Veterans of the red pill, drop your top 3 most important pieces of advice

OracleofFl · 2019-09-12T03:17:26+00:00

She is not yours, it is your turn.

You can't negotiate attraction.

Never discuss your feelings with your chick.

FereallyRed · 2019-09-12T01:38:57+00:00

My highschool biology teacher was wise. His two pieces of advice to me were...

"Don't ever get a monkey as a pet, all they do is masturbate and throw shit around." AKA don't invite unnecessary drama into your life.

and "Don't ever have sex with someone crazier than you are." AKA don't stick your dick in crazy.

Redpill 80's style.

Mine...

of course..."Nobody is going to hand you the life you want."

then HumanSockPuppet..."You are a man. You are the only creature on this planet fit to accomplish anything of worth. And because of that, the rest of the world will always try to twist your mind, or twist your arm; to force you, by deception or by threat of imprisonment, to accomplish their goals instead of your own. Learn to recognize when this is happening, and take back control of your life, so you can do the things that YOU want to do."

then Ghandi..."Nobody can hurt me without my permission."

then Jordan..."I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."

then Patrice O'Neil..."Because if I lose my ability to catch fish, then you not gonna find me sexy no more. So you gotta smell fish on me, so that you know I can catch fish, so you can act right."

Lastly Jack Handey..."If you ever drop your keys into a river of molten lava, let'em go...because man, they're gone."

boy_named_su · 2019-09-12T03:37:50+00:00

Stay in shape. Chat up everyone. Don't nut in her

BarackTheObama · 2019-09-12T09:21:25+00:00

Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.

U can never trust a man that seeks female validation.

Also the world isn‘t Black and White and sometimes there is more to it than just „your turn“

GayLubeOil · 2019-09-12T05:09:18+00:00

The body can rot the mind, which is to say fat people are usually slow and stupid. The mind can rot the body which is to say some beliefs are physically degenerative such as feminism, liberalism and materialism.
Technology is destroying people's ability to think criticaly. Read difficult books to keep yourself sharp and no fagy self improvement books don't count. Those are for illiterate morons.
One of the most important qualities a man has is the ability to handle a lot of stress. You can increase your stress capacity by brutalizing yourself in the gym with high intensity workouts. Beta Cucks don't lift so you can use this high stress capacity to apply pressure.
The stronger physically mentally and intellectually you are the easier it will be to brutalize your competition when the need arises.
Masculinity is competition

caius100 · 2019-09-12T11:48:19+00:00

Never see a woman as a priority.

Appreciate your family or close ones, because, in the end, they are the only ones that truly care about you without a hidden agenda. And always take the beer with the boys over a late night fuck. Always.

Knowing people opens doors. So start getting to know people. Not just random people, but men of value.

To be accepted amongst men of value, you have to be a man of value. Become one by constantly improving yourself.

Last but not least, don’t be a fucking pussy. Accept who you are. Don’t be ashamed of it. Improvement is necessary, but love yourself during the whole process.

BeeBopJoe · 2019-09-12T02:29:00+00:00

1 - money is priority, work on getting your career established 2 - lift like an animal 3 - avoid exerting energy on things/people who drain it

RainySeasonInPH · 2019-09-12T05:12:21+00:00

Women are children. Not metaphorically children, or existentially children, actually children. They are not able to mentally develop into adulthood. Stop resenting this, and treat them as such, and pretty much everything else follows.
Fuck what other people think. You do you. You literally do not know anything that you haven't proven to to be true, for yourself. Stick to that.
This last one is not specifically a RP teaching, but I'm gonna put it in here, for the many young guys on the sub: Time is short. Shorter than you think. By the time you are in your thirties, the tone and possibilities of the rest of your life will have been decided finally. Take risks now, intelligently, while you are young, when you can still recover from them. Gamble to win now, while you have an excess of energy. You have no idea how quickly that energy will run out.

re4d3 · 2019-09-12T07:36:19+00:00

You do what you like, being unapologizing for yourself. You don't give a fuck what lesser people think. This might range from a criminal to redpilled leader of your family, choice is yours.

You keep your sports routine, which makes an iron skeleton of your schedule. Running, exercising in my case.

You feel comfortable making other people feel uncomfortable.

UnbreakableFrame · 2019-09-12T12:44:55+00:00

Blame yourself for everything you dislike about your life and you will always be the one with the power to change it.
Never stop reading, exercising, eating well, and sleeping well. Even a house of cards can stand tall on a stable foundation.
Don't hate women.

Vouch33r · 2019-09-12T08:18:42+00:00

Suffer in silence

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2019-09-12T10:07:16+00:00

She's not yours, it's your turn.

Don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Be better today than yesterday.

JohnPettimore · 2019-09-12T14:12:00+00:00

There are three major influencers of human behavior -- money, sex and status. This stuff is incredibly powerful, and usually unspoken.

Never, ever become dependent on a woman. For anything. They will always, sooner or later, use it for leverage.

Become the Gray Man. The less people actually know about you, the better.

Metalgear222 · 2019-09-12T15:01:07+00:00

Write your short term, intermediate, and long term goals down IN INK on a piece of paper twice. One goes on your bathroom mirror, the other goes in your wallet. Every year, rewrite them.

Seek to make uncomfortable things comfortable for you.

Build close relationships with strong valued men and nurture them. Women will come and go always, true friends are hard to come by.

T-P-T-W-P · 2019-09-12T12:59:06+00:00

I’m not a “veteran” as I’m still in my early-mid twenties, I began with decent SMV/ game but RP expounded further on that/opened my eyes. Always had a feeling there was some form of deeper framework to society and TRP definitely put some of these things into perspective . I would say my three are:

Trust your gut and use common sense. I see so many threads on here asking for acute advice. No situation in your life is ever going to be the same. This is not a place for one off answers, it’s a place to better equip you for handling it yourself.
Do not use women as a barometer of success if you are swallowing the pill. Women grow less and less interesting the more experience you have. If you do improve and establish abundance, you will quickly realize how hollow the whole thing is in terms of truly fulfilling you. Until you want children, make them a fun hobby and grind towards the more important things you want in life.
Minimize your words while maximizing their weight when it comes to speaking.

whoareyou31 · 2019-09-12T08:37:26+00:00

I see alot of people say having more money is important. Can someone elaborate on this?

RStonePT · 2019-09-12T15:11:35+00:00

Stop asking for advice and do something
Yes, that 'reason' you had for why you weren't doing that thing was lame and you're bullshitting yourself
Fuck you value leech, everyone here isn't your dad, you ain't shit and thats OK

FiveStarTendieDinner · 2019-09-12T05:56:07+00:00

Life is about domination. Fuck everyone else.

Money is the end all be all. The more money you have. The more power you can buy.

Anything and anyone can be exploited for personal gain. Whether it's the mental health crisis, opioid epidemic, political leveraging. Use that shit for your own gain.

The truest measure of a man is how badly he can fuck up another man without killing them.

RibRack · 2019-09-12T13:48:21+00:00

Frame is still relevant when interacting with other men, jobs sites or work spaces, and in your free time.

You have to make things happen for your self, no one will hand you anything.

It’s ok to take a second and think something through, even if you are under pressure, breathing goes a long way.

rpgedgar · 2019-09-12T14:56:00+00:00

Read every day. Expanding your knowledge and vocabulary will give you more ways to experience and interact with the world.

Korque_3 · 2019-09-12T15:02:27+00:00

-whats the worst that can happen -cowardice can actually hinder your growth, get the fuck out there. -tie your shoes and quit trippin

maljo24 · 2019-09-12T17:34:27+00:00

Be confident. Be fit. Pursue your dreams and goals.

XT3M3 · 2019-09-12T20:58:45+00:00

red pill while effective for getting girls really should be used to better your life as a whole and not just chasing women.
if you want to do something, just do it and own it , who cares if other people thinks your hobbies suck. just do it if it'll make you happy.
it is possible to be a "decent" person and to also have a fucking backbone. i reconmend reading no more mr nice guy. people want to be liked and to never have people hate them even if that means putting their own happiness to the shelf. fuck that. learn that people will just walk all over you if you keep that shit up. if you want tondo a "favor or a good deed" know why exactly you are doing it and not because you dont want someone to be pissed off at you.

at the same time, you dont need to be a "total asswipe" to be red pilled. most people here when they start off go from being mr awkward nice guy to the awkward neighborhood edgy jackass cause they think being alpha is being a outright dick. a bit a balance is needed as thanos said.

bonus: friendship with women isnt going to go the way you hoped 90% of the time especially if she sees you as her beta, its a one sided friendship . test to see if you have a quality female friend, ask them to do you a random favor and see what they do or how they react. moreso if you'll do favors for her with no questions asked. most of the time you'll get an excuse. I'll guarantee it

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-09-13T01:11:52+00:00

1) You are the master of your frame. You decide what does and doesn't enter it. The single greatest weapon you can have in defending your frame is amused mastery. You are the shit and everything that challenges that doesn't exist,or is at best amusing.

2) Learn to never place too much value in things/people outside of your control.

3)Laugh. Fucking laugh at all of it. The flakes, the sketchiness, the women, the game. Laugh. Enjoy yourself

4) Lift, motherfucker. Always lift. That is the secret ingredient. The shit that never lies.

5) There is never failure. Always learning opportunities. If you take everything as a chance to learn and improve, even when you lose something, the long-term gain can be far greater.

Yes, I did 5.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-09-12T20:18:08+00:00

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Title	Veterans of the red pill, drop your top 3 most important pieces of advice
Author	Snowboard18
Upvotes	68
Comments	96
Date	12 September 2019 01:17 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	askTRP
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/252925
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