This comment is seen a lot. “Blah blah sob story involving some trashy whore who was a red flag parade AWALT.” Mind you that nowhere in there is introspection as to why the trashy whore was chosen- just boohooing.

I think a lot of that and the whole concept of AWALT is people not acknowledging their role in picking trash. It takes two. Your picker is broken and trashy is trashy.

There’s no mention usually is slowing down getting to know someone. No only getting laid. Except here’s the problem- even just fucking crazy can go really badly. Crazy is smart and crazy is effective.