Veterans of the red pill, drop your top 3 most important pieces of advice

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September 12, 2019
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I really want to know what about the red pill has made the biggest impact on your guys lives. This could be in all aspects, women, career, mental health, becoming successful.


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Title Veterans of the red pill, drop your top 3 most important pieces of advice
Author Snowboard18
Upvotes 68
Comments 96
Date 12 September 2019 01:17 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]OracleofFl128 points129 points  (22 children) | Copy

She is not yours, it is your turn.

You can't negotiate attraction.

Never discuss your feelings with your chick.

[–]mrkinix4 points5 points  (10 children) | Copy

You can't negotiate Attraction.

Someone explain this please.

[–]daddydickie21 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy

"I'll bring you to exotic places for vacation. Buy you dinner. In return you'll have sex with me"

[–]unamedasha2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can negotiate sex (although it is often insulting/degrading to do it explicitly). However, doing these things won't make her attracted. It won't make her want it.

[–]OracleofFl9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she isn't attracted to you (doesn't want to fuck you, whatever), there is nothing you can SAY that is going to change that. If she is branch swinging to another guy, whatever you SAY to her isn't going to change that she is more attracted to the other person. You can MAKE yourself more attractive (increase your SMV) through fitness, dress, becoming more interesting, but you can't negotiate it.

This is important when a chick breaks up with you. Unless it is something you did, she lost attraction for you and the whole "I just gotta talk to her, why won't she take my calls!!!" panic that guys go through is a total waste of time. If you have ANY chance of getting her back (not that you should because she is showing herself to be so shallow) it is by MAKING yourself more attractive.

[–]Itsjustnickg2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

[–]mrkinix0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for both links, interesting read

[–]thrwy754791 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Money can spread her legs, but it won't make her wet.

[–]SolarTortality1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your ability to get money might make her wet

[–]HurricaneHugues1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She either wants you or she doesnt. It's that simple.

[–]Protocol_Apollo-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

As dickie said but also you can’t do things like:

  • choreplay. Where you do chores for exchange of sex.

Essentially you can’t exchange anything for sex apart from sex itself ie your pro of having sex is that you get to have sex with her and her pro of having sex is that she gets to have sex with you (not chores, not money etc).

[–]Dnuts0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You forgot lifting....

[–]OracleofFl2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It said top 3! I already knew about that one!

[–]Alt_Mayday-2 points-1 points  (8 children) | Copy

She is not yours, it is your turn.

What do u mean exactly

[–]showerdudes920 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dont get attached to a borrowed item

[–]Alt_Mayday-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ah now I get it. It was just phrased weirdly

[–]dani0985 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is one thing guy say and I just can’t wrap my head around it. It sounds so fucking weak and beta.

[–]SteveStJohn3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

What do u mean exactly

Read the sidebar.

[–]Alt_Mayday-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

What does the sidebar have to do with this? I didn't understand what he meant because it was worded in a weird way.

Im honestly tired of people just spamming "rEaD tHe sIdEbAr" as a response for everything. Ive read the fucking sidebar prbably 10-20 times already.

[–]fascinate_tempt6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lets be honest. You have not

[–]OracleofFl-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Read to sidebar.

Basically, chicks (particularly young hot ones) are wired for hypergamy. They are on the constant search for the next hotter, more powerful, more successful guy whether or not they are in a relationship.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed80 points81 points  (13 children) | Copy

My highschool biology teacher was wise. His two pieces of advice to me were...

"Don't ever get a monkey as a pet, all they do is masturbate and throw shit around." AKA don't invite unnecessary drama into your life.

and "Don't ever have sex with someone crazier than you are." AKA don't stick your dick in crazy.

Redpill 80's style.

Mine...

of course..."Nobody is going to hand you the life you want."

then HumanSockPuppet..."You are a man. You are the only creature on this planet fit to accomplish anything of worth. And because of that, the rest of the world will always try to twist your mind, or twist your arm; to force you, by deception or by threat of imprisonment, to accomplish their goals instead of your own. Learn to recognize when this is happening, and take back control of your life, so you can do the things that YOU want to do."

then Ghandi..."Nobody can hurt me without my permission."

then Jordan..."I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."

then Patrice O'Neil..."Because if I lose my ability to catch fish, then you not gonna find me sexy no more. So you gotta smell fish on me, so that you know I can catch fish, so you can act right."

Lastly Jack Handey..."If you ever drop your keys into a river of molten lava, let'em go...because man, they're gone."

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K1819 points20 points  (1 child) | Copy

Fuck I love Patrice. He really shows that it actually is ok to discuss fight club, in a sense. Sometimes you have to change a woman's thinking. This is easier as you get older.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Patrice fan here. Check out this hilarious clip of Patrice talking about Fight Club:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfipIzr4JXE

Check out this Patrice discussing movies playlist:

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=patrice+movies

On top of being the ultimate RP machine he was also a huge movie buff and had some excellent takes on modern cinema

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're a fuckin historian.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (8 children) | Copy

Ghandi was lucky it was the British he was protesting against. Try that against most other empires throughout history and they'd find a way to hurt you without your permission lol Communist China is currently demonstrating this in Hong Kong.

[–]Reformed650 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Tell me where I can find this luck you speak of.

[–]bruiser18-2 points-1 points  (6 children) | Copy

The British were one of the most evil empires in history...

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yeah, that's total bullshit mate. You need to learn history and not just take in the SJW propaganda.

[–]bruiser183 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

You’re obviously taught differently in school.

SJW propaganda, wtf? I live in Ireland - a country who’s population was reduced by half in the 19th century as a result of British genocide, who’s language and traditions were stomped out and replaced with anglicized customs, where practicing our religion was illegal (google: penal laws Ireland), and these are just several examples. This is a country that was subject to British oppression for over 800 years, and this is not the only one. This happened the world over.

So no, mate. That is not total bullshit.

[–]chandler_roark 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Oh, you're Irish. Go figure. Tell me, when was the last time "the British" oppressed you in your life?

[–]bruiser180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Tell me where I blamed the British for my problems personally? Because I didn’t.

I spoke of what they did to Ireland, as in, the country.

Some empires were better and worse than others.

You don’t say? Yeah they built much of the modern world, that doesn’t justify the evilness of their actions.

[–]skuttt0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You’re clearly too emotional about it to see it rationally. Just saying. You still need to take the pill.

[–]bruiser181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re right, I’ve caught feelings for the British empire.

All Empire Are Like That

Hard next, spin other empires.

[–]Bluedog5x50 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wait I’m being a muscle-head is Patrice referring to plate theory?

[–]boy_named_su33 points34 points  (1 child) | Copy

Stay in shape. Chat up everyone. Don't nut in her

[–]SolarTortality2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Golden

[–]BarackTheObama21 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy

Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.

U can never trust a man that seeks female validation.

Also the world isn‘t Black and White and sometimes there is more to it than just „your turn“

[–]showerdudes91 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Can never trust a man who wont dance either

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil68 points69 points  (18 children) | Copy

  • The body can rot the mind, which is to say fat people are usually slow and stupid. The mind can rot the body which is to say some beliefs are physically degenerative such as feminism, liberalism and materialism.

  • Technology is destroying people's ability to think criticaly. Read difficult books to keep yourself sharp and no fagy self improvement books don't count. Those are for illiterate morons.

  • One of the most important qualities a man has is the ability to handle a lot of stress. You can increase your stress capacity by brutalizing yourself in the gym with high intensity workouts. Beta Cucks don't lift so you can use this high stress capacity to apply pressure.

  • The stronger physically mentally and intellectually you are the easier it will be to brutalize your competition when the need arises.

  • Masculinity is competition

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

u/GayLubeOil,you always sound like Ayn Rand's spawn.

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's concerning because the comment your responding to should out me as a hardline anti Objectivist. Which means you didn't read Ayn Rand well.

[–]nobody_thinks-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

any rand was a feminist cunt

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I recently read Schopenhauer's manifesto on Women. Anything you really recommend?

[–]Mister_Lymon_Zerga0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My favourite books:

Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman!

Man's Search for Meaning

Do Work - Cal Newport

Siddhartha - Hermann Hess

[–]SolarTortality-3 points-2 points  (12 children) | Copy

The 48 laws of Power

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil7 points8 points  (11 children) | Copy

Is a book for corperate faggots who's first rule is to be a bourgeois normie conformie: think as you like and behave like others.

Anyone who thinks think as you like and behave like others is masculintity advice is subhuman.

[–]huey7642 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

You read Julius Evola?

[–]jaxmurr0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Google "TRP bookshelf challenge gaylubeoil."

[–]SolarTortality0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

^ This is your brain on trying to hard to look like the alpha. There is trying to appear powerful and then there is actual cultivation of power continuously across decades.

That being said, the rule who are bitching about isn’t an absolute rule. Anyone who can’t derive immense value from the book is a complete contrarian homo.

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

A book that litteraly tells people to confirm and behave like others, offends no one and is enjoyed by beta rubes is an alpha guide? What a fucking retard. Hey let's do what all the other corperate beta fags do and hope for a different result!

Americans are deracinated Europeans who lack internal substance. They are hollow men with no values. A sales pitch without a product. This is their book.

48 laws of power is a method without a motive which is a perfect match for the purile American mind, a mind that just wants to follow rules and is too stupid to ask why.

[–]SolarTortality-3 points-2 points  (6 children) | Copy

Cope harder europoor

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy

Brilliant amerimut counterargument

[–]SolarTortality-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy

The 48 laws of power is not a guidebook to be alpha. I don’t know where you are getting that from, it’s a Machiavellian analysis of power dynamics. Parts of it are fucked up, it isn’t a guide for how to live your life, especially if you value ethics.

What it is though, is a book that will increase your awareness of the game of power, it will allow you to see deeper into the games other people are playing and if you have some amount of intelligence then maybe you can outmaneuver them.

Of course, if you are a 0.001 percentile gigachad then you will have no need for power strategy nor any need for analyzing the power strategy of others. If you were really that good, however, you wouldn’t be on this subreddit.

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

I hope you understand how everything you just wrote affirms my criticism of 48 Laws of Power as a bourgeois liberal conformity manual.

[–]SolarTortality0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

If you cherrypick from about 3 chapters then sure. I found it broadened my awareness of why powerful people do what they do, and how I can exploit that to increase my own power. I’m not going to argue anymore though. Your criticisms seem to come from an emotionally charged place, probably hatred of Jews or something lol

[–]caius10010 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Never see a woman as a priority.

Appreciate your family or close ones, because, in the end, they are the only ones that truly care about you without a hidden agenda. And always take the beer with the boys over a late night fuck. Always.

Knowing people opens doors. So start getting to know people. Not just random people, but men of value.

To be accepted amongst men of value, you have to be a man of value. Become one by constantly improving yourself.

Last but not least, don’t be a fucking pussy. Accept who you are. Don’t be ashamed of it. Improvement is necessary, but love yourself during the whole process.

[–]BeeBopJoe20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy

1 - money is priority, work on getting your career established 2 - lift like an animal 3 - avoid exerting energy on things/people who drain it

[–]Deathrow221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

3 is very important especially if you are new to RP

[–]1RainySeasonInPH32 points33 points  (1 child) | Copy

  • Women are children. Not metaphorically children, or existentially children, actually children. They are not able to mentally develop into adulthood. Stop resenting this, and treat them as such, and pretty much everything else follows.

  • Fuck what other people think. You do you. You literally do not know anything that you haven't proven to to be true, for yourself. Stick to that.

  • This last one is not specifically a RP teaching, but I'm gonna put it in here, for the many young guys on the sub: Time is short. Shorter than you think. By the time you are in your thirties, the tone and possibilities of the rest of your life will have been decided finally. Take risks now, intelligently, while you are young, when you can still recover from them. Gamble to win now, while you have an excess of energy. You have no idea how quickly that energy will run out.

[–]dani09812 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

The tone of your life is definitely not decided in your 30s. I’m gonna have to completely disagree with thst. But they are wise words

[–]re4d35 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

You do what you like, being unapologizing for yourself. You don't give a fuck what lesser people think. This might range from a criminal to redpilled leader of your family, choice is yours.

You keep your sports routine, which makes an iron skeleton of your schedule. Running, exercising in my case.

You feel comfortable making other people feel uncomfortable.

[–]UnbreakableFrame5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Blame yourself for everything you dislike about your life and you will always be the one with the power to change it.

  2. Never stop reading, exercising, eating well, and sleeping well. Even a house of cards can stand tall on a stable foundation.

  3. Don't hate women.

[–]Vouch33r5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Suffer in silence

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY20024 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's not yours, it's your turn.

Don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Be better today than yesterday.

[–]JohnPettimore5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

There are three major influencers of human behavior -- money, sex and status. This stuff is incredibly powerful, and usually unspoken.

Never, ever become dependent on a woman. For anything. They will always, sooner or later, use it for leverage.

Become the Gray Man. The less people actually know about you, the better.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear2223 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Write your short term, intermediate, and long term goals down IN INK on a piece of paper twice. One goes on your bathroom mirror, the other goes in your wallet. Every year, rewrite them.

Seek to make uncomfortable things comfortable for you.

Build close relationships with strong valued men and nurture them. Women will come and go always, true friends are hard to come by.

[–]T-P-T-W-P2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m not a “veteran” as I’m still in my early-mid twenties, I began with decent SMV/ game but RP expounded further on that/opened my eyes. Always had a feeling there was some form of deeper framework to society and TRP definitely put some of these things into perspective . I would say my three are:

  • Trust your gut and use common sense. I see so many threads on here asking for acute advice. No situation in your life is ever going to be the same. This is not a place for one off answers, it’s a place to better equip you for handling it yourself.

  • Do not use women as a barometer of success if you are swallowing the pill. Women grow less and less interesting the more experience you have. If you do improve and establish abundance, you will quickly realize how hollow the whole thing is in terms of truly fulfilling you. Until you want children, make them a fun hobby and grind towards the more important things you want in life.

  • Minimize your words while maximizing their weight when it comes to speaking.

[–]whoareyou311 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

I see alot of people say having more money is important. Can someone elaborate on this?

[–]i-am-the-prize5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've been incredibly poor, nearly homeless as a teen. And I've been comfortable and what my former self would call 'rich'.

Money does not buy happiness.

but..

the lack of money does bring misery, in a multitude of ways:

  • lack of choices
  • lack of provisions
  • shit options
  • time monopolization
  • lessens your ability to pass up bad income streams

So focus on being "not poor" for starters, so you can think beyond sustenance. That's the key.

Being able to travel and occasionally stay in a legendary location/hotel/inn/spa/resort/chalet and sip the best life has to offer can be fun. But it's not necessary and won't make you truly happy, it's a treat; a reward for a job(s) well done. But the real reward is overcoming the adversity and challenge that along the way, if done with passion, will make you the dough.

Real happiness comes from within. And lack of money is what takes your focus away from working on your mission: ie: if you're working 2 shit jobs, hard to find time for the gym, self care, gaming/dating, and working on "long term" goals and projects.

So: have enough money to support your goals and mission, that's the important part. Set some aside for a rainy day (ie: 6 months income in liquid funds). Some traditional investments. Some passive income from side gig. And an active side hustle to keep your juices flowing (could be day trading, could be service economy, could be selling dildo's online - a friend of mine and his wife opened up a shop doing this, holy crap they're doing ok!)

[–]alittletoosmooth3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Money = options. It's not necessary, but it sure as hell makes things easier.

[–]Idontgetitboyz-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well if you have money you can afford a gym sub and food. You get in great shape. If you have money you afford going out, so you meet people and can work on your approach skills. And these are the most basic things you can do.

[–]theredsperg 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

If you have money, you can pay for sex for one.

ie skip this whole go to the gym/dating or whatever

[–]RossDDMarshalls2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dating is trivial, but hitting the gym is way more important than sex.

[–]RStonePT1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Stop asking for advice and do something
  2. Yes, that 'reason' you had for why you weren't doing that thing was lame and you're bullshitting yourself
  3. Fuck you value leech, everyone here isn't your dad, you ain't shit and thats OK

[–]FiveStarTendieDinner4 points5 points  (9 children) | Copy

Life is about domination. Fuck everyone else.

Money is the end all be all. The more money you have. The more power you can buy.

Anything and anyone can be exploited for personal gain. Whether it's the mental health crisis, opioid epidemic, political leveraging. Use that shit for your own gain.

The truest measure of a man is how badly he can fuck up another man without killing them.

[–]showerdudes97 points8 points  (7 children) | Copy

Youre getting confidence from external validation. You need to be able to be at peace, happy and confident af even if you are broke. If you cant do that, you will always be mentally weak

[–]Startlivingfornow-2 points-1 points  (5 children) | Copy

Lmfao. If you are happy while broke you are mentally weak. No one should be happy with being a loser

[–]showerdudes93 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yes you should be absolutely, super fucking happy and confident even if you're homeless and dont have a dime to your name, while also super motivated to sort your shit and make money. The moment you start relying on validation from external sources, aka money/girls, is the moment you lose in life, period, because that means your strenght and confidence will always come from external validation and only real losers and weakminded individuals get their confidence from that.

You think you have a better chance at sorting your shit if youre confident and happy while broke, or depressed, sad, angry?

[–]Startlivingfornow0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Happiness is temporary as is sadness. Misery is also a component of success, going first to a place of feeling like a rookie to then solving your sticking points and eventually improving.

Paying too much attention to your emotional state will only hold you back.

A solutions orientated mindset - or positive mindset as it has been coined - is essential, but this is not the same as happiness, as you must acknowledge that you are miserable and need to change. (Self-awareness)

[–]showerdudes90 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Happiness is temporary as is sadness

Says who? Stop mumbling cliche quotes.

You can strive to change, and you will do so much easier by being happy with exactly where you are, yet strive to improve, to be better than you were yesterday. Misery need not to have any sort of place in your life at all, even if you're broke.

[–]Startlivingfornow0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Improvement is not a happy state by default. It’s the very reason that 90% of people involved in self improvement don’t change.

Improvement involves facing your ego and all the bullshit you tell yourself so you can smile even when your life is terrible.

If you think that’s a happy process, feel free to share what you’re doing with me, because I’ve gone from average to top 10-20% in terms of looks, income, and game and l’ll be blunt with you, it was fun as hell but there were times where the lows were lower than I’ve ever experienced.

Happy to hear more about your journey, unless you’re just touting something you’ve read in a Mark Manson book

[–]showerdudes90 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It absolutely is a happy , enjoyable state by default if you have the correct mindset. Look at arnold interviews. He always mentions how much he was smiling in the gym, people kept asking him why he was so happy all the time while others looked so miserable grinding their weights - he said simplt because he had the correct mindset. The happyness came from knowing each rep he made took him closer to his goals.

Ive been at the bottom, deeper than most people here for sure. Close to death-rock bottom and dug myself out of it with the correct mindset. Its irrelevant though as its anecdotal. But ive not gone from average, ive gone from bottom 1% in terms of physical, mental and economical - to top 20 in all aspects.

”Fun” is completely irrelevant too. Feeling positive and happy about being challanged and beating them is key, no matter how brutal the challenge. I had parents and fiance of 8 years plus best friend die within 2 years back to back. That was the biggest mental challange for me. Im not even going to get started on the physical ones which were way worse than average obesity or skinnyfuck trying to put on some musclemass. Also during all of this i permanently lost sense of smell+taste. Im still happier and more positive and confident than 99% of men i meet.

[–]nobody_thinks1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

this is how women think.

men think in terms of hierarchies / groups / gangs.

eventually there has to be in-group collaboration or your group becomes weak and is genocided.

[–]RibRack0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Frame is still relevant when interacting with other men, jobs sites or work spaces, and in your free time.

You have to make things happen for your self, no one will hand you anything.

It’s ok to take a second and think something through, even if you are under pressure, breathing goes a long way.

[–]rpgedgar0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Read every day. Expanding your knowledge and vocabulary will give you more ways to experience and interact with the world.

[–]Korque_30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

-whats the worst that can happen -cowardice can actually hinder your growth, get the fuck out there. -tie your shoes and quit trippin

[–]maljo240 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Be confident. Be fit. Pursue your dreams and goals.

[–]XT3M30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

  • red pill while effective for getting girls really should be used to better your life as a whole and not just chasing women.

  • if you want to do something, just do it and own it , who cares if other people thinks your hobbies suck. just do it if it'll make you happy.

  • it is possible to be a "decent" person and to also have a fucking backbone. i reconmend reading no more mr nice guy. people want to be liked and to never have people hate them even if that means putting their own happiness to the shelf. fuck that. learn that people will just walk all over you if you keep that shit up. if you want tondo a "favor or a good deed" know why exactly you are doing it and not because you dont want someone to be pissed off at you.

at the same time, you dont need to be a "total asswipe" to be red pilled. most people here when they start off go from being mr awkward nice guy to the awkward neighborhood edgy jackass cause they think being alpha is being a outright dick. a bit a balance is needed as thanos said.

  • bonus: friendship with women isnt going to go the way you hoped 90% of the time especially if she sees you as her beta, its a one sided friendship . test to see if you have a quality female friend, ask them to do you a random favor and see what they do or how they react. moreso if you'll do favors for her with no questions asked. most of the time you'll get an excuse. I'll guarantee it

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

1) You are the master of your frame. You decide what does and doesn't enter it. The single greatest weapon you can have in defending your frame is amused mastery. You are the shit and everything that challenges that doesn't exist,or is at best amusing.

2) Learn to never place too much value in things/people outside of your control.

3)Laugh. Fucking laugh at all of it. The flakes, the sketchiness, the women, the game. Laugh. Enjoy yourself

4) Lift, motherfucker. Always lift. That is the secret ingredient. The shit that never lies.

5) There is never failure. Always learning opportunities. If you take everything as a chance to learn and improve, even when you lose something, the long-term gain can be far greater.

Yes, I did 5.

[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

  1. Read the sidebar

  2. There's a sidebar on the main sub, check it out

  3. Check the sidebar

    There are no shortcuts to learning the TRP material.

[–]Snowboard18[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I’m not looking for a shortcut, just simply asking the vets what impacted them the most

[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

In other words, you want evryone here to list a bunch of cliff notes so u don't have to read the sidebar. You might think we're all stupid here, but count me out. You're the one who will never learn anything

[–]Snowboard18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bitch I’ve read the sidebar multiple times it’s just a question chill the hell out



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