Clickbait, or reality? If reality, what implications does it have?

Because we sort of have this social idea that if you’re cheating you’re always going to get caught eventually

And then that other trope of "she'll only cheat if she's unhappy"

Now, Walker makes clear, there’s no one specific reason for infidelity. Some women cheat to avoid boredom; other women cheat because they feel neglected. Still others say it’s because they fucking want to.

“There’s a lot of data showing that a woman will have an affair with a coworker and are more likely to report that ‘My marriage is great and I’m super satisfied. I literally saw an opportunity and took advantage of it.’ ”

What if modern marriages are patched together with delusions of "she won't cheat, and even if she does I'll find out eventually"? Delusions that are mistaken?

Now many people who are currently married probably weren't aware of this stuff. As Walker notes,

The notion of the cheating wife is something that tends to be swept under the rug, per Walker, mostly because it goes against everything that we as a culture have been conditioned to think about women.

“We want to think of women as not particularly sexual unless they’re deeply in love or they’re married or in some monogamous relationship of some kind. We just don’t want to think that women are just as sexual and just as interested in having sex with multiple partners or a variety of partners or they get bored with marital sex.”

So perhaps the people who are already married did so at a time when this aspect of female sexuality was simply not explored. Ah well.

But what about people who now know and haven't married yet?

Why would anyone who now is put themselves through something like this? Not only might you be the only one honoring hour vows, but you almost certainly will never even know about it if you are?

Her bonafides, such as they are