Why do women assume every male stranger that chats them up wants to fuck them but God forbid men say AWALT?

87AudreyHorne · 2019-07-08T04:52:12+00:00

Also, you complain about this from the side of the other guy. However if you're the boyfriend, would you think its perfectly innocent that a random stranger approaches your gf who then engages into conversation with him and "leaves out that she has a bf?"

yasee · 2019-07-08T03:18:04+00:00

redpillers also say men want to fuck pretty much every woman they know/meet

...so like

goatismycopilot · 2019-07-08T03:28:34+00:00

Numerous PPD men have made it abundantly clear they believe most women hold the intellectual capacity of retarded farm animals with minimal potential for rational thought driven by a cascade in of articulated and turbulent emotions that provoke them to leech on to men and suck them dry of resources, divorce rape them and deadbedroom them. They are most frequently described as singular body parts useful for depositing cum into or breeding if children are desired. So, yah I can get why a woman might think that. It is not ego, it is resignation because dudes are likely projecting all that contempt and derision. We have all heard how we are boring, have no actual real hobbies, work fake jobs or just dance every night with our pink pointy witch hats while joyously inhaling free government money that we get just for being women while we upside down bang criminal Chad slaked in the blood of the dead babies we aborted while in line at Starbucks. What do you expect?

je_kut_is_bourgeois · 2019-07-08T12:23:36+00:00

Why the double standard?

The two are not comparable because this one contains a conditional rather than an absolute statement.

It is not "all males want to fuck me" but "all males that out of nowhere for no reason strike a social conversation with me want to fuck me"

That qualification obviously delimits the scope of the statement severely.

sugarcurious · 2019-07-08T04:00:47+00:00

What I find funny is all day long I hear from men on this sub how high men’s sex drives are, how much sex motivates them, how they’re not as picky, how women are really only worth one thing and why don’t women understand this?, how women have it so easy because as long as they’re not absolutely hideous, men will still fuck her. Then to balk at the notion that women may be on the defense when a man approaches her to “just chat.” Im sure there are many situations where men are not intending to hit on some woman. But you have to understand the frequency and persistence that this stuff occurs would put someone on guard and cause them to want to nip it in the bud. Quit acting offended when it’s been drilled in women’s heads, probably by people like you, that men want one thing.

FlavFal · 2019-07-07T23:06:04+00:00

For me it isn't about ego or whatever. Plenty of men will stop talking to you the moment they find out you already have a partner, regardless of how much they swear they "just wanna talk and be friends" so why waste both of our times?

kandyapplez · 2019-07-08T01:31:03+00:00

i'm skeptical of awalt becuz the guys who use it are often men who are self-professed to have little experience with women

i think most women have experience being approached by male strangers, enough to know that yes most of them want to fuck. because its unambiguously true. i commute a lot. it's interesting how men, who predominantly are homosocial when it comes to friendships, somehow don't approach male strangers for "friendship" very often but were supposed to believe they are stricken by platonic interest in random girls.

CuriousOptimistic · 2019-07-07T23:59:42+00:00

You really can't see the difference between:

"If a person does this thing, it most likely means such and so," and "all people of this category have this (generally undesirable) characteristic"?

One is making a generalization based on interpreting a specific behavior. The other is making a generalization about an entire gender based on nothing in particular.

I'll tell you what, if I start chatting you up in public, it's probably because I'm interested in you. Feel free to make that generalization.

If I say "all men are rapists" or any other bullshit like that, then feel free to call me on that too. There's no such thing as AWALT or AMALT. At best any characteristic applies to maybe 70% of either gender. (And no, I don't think 70% of men are rapists either.)

rasmelo · 2019-07-08T02:11:34+00:00

Usually they want to fuck us. The difference is that AWALT has a negative connotation. I am never mad at someone because they are sexually interested. If I say I have a boyfriend before the person has come on to me, it's because I genuinely want to save them time.

Ofourkind · 2019-07-08T00:49:43+00:00

The men here constantly say that men and women cant be friends and that men are only interested in one thing from women

And then get butthurt when women agree with them

rachaellefler · 2019-07-08T00:01:39+00:00

Yeah theres no difference between a woman saying "all guys want to fuck me" and saying up front "no I have a boyfriend" to the 9th hound that hits on her that day, and a man who says "all women want is to fuck alpha men and steal money from betas to support a lazy and consumerist lifestyle, and all women are lazy whorea who are going to cheat on you and destroy society and abuse men" despite never having interacted with any woman who's ever done anything remotely close to that. /s

87AudreyHorne · 2019-07-08T04:47:23+00:00

But then if you engage, dont mention boyfriends and are your charming self, you'll be leading him on. And you can say you technically had no idea he was into you that way, but no one really believes it, I am sure not even the girl who says it.

Just randomly showing interest for someone you dont know of the opposite sex never happens unless there is attraction there (unless there's a really solid context around it). Thats just laws of attraction.

insultin_crayon · 2019-07-08T06:41:46+00:00

Redpill: “if a man is talking to you, he wants to fuck to because we are menz and muh biology!”

You, who appears to be redpilled: “AWALT! Not all menz!”

That’s why, kiddo

Orange_Paisley · 2019-07-07T23:44:51+00:00

Most of them do, that is why.

katymarx · 2019-07-07T23:02:20+00:00

Whats the context here? I talk to male co-workers and clients all the time and don't think or say that. If a dude creeps up behind me at the grocery store while I'm bent over comparing some items, and says hey while making some lame joke, I'm going to instinctually know he's hitting on me and if he is gross I'm going to nope the fuck away from him quickly as possible. Fortunately I have top notch RRBF so I rarely have to get to the "I have a bf" excuse.

Can think of a dozen other responses to a male approaching in different contexts. And why are you connecting this to AWALT at all? Makes nein sense

ChadThundagaCock · 2019-07-07T23:40:45+00:00

You need a new title

"Chat up" implies sexual intent so yes anyone chatting up a woman wants to fuck her by definition

KikiYuyu · 2019-07-08T03:05:56+00:00

Basically a man could be talking to a woman and not even hinting that he wants to fuck her

For some women it will be ego. Some it's fear that could be from misinformation or personal experiences.

It's not even as if an innocent conversation is guaranteed to stay that way.

However, God forbid the red pill says AWALT

Well I hate to tell you this but not all the women in the world do what you describe, hence NAWALT.

Actuallyconsistent · 2019-07-08T11:33:43+00:00

This place has gotten pathetic. Every redpill concept is represented as some feminist caricature of itself.

PaintingOfJoan · 2019-07-07T22:51:31+00:00

I don’t think all men wanna fuck me, like obv my brother and my daddy don’t. But like every guy who hits me up on the bus, random dude on reddit who message me, and every guy who rubbernecks yah they prob wanna fuck. Idk what AWALT means or what that is or whatever too so idk this looks dumb.

undeadko · 2019-07-08T10:34:31+00:00

Why do women assume every male stranger that chats them up wants to fuck them but God forbid men say AWALT?

This is wrong in so many ways.

Women do not assume every male stranger wants to fuck them. There are countless problems in relationships just because they do NOT assume that and some even miss the obvious hints men drop that they DO want to fuck them.

The women who get tilted by AWALT are not the same women who assume that men chatting them up want to have sex with them.

It is obvious that you are a guy and got mixed readings from women who are in different social groups. I am also a guy and am telling you that it is not as you are making it seem to be.

UtahRaptorCat · 2019-07-07T23:02:30+00:00

If a guy takes time out of their day to attempt to talk to me in public, pays me a compliment, or just generally notices me, I assume that the reasonings for their actions are not innocent. Same for dudes messaging me on multiplayer games. All of the times this has happened it has not been innocent, or out of friendship. The people I approach are always the ones who don't do this, and the people I do not approach have always had alternative motives than "friendship".

meomeowmeoww · 2019-07-08T00:20:56+00:00

Well, are you talking to a woman because you can SEE that she's so intelligent from LOOKING at the size of her forehead or something?

nevomintoarce · 2019-07-08T06:59:52+00:00

Unless you're a man who literally has his wife and kids right next to him, a nice grandpa type elderly man, there's no reason to assume you're just "chatting up" a woman.

flamingoinghome · 2019-07-08T11:20:01+00:00

Because "chatting up" i.e. going over to a random stranger to talk with them, IS part of a cultural script for hitting on someone. This is like saying "why do you assume that everyone who walks into a supermarket is looking to buy food?"

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Rally8889 · 2019-07-08T02:57:14+00:00

So context matters as someone pointed out. At least in the metro I'm in, I assume any one of either gender who approaches me wants something because specifically trying to start a conversation out of nowhere is unusual otherwise. I usually first eye to see if they have a petition clipboard if it's on the street. I have no idea if that's how all women think, but we're all living in a world that is increasingly isolating in interaction. I'd be surprised if men in my area generally also didn't feel that way when a stranger approaches.

Now if it something with more context or like just a quick joke, then no. Like once, the guy at the table next to me and I witnessed a third table's couple fight. After they left, we sighed together and talked a bit. That's something where the environment really led to a natural interaction between strangers in my experience.

While places where people are all friendly and chatty are nice, it just isn't where I live.

jessicaannpin · 2019-07-08T04:09:47+00:00

I can’t imagine why any man wouldn’t want to fuck me. I’m me, duh.

AWALT is usually used to endorse some kind of sexist sentiment.

JezebeltheQueen5656 · 2019-07-08T08:54:09+00:00

men have proven to be that way. hell, they even admit it themselves on social media.

unless they want her for sex, they won't approach.

imjgaltstill · 2019-07-08T11:49:05+00:00

The hamster wheel

Nobodykers · 2019-07-08T12:41:17+00:00

Women talk more often to me as a means of chatting me up than the other way around. So i dont see why men and women can't chat, it literally happens all the time. The "i have a boyfriend" phrase is way more rare than the internet lets you believe.

And when it happens, why care so much.

NaturalQueer · 2019-07-09T18:01:51+00:00

Unless someone wants to ask me for help. I just don't really want to talked to people in random public places. Like the bus is for traveling I have to be here but that doesn't mean I want to chat. I never assume anything unless it seems obvious, sometimes I work in my fiance just so we are on the same page because if you don't then later they might accuse you of leading them on. But I don't say "hey I have a fiance" I will just mentation it if they asked what I am up to today or how my weekend was ect. In the end for women it's better safe than sorry.

onion_breathed_lover · 2019-07-07T23:14:29+00:00

Women started the "All men are rapists" wayyyy before AWALT was even a thought.

Also women will only meet men in public places, as when you talk to a woman, if you don't wanna fuck her, you wanna kill her first.

Double standard for sure.

cutesymonsterman · 2019-07-08T14:17:22+00:00

If you think you're talking normally to a female and she still tells you that, you're being a creep and you don't even know it.

Title	Why do women assume every male stranger that chats them up wants to fuck them but God forbid men say AWALT?
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Date	July 7, 2019 10:46 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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