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Wife hinting at threesome? Tips?

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September 13, 2019
8 upvotes

So me and my wife have been together for a few years, have a great sex life. Were into bdsm and let's just say she likes to call me 'Daddy' lol. We have not tried threesomes or anything yet but we did go on a trip with another couple friends of ours about a year ago and one drunken night the other woman tried to kiss mine (which my wife rejected). In discussing that night I told her that I have always had an ffm fantasy with her and she said she could never share me, has never had experience with a woman and we haven't really brought it up since... But she has made little comments here or there like "bet you like this' when a lesbian scene comes on tv or one time she asked if I'd be okay with her having a girlfriend who she hangs out with alone and hooks up with alone, I said 'im not okay with that shit. But I think it's okay for a couple to explore a threesome together as a shared experience". Her comments didn't seem to be positive but did seem slightly curious.

Fast forward to now, my wife's best friend is coming in from out of town and staying with us for the weekend. I don't know her friend that well, we have always gotten along well and maybe I sensed some sexual tension, but I know my wife talks to her often and that she is her best female friend. Anyway my wife has said a few things that seem out of character and are confusing to me. She asked me on different occasions things like "you're gonna have 2 girlfriends that weekend" and "you'll be our Daddy that weekend"... My first thought is it's a shit test but this of course has me intrigued and hopeful that she is hinting at some kind of potential threesome. However, based on her past actions and comments it seems out of character. Is she just playing with me knowing I have this fantasy of does it sound like she may have something up her sleeve? This is something I would definitely like to try someday so I want to approach it delicately and encourage appropriately if she is interested. Even if she is just joking, I would think that means she is warming up to the idea by making a tease about the subject, right? I welcome any advice from people who have had similar developments with their spouses. Thanks for the input 👍


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Title Wife hinting at threesome? Tips?
Author skizzum97
Upvotes 8
Comments 54
Date 13 September 2019 06:18 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/253142
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/d3tb5h/wife_hinting_at_threesome_tips/
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[–]tom-anonymous13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

It's a trap.

Expect her to be asking if Chad can join in a few months...

[–]coinbaserep3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

With her and her girlfriend , while he watches. If he’s lucky

[–]FRedington0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

He gets to clean up Chad's mess.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red27 points28 points  (9 children) | Copy

Dont do it.

[–]InChargeManRed Beret3 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy

Didn't expect that from you...

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red8 points9 points  (6 children) | Copy

Why not?

I speak from experience.

A MFF threesome has the statistical odds to ruin a non-open (from the start) marriage relationship.

[–]InChargeManRed Beret6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy

Just saying, usually you're talking about buttplugs and shit...

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

OP asked a specific question to his situation. I provide input based off my experience at the time to a similar situation.

I am single now, and would MFF all fucking weekend long.

Had a butt plug in fitchick last night for a while. Already anal training her.

Perspective bro.

[–]InChargeManRed Beret6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's my Red :)

[–]RP_PO0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I was worried for a bit

[–]SepeanRed Beret7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Buttplugs are trivial. Threesomes are a minefield.

[–]helaughsinhidden2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep, don't to it, it's a trap!

[–]Imaginary_Historian8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy

I've seen this end many marriages. If you want to be with two girls, find two girls to be with. Do not involve your wife unless you want your marriage to end.

The only thing that does work is a guy secretly seeing women on the side. That said, pursuing a three-way with a plate you don't care about is perfectly fine.

[–]Balls_Wellington_6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is how a dear friend of mine got talked into opening the relationship and that ended with him and a scrawny Asian dude splitting who got to sleep with her at night.

I'd still probably do it, though. I'm just a moth in front of a candle.

[–]Praexology8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exclusively attracted to your inevitable demise. Lol

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret13 points14 points  (3 children) | Copy

Nope. Either

1) She eventually wants a MMF

Or

2) She’s testing you

[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

It’s both

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

Or it could be that he is so Alpha (at the time) that wife would rather share her HVH (high value husband) with another woman to keep him happy.

Until his faggot ass slips up, then she will never shut the fuck up about it, use it in divorce court against him and tell all their friends and family he cheated on her, even though she used a double ended dildo anally with the other woman.

But hey, that part never fucking happened.

[–]Over60_FireTempered3Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Until his faggot ass slips up, then she will never shut the fuck up about it, use it in divorce court against him and tell all their friends and family he cheated on her, even though she used a double ended dildo anally with the other woman.

I think I read that book, somewhere...

[–]situations_135 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

Deny until she makes it glaring obvious that’s what she wants. Make her be the one to cross the line. Also don’t do it with the best friend. Never a good idea. I would also side with she’s not really hinting at a threesome with her best friend. Best friends are like sisters and that’s just weird. Also you’ll probably have to encounter her again and again through the marriage.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Chick wrote this.

[–]Cam_Winston21[🍰] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Either that or someone who overthinks.

"So me and my wife have been together for a few years" as an intro, screams 'chick'.

She asked me on different occasions things like "you're gonna have 2 girlfriends that weekend" and "you'll be our Daddy that weekend"... My first thought is it's a shit test but this of course has me intrigued and hopeful that she is hinting at some kind of potential threesome.

That's quite the leap.

OP, I found a penny in the parking lot, does that mean I should extrapolate that to mean I'm winning this weekend's powerball?

[–]itiswr1ttenRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Use her testing as a platform for massive free dread and take zero action on the MFF party.

Hamster will spin a bazillion times harder on no attempt to get the 3some.

[–]0io-Tsundere2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Comments on here are too negative. OP should go for it. What would Uncle Vasya do? What would Chad do? I know what I would do... go for it. If she wants to go fuck Chad she'll do that with or without OP having a threesome.

[–]SepeanRed Beret4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

I have no ffm experience so I can’t say if you should do it, but if she is shit testing you the pass is to make the threesome happen. The way you describe your relationship, I can’t see her baiting you into going for the threesome and then getting angry at you for wanting another girl or whatever. That’s something wives do to their beta husbands, but a sub to her dom? That seems out of character.

[–]that_italia_guy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If u want the threesome, I would actually talk about it seriously with her. You and her should try to get on the same page for expectations, what's mainly off limits and what each other are comfortable doing and not doing in the situation. I don't think this is a trap, I think your girl is more adventurous than you think and is waiting for you to take lead on this. If she actually gets upset over it, than that is that, and at least you guys know where you stand when it comes to this stuff.

[–]Iammrp22 points3 points  (9 children) | Copy

A month later "Ex Wife branch swung to another woman. Help!"

Everyone else is saying don't do it, it's a shit test etc but honestly I'd do it. Fuck it. If she branch swings who cares. Fuck two chicks at the same time and move on.

If she's just joking and it's a shit test who cares about that either. My wife knows I'd like to fuck two chicks at the same time. I don't hide my sexuality. Just be like yeah that'd be great don't forget the whip and I'll bring the cream.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red8 points9 points  (8 children) | Copy

If she branch swings who cares.

Ya know, you talk a big game lately about how "easy" it is to walk away.

You fucking married bro? I forget?

It aint fucking easy to walk away.

[–]Iammrp24 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy

I never said it would be easy. I know you have kids which makes it hard. I asked you in your OYS post how that's going. Looking at your comments it looks tough. I don't doubt it is.

Back to my comment, it looks like OP doesn't have any kids. IMO married without kids is not much different from dating. So why not do what you want. If he does have kids then he's a retard and needs to be putting his energy into those little rugrats.

I'm married with kids

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Even without kids - being married means she can go fuck Chad and take half your shit and there’s nothing you can do. At some point you will realize kids make no difference - my kids play zero into my decision they will be fine either way. Once the states involved it’s hard mode either way mother fucker.

[–]tspitsatgp5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Really? I could give zero fucks about splitting my wealth - who gives a shit. I will make it all back or I won’t. When I married her I had zero. The only thing I really care about is not having to pay spousal support because after the separation I want a clean break.

Not spending every Christmas with the kids? Now that’s going to suck. But that’s me.

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Think about the quality time you would spend with them - as much as you want you can’t be around 100% of the time now some of that time you are likely not fully engaged. You are worried about holidays but I guarantee taking your kids somewhere on vacation or camping or something else will be more memorable for them.

You won’t get a clean break just not possible - you will pay alimony and she will take half your stuff. You basically will be paying her to get pumped and dumped by an army of Chads until she decides to give up and find another beta bux. Marriage 2.0 is a flawed institution there is no solution other than not be married and if you already are well you are fucked.

[–]Iammrp20 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I enjoy seeing my kids everyday and divorce hurts kids. No debate about that. And splitting the wealth isn't a big deal to me. I just don't want to get divorce raped and pay alimony horseshit. Wife works so that shouldn't happen. And I live in a state with good divorce laws.

That said, I wouldn't let that be a factor for staying. If it's over then kill it and move on with your life. I don't say that lightly. Ive been seriously considering it the last few months. And having that mentality makes me realize the truth behind saying the stay plan is the go plan. Getting yourself ready for the next phase puts the life back in you. Sexual energy is why we do anything anyway. When we become beta fat fucks the life leaves us.

Single. Married. Kids. No kids. Doesn't fucking matter. You have one job. Be a bad ass mother fucker.

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Welcome to proving my point - kids don’t matter in the grand scheme of things and I actually don’t personally think money matters but it will put a huge damper on shit if you have to live off 25% of your income.

Honestly at this point the only thing that matters to me is I do what I want and I make myself happy. It’s all a bunch of bullshit anyone - at the end of the day you go in the ground regardless. I’m sure as shit going to enjoy the little time I have on this earth.

[–]Iammrp21 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Your last paragraph is right on but you make it sound like a bad thing. Doing what you want is a good thing. Arguably the most good thing. All men who are remembered and admired for centuries made their impact by doing exactly what they wanted and shaping the world according to their vision.

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh I agree but you most men can’t see that and are being held back by it - especially when it comes to kids.

[–]Onein1024th0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's quite the leap; unless your life just turned into the plotline from a porno.

I'd just play it cool, or respond with, "yeah I'd like that but not at the expense of our relationship"

If it DOES happen, I'd go along; knowing full well that it could eventually doom the relationship

[–]benmarvin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Let the two of them go at it and video the encounter for your own amusement.

Otherwise it's a trap and she's going to hold it over your head later and/or ask for MFM.

[–]askmeanything20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You need to play it cool. Don’t lead, don’t say no. We (mff) ended up watching hard core porn for a bit, but nothing happened, it was all good afterwards.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck the plant.

[–]chomponthebit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Can’t track down the post or article, but if a SO offers a threesome, she’s probably already cheated and is offering you another temporary vagina to ease her troubled conscience

[–]0io-Tsundere0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

In my experience this isn't joking or teasing. Girls love threesomes. They are too shy to make it happen themselves, you have to encourage them.

Personally, I would do it.

Just tell them how it's going to go down. Say something like "when are you going to have another opportunity like this?"

In life you'll have more regrets from not doing things than from doing things. If you don't make it happen you'll regret it forever.



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