I'm tired of hearing about having a "Hot girl summer" or lyrics like "Fuck his best friends"

I have been the shoulder to cry on when my girl friends get pumped and dumped to know that hookup culture is toxic. Online they brag about their one night stands, shout they are "empowered" but offline they are a hysterical mess.

I remember seeing a tweet from an icon I looked up to boasting about fucking men in her car. The tweet had over 10,000 likes and starry eyed 14 year old me at the time thought if I could imitate that lifestyle it could ease the emptiness.

I am the product of a one night stand..nothing is liberating about my mother having to raise me by herself because she doesn't know who my father is. The lifestyle is glamorous, adrenaline filled and exciting until reality catches up to you.

We are promoting sexual freedom, "body positivity" post under the guise that sexual gratification is the pinnacle of womanhood. The less clothing you wear, the more men you fuck will give you some sought out key to inner peace.

I want more talk of freedom through expression of art, through therapy, faith, etc. so many girls have a void to fill, an echoing emptiness and let's be honest-dick will not fill that void.

Is this movement genuine or are the recruitments for it solely because misery loves company?