Sleeping around is not part of women's sexual strategy. Why do so many of them do it?

i_have_a_semicolon · 2019-04-29T01:25:11+00:00

Wuh, why would women be less selective about sex because of birth control? It's not like we're conditioned to find omegas sexually attractive just because we know we won't be having their children lol

MGTOWKapow2 · 2019-04-29T01:48:10+00:00

Why wouldn't they?

Birth control+abortions+sexual liberation means there isn't really a downside to it. If it's fun and low-risk, humans are going to do it

CainPrice · 2019-04-29T01:09:14+00:00

Who says that sleeping around isn't part of women's sexual strategy?

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2019-04-29T01:46:03+00:00

worked for me

parranna · 2019-04-29T06:18:18+00:00

Well if we go purely by our bodies, women get horny too. Sometimes women don’t have a relationship so they find someone to temporarily relieve them of their horniness. Women have never not been horny.

JezebeltheQueen5656 · 2019-04-29T11:11:30+00:00

im sorry you have been lied to. women like having casual sex, too.

ilptrandom · 2019-04-29T16:52:14+00:00

" This is the complete opposite to a female's sexual strategy "

Nawwww. Women are choosing to do it therefore it is their strategy. What you're saying is you have this strategy you think women should use.

There's a bunch of reasons why some women screw around a whole lot before committing

First thing... before finally committing to have a kid you're going to want to be able to clearly see what you've got in a guy, and that means learning what relationships do to you and how they skew your assessment of men. You want to be aware of and critical of your own bonding processes. That way you can make a better informed choice.

Second thing, you want to know more about the sort of stunts men pull to get more power over you so you're not a pushover for that stuff.

Third thing, you want to keep them disposable until your career is established and you have some flexibility.

And fourth thing... it is fun. And you don't miss out... if the guy who it makes sense to have father your child doesn;t want to try some funky stuff that's Ok, you've already tried it and know if not doing it is a dealbreaker or not.

There you go. Perfectly sensible sexual strategy. You just don't like it and that's why you're saying it isn't sensible.

mistresswhat · 2019-04-29T17:45:38+00:00

Because it's fun and doesn't fuck shit up on anywhere near the level that redpillers fantasize it does.

If you're going "oh no, this things doesn't make sense according to TRP but it still happens" you should probably remind yourself that the main purpose of TRP is to comfort not-terribly-bright misogynists by telling them their revenge fantasies are like totally scientific.

CombatStacey · 2019-04-29T01:22:24+00:00

Why do women sleep with so many men these days, even though it completely contradicts their sexual strategy to do so?

It's because the strategy was never hardwired. Each generation of women has to do the best with the environment they find themselves in.

Women do not have to grab a man for marriage when they're young the way in which they used to have to. They are less likely to have to rely solely on a man for money (SAHMs still do).

RP imagines that women are always the same over thousands of years. But they are very adaptable. Women like sex and so women will have sex if they can do so without too much risk - that's all there is to it.

AF/BB is a load of old bitter claptrap.

fuckdr11 · 2019-04-29T02:31:25+00:00

What's all this bullshit about "sexual strategy"? I'm not going to read your wall of text, but if you have to think harder about this than "Women like to have sex", then something may be wrong with you.

shipiaozi · 2019-04-29T02:20:53+00:00

Male sexual strategy is not to have sex with as many women as possible, that's alpha lover. Most male's (beta provider) sexual strategy is to work hard and provide resources to get one female.

Some evolutionary psychologist believe "alpha male" have better genes, which I disagree with. Since "alpha male" have more bad children, their children should be much worse than children of beta provider. They are like paradise that harm woman. Like we can't always resist virus, woman can't always resist alpha lover.

Normally, woman who love alpha male would slowly extinct(like human who are vulnerable to a deadly disease) but now we have birth control so immunity against alpha male is no longer important.

sublimemongrel · 2019-04-29T02:44:29+00:00

Most of them aren’t to the degree you’re implying

confusedspade97 · 2019-04-29T03:46:24+00:00

Because sex is great. I'm a fairly attractive woman and I can go to a bar or use an app and basically fuck any of hottest single men. Also not every woman has perfect self-control and some just really like sex. Most aren't following the red pill and thinking oh gee this seems like a bad sexual strategy.

[deleted] · 2019-04-29T05:02:28+00:00

Evolutionarily speaking the whole “sleeping around” thing was physiologically impossible for women. Up til like... 1955 or so, any woman who fucked even one cock bore a significant risk of getting pregnant. Pregnancy, childbirth, nursing etc would initiate hormonal changes and make further fucking around less likely, at least for a good while.

In short, womens current cc riding ways (which are exaggerated btw, women have a median lifetime partner count of like 4) would not have been biologically possible throughout most of our evolutionary history. The lusty slutty ways of a cc rider wouldve cooled into motherhood in very short order. Birth control has created a novel situation that circumvents natural processes which would otherwise serve to differentiate male/female behavior to a greater extent than we presently see. Cc riding is an aberration caused by artificial intervention into human biology, not part of “female sexual strategy”.

misiepatysie · 2019-04-29T08:10:53+00:00

I don't want kids so I do not give a damns about "sexuall startegy", reproducing and things like that. Seriously the world is not resolving around men's cocks and reproduction.

YetAnotherCommenter · 2019-04-29T08:43:12+00:00

They're "sleeping around" with only relatively high-SMV men.

"Hypergamy" doesn't necessarily have to be interpreted to mean "instantly and permanently latch on to the highest-value man you can find." It simply means women are naturally pickier than men and will prioritize quality over quantity.

But women are now in the position to have relatively easy access to a variety of high-quality men. In other words, they can have a big quantity of high quality.

It turns out that when people don't have to make quantity/quality tradeoffs, they tend to go for a high quantity of high quality.

Women, on the other hand, are looking to secure the genes and commitment of one very high value man.

This is the error. She doesn't need a permanent investment from only one very high value man. She only needs the father of the kids to invest in her whilst pregnant, and those kids whilst young.

This is perfectly consistent with "serial monogamy" (or "temporally-separated promiscuity" as some would call it).

So it makes perfect sense women are promiscuous-when-surrounded-by-multiple-Chads.

aliennyt · 2019-04-29T23:42:21+00:00

Women were led to believe that having sex or enjoying sex for centuries was BAD (some still are taught this). Now they can enjoy sex without having to worry about kids (for the most part), or being killed (well in most parts of the world), or otherwise heavily stigmatized for it (in most parts of the world).

Women enjoy having sex with partners they find attractive just like men. Surprise!

I suggest women have sex (safely) with as many partners as they want. If you want to couch it in strategy terms then having more sex with more partners helps you get better at sex (hopefully) and settle down with a man who is sexually satisfying. Just do it.

[deleted] · 2019-04-29T01:37:22+00:00

The answer is simple: Parts of TRP have become stale to properly address and describe women's sexual behavior.

Current society and media promote and uphold women being sexual anCaps, women's sexuality has the primacy of laissez fair - laissez passer, meaning that every sexual decision took by women is seen as inherently good.

blackedoutfast · 2019-04-29T06:27:31+00:00

because the you know who's have convinced women that they're supposed to be sleeping around.

gothpunkboy89 · 2019-04-29T01:23:29+00:00

Women are sleeping with a lot of men these days.

Women always slept around the only difference is they can be more open about it now a days. And why wouldn't they if they are enjoying sex?

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rus9384 · 2019-04-29T08:46:27+00:00

It is the part of their sexual strategy. If all mothers got paid high amounts of money just because they are raising kids, many women would not even bother with securing a beta.

In ancient societies those were sex priestesses, etc. who did not care about securing a beta, apparently their children were raised by the society/other people so these women could continue to be sex priestesses. They just had fun with alphas. Though, I am pretty sure they had sex with more than 20% of visitors, so they were not as picky. Yet, I expect women to have lower standards to secondary partners in group sex.

Orange_Paisley · 2019-04-29T17:52:42+00:00

Some women just enjoy sex. No problem with that. Then too, you have men here saying that if a girl doesn't sleep with them on the first date, he loses interest. So insecure girls who want to keep a man's interest will sleep with him with that in mind.

iLLprincipLeS · 2019-04-30T11:42:57+00:00

Men simply don't care about females anymore. The only thing that kept females in order was the patriarchy. When the christian patriarchy was replaced with judeo feminism females were finally free to be females, fallen beasts.

Zippo-Cat · 2019-04-29T05:19:28+00:00

The Red Pill teaches us

Red Pill is still stuck at monogamy as the default model of human sexuality. This causes them to draw some seriously flawed conclusions from observing the world around them and the data they see.

I could argue there's not even such a thing as "sexual strategy". Men are super horny and (therefore?) have low standards, women are normal horny and have high standards. The End.

confusedspade97 · 2019-04-29T01:24:30+00:00

If there's no consequences to sex for women anymore, we should surely be seeing more men having sex. It's actually the opposite. Incels are at their highest rate historically (30% of American men aged 18-30 haven't had sex in the last year, according to recent research). Fewer men are having sex. Yet women are sleeping around more than ever before. Which men are having all the sex?

This would be true if all men were equal. But alas our founding documents are illusions meant to inspire and not ironclad truths.

What birth control has done is freed women to take the risk of sleeping with high value men even if the men are unlikely to commit. That sex feels better, and now doesn't have the attendant costs it once did.

The choice is clear.

Relationships are for suckers.

Kinda.

MGTOWKapow2 · 2019-04-29T09:29:33+00:00

Because with the advent of birth control pills and abortions, the cost of sex as plummeted dramatically for women, and with the advent of going to jail if you lose your job (and have kids) for men - the cost has vastly increased.

Now women are riding the cock carousel with stupid men and men with any goddamn sense are keeping their dicks to themselves.

Title	Sleeping around is not part of women's sexual strategy. Why do so many of them do it?
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Date	April 28, 2019 11:52 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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