When I turned 18, I went to the club with my friends for the first time. This is back when I used to smoke everyday and waste my life, basically a complete loser. So shocker that I didn't get anywhere with the females that night. Even some of them made their way away from me, and me a nd my beta friends literally just danced till the club closed.

This was one of the worst nights of my life, somehow took control of my life after a few more down points and now I'm here.

Planning on going to the club again since that night with new group of friends, and I don't want to strike out. I'm not the guy I was last year, completely leaned out and learned how to fuck women senseless.

Any tips on how to feel like I belong at the club while I'm there. I still don't feel comfortable grinding on random girls, not because I care what they think but because I feel like I was "raised to be a better man". I see other guys who just seem to know what to do and say even though you can't make any conversation over the music.