I swallowed the pill this january. And I want to thank the community for opening my eyes.

My before situation, 1st of january 2019:

21yo, kissless virgin, skinny as fuck and small, failing at college. I was basically deep down in a depression hole, playing videogames , socializing with my only friend left, and doing nothing else.

I decided to change my situation and somehow stumbled with theredpill forum, rooshv, rollo , etc..

What did I change?

1. I started to lift seriously, ive become a bit fat in the process but now im big, bigger than most people, and look way better in clothes. Say what you want but the ladies prefer a big man to a skinny kid. And it improves your confidence massively. Basically I gained 20lb in 9 months

2. I changed my focus on studies and found something I enjoy, And i finally put effort on it. Got a job related in the field while I study, so I couldnt be more happy. Looking forward to finish studying soon and land a remote job to travel the world.

3. I finally have an aim/goal in my life, when I used to just watch the days pass without doing anything useful. I did setup a goal to move to another country in 2 years max. And Im almost there , next year im moving to a new country with a job offer, to live a new experience.

4. From being a kissless virgin I went to bang 4 girls during the current year. Im still bad at sex but whatever, im confident that I will keep improving. Last girl I banged was 3 days ago, in the beginning of the year I would have never believed i coould have bang such a hot girl. And guess what? Shes not special, just another girl. There was even a period where I was rotating 2 plates, never would have dreamed of something like that, but it was a big eye opener.

5. Say yes to everything. I have expanded my social circle greatly by doing the mentioned. Even if I was lazy as fuck, I forced myself to hangout with my friends, and it was worth it.

6. Find a hobby. I picked up a new (old) hobby. Mine is skate, and met awesome people in the process.

What have I failed to do?

1. As I said earlier my sex is bad and ive the feeling that this makes my plates dissapear, but whatever Im working on it. Nofap/No deathgrip/Maca/ etc...

2. I havent done a single daygame approach and I should do it. At least to experience it.

3. Despite the massive improvements in my life, my summer was really bad, I had to move back to my parents house for 2 months and it was... bad, so guys try to move out of ur parents house asap, even if you have to live with flatmates (it is actually a good social circle creator)

TLDR: January == Kissless virgin, no job, playing videogames September == Banged 4 girls, became stronger lifting seriously, landed a job that I enjoy and has a good future. Finally have an aim in my life.

I know that all this may not sound like much, but im really happy with who am I becoming. Thanks to everybody who opened my eyes