I'm legit kinda surprised that when I posted a few days ago asking Besides Physical Attraction, What Do You Want To Be Valued For? How Do You Communicate That Value?, most of the responses from the manosphere side of the conversation were along the lines of "I don't know" or "there's no point in even thinking about it." They can't seem to come up with a single thing about themselves that would recommend them for a relationship.

Except that they also almost uniformly will condemn women in the same breath for having either too high of standards, or of only being attracted to money or looks.

So this is kind of a follow-up question because I'm still trying to get my head around whether these dudes even consider themselves good catches.

But I also like hearing people's thoughts about themselves in general because self-awareness is such a nuanced animal.

So... if you were a straight woman, would you want to date yourself/someone like yourself? Why or why not.