Burner77061 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Being a natural alpha (pre trp) to some and beta to others (depending how much I liked them) has placed me in blue pill situations more than I care to remember. One I wish younger me would learn more quickly.

GF 1 (oneitis number 1), I took back after cheating multiple times.

GF 2 (3 year LTR) go into college, I moved to be with her. (I cheated in college as well, but as did she.) Needless to say I didn't know about it and we broke up 2 weeks after my moving to be with her.

GF 3 (3 year LTR) I literally cheated the entire time. Most of it anyway. So I definitely got what I deserved. But after coming clean, I expected her to turn a new leaf and confirm my suspicions. She doesn't, but her vibe is off so we split. Break up for about 3 months (and this is my regret); these three months were so pivotal for my growth it wasn't funny. Financially, spiritually, physically I was in the best shape I'd ever been in just three months alone vs 3 years with someone. She comes back, doesn't confess, I give it a chance and I find out some shit and that at least began the trickle truth. She had cheated the entire time as well. I spent the next few months a shell of myself not being the new me or even the old me before I met but consistently reconsidering everything as I'm trying not to be a hypocrite (I cheated just as much).

Long story short: I lost myself, twice, trying to keep someone else. THAT is the biggest blue pill thing I've ever done

[–]ColdBeing1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Became friends with this guy who turned out to be one of my good friends later on. Before me and him had a bond, his sister added me on facebook, she was 14 at the time and I was 15. I chatted her up everyday. She at the time had a boyfriend and me and her would secretly talk to eachother. We did this for a month and eventually she told me she did something sexual with her boyfriend and I got mad at her. After talking to her still and forming a closer bond with her brother, I got him to invite me over and our whole intention was for us to meet each other. I stayed over his house 2 days in a row and for my birthday, I told her I wanted her to hold me and she did for a good 3 minutes. Afterwards, she messages me telling me that she has a boyfriend and can't be doing this stuff behind his back and ended it with me. I was heartbroken. For the next few years, I've been coming over this guy's house, becoming good friends with him and trying to get with his sister. Whenever she listed me as "friend" or "like a brother", I would get pissed, sad, and would show my emotion and have little talks with her in private about me still having a chance with her and her reply was always "maybe". Her brother would always tease me about liking his sister and told me over and over she didn't like me and doesn't see me that way. I never listened. It got to the point where I cut contact from her brother (he sat at my lunch table and I never spoke a word to him again) and didn't talk to the girl either. The brother didn't understand why I just randomly stopped talking to him (I had a plan to not talk to him or her so that I can take away that brother feeling) and in the process, I ruined a good friendship and the girl still didn't want to get with me after I hit her up a few months later.

Even after this all happened, she moved away to a different state. Her brother remains here still.

[–]renzomang1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

During my first year of college, my "bestie" from highschool had a meltdown because she had her first drunken ONS the night before and felt like shit for it. We went to the same college together after highschool.

I invited her over, we got dinnerβ€”I'm pretty sure I paid for dinner. She then slept over in the same bed and nothing ever happened (obviously).

I cringe now that I look back it...but in a way feels good to look back, laugh & seeing how far we've all come.

[–]Sylvester_Sterone1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I got a good one that I wittnessed while in monk/lift mode:

When I was in graduate school I came back out to the midwest and lived with a 40 year old man who was just divorced. Rent was cheap but he also had this 30 year old single mom live too. She was good looking but definitely close to the wall and liked to party. Her child was 8 and did not live with her as she gave up her rights; he lived with her parents.

This girl had a younger boyfriend who joined to military to support her. At the beginning of the semester she partied and met a bunch of 18 year old frat boys. One night I awakened to a banging dumset and ran down into the basement to find these fratboys drinking with the 40 year old man and the single mom. I kicked most of them out then went upstairs to find the party mom on the phone with her boyfriend saying that he was a pussy and "we're over." The boyfriend in basic training was shouting on the phone "No wait!!"

That night she had sex with one of those fratboys. Word got out and everyone knew about this.

Eventually the man got out of basic training and they got back together! The guy ignored the fact that she was a party girl and was destined to support her. I believe they got engaged too.

That spring I got the hell out of there.

[–]HumptyDumptyFellHard1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Was in a long distance relationship with my ex. Vistes her only to find out she probably cheated on me, cried, cried on the airplane back then asked her if we were done... c’mon asked her if we were done....

[–]WhatIsLogicFor5001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My friend took a flight from california to sweden to confess his love to a girl from his school who was studying abroad. apparently she opened the door and screamed at him and basically slammed the door in his face and that was it. talk about a long flight back.

[–]gyunbie1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I broke up with my ex while I was still beta lover, because I could see her dragging me way down. 2 months later I tried to get back with her and she said she fucked her ex. The thing is I still wanted to be together. Yes, fuck me.

I don't think there's more beta thing than this, I pity myself now...

[–]DatingTank1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I asked a girl if I could kiss her, and in a terribly weak way even. One of the most beta things I've ever done. But also one of the most alpha thing, or at least one of the most brave things I ever did, because it took a lot of courage to do it, back in the days. And I got the kiss. Better to try something beta than to do nothing and regret it. So go ahead, be beta. If you're even thinking about whether it's beta, then you're most likely not alpha anyway. Yet.

[–]bumbuff1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's a story behind this that I care not to share or it'll sound like excuses.

In summary: I (17) shared a bed with a woman (21) and thought I was being a nice guy by not making any advances on her.

[–]huey7641 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yal aint got shit on me. One time, I snuck out the house at 12 and walked 1:30 hours to get to my crushes house. She had a car. After we hung our, she told me she couldnt give me a ride home, so i had to walk back home. The whole way there i was thinking about her lmao

[–]dani0981 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol. Same. At 35 years old I’m in better shape now than I’ve ever been, ...arguably

Edit. Well no, I get what you’re saying your body has more potential when you’re young for sure. But I found some workarounds. :D

[–]depressedfuckboi2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Texted about my feelings lol. Sent paragraphs trying to convince the bitch to love me or some shit. I physically cringe and honestly try and repress those memories. Pathetic. Weak. Embarrassing.

[–]datduckyo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

i feel you dude. one of the benefits of red pill, is to avoid making mistakes, mistakes that are memories that you can't delete from your head and you are stuck with them. thanks to red pill, we prevent more of these soul crushing memories from being permanently put into our brains

[–]GNlght1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not exactly b4 RP but at the beginning of getting RP I shoot a friend of mine (hb9), who gave me some IOI’s, a message saying β€ž Are you wet again? Little bitchβ€œ because I didn’t want to get friendzoned and was hoping to sexualize things XDDD

[–]agjrpsl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I just shot myself. Someone call 911

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[–]LAdude710 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Anyone have any more beta crap they did...?

[–]Theguygotgame7770 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Even after I discovered the RedPill, there was a time I saw a girl sort of getting harassed by a Tyrone, so I came up behind them and just shouldered my way trough them to separate them. She was like "Thank you!" So when I saw her later on, I asked her for her number and spent a while trying to hang out with her. Because she wasn't interested, the logistics never worked out.

Yeah, Junior Year was not my best year.

[–]BusterVadge0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My first girlfriend. She dumped me, I wrote her a note quoting "our song", attached it to her windshield wiper with a rose.


[–]ThePifta0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh well. I had a good friend back than, but after some things, we hadn't talked to each other for 3 years. Then, at our mutual friend's birthday party we finally met, and talked a bit. After on that summer we did a lot of stuffs together and I fell into love with her. Aaand the best thing, I followed my best friend's advice that "do not rush things", and I never showed that I like her. So jump a bit forth in the story, a few months later I wrote her a poem, and brought flowers to her place, but she didn't wanted to come out, so I left these things in the park near her and told her that "I left here something find it" :D She found it in the following morning, and you know I waited for the answer from her, but she sent me a message after 3 long days, xd yeah she friendzoned me xd

[–]nidham210 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I texted a girl I'm desperate.

[–]xNinja360 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I went out with my ex wife, after she pushed divorce. Shes getting hit on a talking to other guys. It makes me fucking cringe thinking about it.

[–]kennycrab120 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Kept coming to my crush just to say hi and in the last few days of school, I kept hounding her to sign my YB. I cringe every time I think of it

[–]parshal340 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Year and a half long LDR oneitis

[–]Flip_Angelo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve been in relationships with single moms.

Three times.

I never said I was a smart man.

[–]Solenoglyph-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I said to a girl I love you.

[–]Fiendorfoes-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]sebastianconcept-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I had 15y/o and I bought an icecream to a crush on an 8HB but then I didn't know how to escalate to kiss πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ

[–]hibloodstevia-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

It would have been replying to this submission, but I decide not to.

[–]Yavuzest-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

oh bro...

[–]No_Platform_Andy-3 points-2 points  (10 children) | Copy

In my early twenties, had a best friend who was a woman. I met her through her friend. She's a solid 8.5. took her to Starbucks and hiking. Thought she was into me. Then she quickly got into a relationship with some guy. So I got salty, and didn't talk to her for 4 months. Then became friends again as she's still has a boyfriend. Buying her Starbucks, bringing it to her at work by surprise. Taking her out to dinner, and other activities, always offering to pay. Then she became single, and I confessed my love to her. She said she felt the same just wasn't "physically" attracted to me. Still remain friends. I still bring her pizza randomly at night, or surprise her with Starbucks at work. One night ingot drunk and told I still loved her. She took two weeks off from me. Then we became best friends after. Still me going out of my way by choice for her, being there for her, helping her with school work. Now she was a new boyfriend and I treat her exactly the same. I am bluepill.

[–]LeadBandit1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy

Bro you need to stop contacting her immediately and read the sidebar.

[–]No_Platform_Andy-1 points0 points  (8 children) | Copy

I hope you check your phone often. I've read the sidebar and I understand the main goals res pill teaches. But have you ever felt like me?

[–]LeadBandit0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

Sure but that's what this whole thread is about: looking back on old mistakes. However, that's the difference with you- you're still living the bluepill mindset.

[–]No_Platform_Andy0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

But me and her are best friends, I'm supposed to see that as a negative because I'm not dating her and never will so I should hard next her?

[–]LeadBandit1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Do you randomly surprise your guy friends with a free pizza and Starbucks when they're at work?

[–]No_Platform_Andy0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

I rarely hang with my guy friends but you're right I wouldn't.

[–]LeadBandit1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

You should spend more time with men and not a chick who's not into you.

[–]No_Platform_Andy0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Because having someone who understands you and you can be yourself around is not worth if it's a woman?

[–]LeadBandit0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

*someone else's woman

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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