Always go for it. Don’t be a pussy.

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September 14, 2019
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Went out with a girl from South America tonight. I’m really rusty it’s been about 3 weeks since I’ve been out. We had a few drinks. My game was just terrible tonight. My body language and intent was a deadset zero. I was off.

If you’re going out tonight please hear this message. Escalate. Do not stop escalating physically. I’m experienced enough to know that is why I fucked up tonight.

Escalate escalate escalate.

This is the first time in forever a girl decided not to come home to my place with me. When I walked her to her bus stop we made out passionately for 10-15 minutes. I still couldn’t get her back to mine.

Please if your reading this don’t be a beta fuck. Just suck it, escalate early. Because if I had of done that, this girl would be with me at my place and I wouldn’t be writing this now.

I’m heading home alone tonight. Gym tomorrow. Shower tonight. Calling one of my other plates over. Still I can’t believe how much I fucked up on the basics tonight. I can only learn. But I’m fucking pissed.

Anything I can do to blow off steam this late? I’m so pissed at myself. I can do so much better than I did tonight. Fucking fuck. Rant over.


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Title Always go for it. Don’t be a pussy.
Author ATRP2019
Upvotes 123
Comments 45
Date 14 September 2019 01:16 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/253230
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/d451lg/always_go_for_it_dont_be_a_pussy/
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[–]vyrulence126 points127 points  (2 children) | Copy

Go to sleep and don't stress it. Who cares if you didn't get your dick wet tonight - this shouldn't affect you this much emotionally. If it's like you said, you're just warming up. Lesson learned, move on.

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah... you are right

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agree, at the same time tho. 3 weeks that's interesting, I go out way more often than you're average but apparently I date far less than the average. Interesting, Thanks for sharing OP. You have another plate what're you stressing.

[–]Chad1738121 points122 points  (8 children) | Copy

“ I was off.“

This is were the problem lies. You think u need to “perform” to get a girl. This is another form of putting her on a pedestal. Just dgaf and let the girls come to you. If you show up there say what you want, do what you want, girls will make it easy to take them home. Stop trying to get girls and you won’t care if one doesn’t come home with you when the other 20 do.

[–]Pokeylaw11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

The rabbit hole just keeps getting deeper. I can never stop learning from trp bc what you just typed here. Definitely ressonated with ne

[–]redditor67tny11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

this one hit hard

[–]showerdudes97 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

This, its the guys who actually tries that come off as desperate needy losers. Even if youre really good at trying, its the worst kind of pickup form ever. ALl PUAs are trying, they're masters at it though but still looks like real losers and everyone can see through it pretty much

Have fun and be yourself always (unlexx yourself is a quiet shy loser then you obv gotta get out of that shell) and then touching girls(escalate) comes naturally because its in your DNA and instincts to do that when youre attracted to a girl, its never, ever something you need to think of. If you ever go "oh shit i gotta escalate somehow now" then you might as well call it a night and go home and jerk off

[–]clickherebaby2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sometimes I block myself from escalating, like the impulses are there but I suppress sometimes

[–]smartfunction301 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just dgaf and let the girls come to you

this has worked for me once earlier.

[–]clickherebaby1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is Chadvice. I'd take it to heart

[–]Chaddeus_Rex1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you show up there say what you want

The problem with that is if people like me take that statement seriously, they'll start making Nazi jokes, shit on random people walking by, use locker room talk, etc. So I gotta filter myself long enough to get the girl in bed haha.

[–]anonimo42-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

This.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K1844 points45 points  (4 children) | Copy

Wow. Pedestalize pussy much? You apparently have other plates, so why give so many fucks?
There is never failure. Only learning, which usually pays off far greater in the long run if you take the lesson.

Just find another woman, and escalate next time.

You're allowing your emotions to be far too effected by 'this one girl'.

Where is your abundance, outcome independent frame?

You're asking how to blow off steam, after saying you're calling a plate over. That reads a little funny.

[–]agjrpsl16 points17 points  (4 children) | Copy

Them SA women have pussies hot like lava.

[–]Dat_Black_Guy9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Youre just making OP feel bad now, lol.

[–]lugrulo2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah cuz your dick will be burning from stds

[–]Chaddeus_Rex0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I fucked SA women without condoms...no stds for me...I got tested. Just make sure its classy women not ratchet hoes. Lower chances of high SES women having STDs than ratchet hoes.

[–]SalesAficionado6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

You miss all the shots you don't take.

  • Albert Einstein

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you for this

[–]Jabbermouth7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Go lift. If you can’t lift atm, meditate. Can’t meditate do some shadow boxing in your mirror.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Been drinking so not a great idea to go lift. Probably just gonna find a way to zone out and sleep it off.

[–]clickherebaby3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Bro thank you so much for this. Feels good knowing theres someone else out there who learned something well, and still made a mistake. It happens.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

<3

[–]midwave692 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

How do you escalate from the beginning? I’m kinda new to this and in college so I don’t know how to start with small touches and get to making out

[–]just4kinkz11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Escalating is important but that wasn't the only problem. From the start, you said you were rusty, not feeling it. Why?

[–]Wellbidlo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I aint finna doin this, because getting rejeckt here means u a puy nia. Just do if your 100% sure

[–]AtlasCuckd0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ranting like this is the beta part actually

Don't sweat it my dude, you'll kill it next time. Take it easy and consider it a gift that you've been given time to yourself

[–]mustache_ride_4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

Please if your reading this don’t be a beta fuck.

How the fuck are there still fuckboys so god damn confident after #metoo? Be a "beta fuck" boys, take your time, don't be a pushing aggressive douche. Better than jail. Bitches be cray cray these days, they'll put you in the slammer if they don't like your smile.

[–]badabing654 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Exactly. You'll be stupid to escalate and go for a kiss right off the bat, unless of course you hyped it up on text before

[–]SomaNoob0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Experience tells me this doesn't work.

Remember AWALT and just escalate. If she says no, it's no. If she doesn't, just take it wherever you like.

And don't stick your dick in crazy. Really. Like, that's the best advice at this point in time.

[–]badabing654 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

What i meant was escalating super hard and fast as soon as you meet her. Usually i get more results building up and 3/4 in the date shit goes down. But i guess its diff for everyone and what style suits them

[–]SomaNoob0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Meh, depends. Night game normally works like that: do it fast or don't do it. But still, don't be so afraid of escalating.

I've found the mentality of "I'm gonna see how much can I fuck up without actually fucking up" works a lot btw.

[–]elperrofunk0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Argentina right?

[–]str8_rippin1230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You sound like an idiot

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Your question?

Reported. Stick to the rules or get banned.

[–]ambidexia14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Snitchin lmfao

[–]universalabundance15 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

fucking snitch

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There is a question ??... lmao



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