Women act more entitled than men

TheReformist94 · 2019-04-23T18:40:23+00:00

Men are accused of entitlement to sex and that we aren't owed polygamy or even one partner.

Yet it's just accepted that women are owed at least an 8/10 for hypergamy and for her to start to feel attraction, so it's always the man's fault.

Everyone is cool with women only being satisfied with an alpha yet when a beta just wants affection sex and love from a 5/10 they're accused of entitlement and get shat on

CainPrice · 2019-04-23T14:36:09+00:00

I would adjust this CMV slightly. The more accurate statement is that feminine people act more entitled than masculine people.

A masculine person (whether we're talking about a conventionally masculine male, or one of the rare macho women out there) tends to suck it up when things don't go his way, roll with the punches, and find a way to make things work.

A feminine person (whether we're talking about 99% of women or the ~40-60 percent of men that are feminized losers who plague the western world) thinks she's entitled to some happiness just for existing and being a special snowflake human whose personality is slightly different than the personalities of other humans.

There are a -lot- of whiny entitled men in the world. But when you see a whiny entitled man, it's not the buff high school quarterback who has 5000 friends and got laid at the house party last weekend. It's the creepy chess team nerd who thought he had a shot at the mousey girl in the math club, until he overheard her giggling with her friends about how even she was at the house party last weekend hooking up with a guy on the team, then he explodes in a frenzy of judgment and woman-hate.

Nevidimka- · 2019-04-23T14:39:22+00:00

Men rarely express the sentiment, “I deserve X from women.”

I've never heard a man express that in a group and I've certainly never seen them write an article about it, but any woman over the age of 13 has dealt with mens entitlement. They may not say "I am entitled", but stopping someone in the street/in the club, blocking her way, or flooding her inbox with insults, because they cannot take her rejection, if that's not entitlement then what is it?

And yeah women can be entitled bitches too. As with most of the accusations towards the other sex on this sub, it's just something both sexes are guilty of, just in sightly different ways.

neualgae · 2019-04-23T16:14:03+00:00

This is just standard feel-good girl platitudes on the same level of "you are beautiful just the way you are!". With a bit of "hey maybe don't date a guy who treats you like garbage" mixed in. I've probably said "you deserve better" to a friend before, I didn't mean literally "the world owes you a perfect man", just "you are accepting some really shitty behavior and it is realistic that you could up your standards a bit and still not die alone".

SmurfESmurferson · 2019-04-23T14:37:10+00:00

Dude, you googled “you deserve a man.” Of course you got those results

wekacuck · 2019-04-23T14:55:56+00:00

This entire V falls apart because your evidence proves the opposite.

If you are actually entitled (men) you don't need to read articles upon articles telling you that you should be entitled (women).

DXBrigade · 2019-04-23T21:19:05+00:00

Men and women show entitlement differentely. Women are more direct "I deserve this or I want that ". Men's entitlement results in being angry at women for having sex with other men beside them.

boomcheese44 · 2019-04-23T14:55:39+00:00

I think a lot of this issue is because there are a lot of low-self esteem or blue pill women that settle for outright bad behavior from their partners... or unkowingly become a plate. So yeah, you hear and read a lot of messages encouraging women to go after what they want or at least put up boundaries. Women are naturally passive and they often don't think they have to be strategic to get desired outcomes in life.

The same bolstering techniques are used in RP.

kandyapplez · 2019-04-23T15:00:14+00:00

Men rarely express the sentiment, “I deserve X from women.”

yeah because they say "i deserve x from my girlfriend" instead

Mr_Smoogs · 2019-04-23T15:27:09+00:00

I think articles like these are an attempt by women to over-correct for what they see (rightly or wrongly) as too many women "settling" for subpar relationships where the man takes her for granted. They don't see it as entitlement, they see it as not selling themselves short.

The real problem is that many women are... idk... confused, and have this inaccurate idea about what they themselves bring to the table. They think they are providing lots of value to men by being educated, ambitious, careerist, "challenging" to their man, helicopter-y (you see this when women go shopping and fuss a LOT over what to buy and think they are providing value in this way)... when in fact, all that pales in comparison to the value of being DTF.

If women were all DTF they would be completely right about how much they deserve in relationships. Like it or not, pussy IS much more valuable than dick, so having one grants a certain baseline negotiating power in relationships. But not so much when said pussy isn't DTF.

shonenhikada · 2019-04-24T03:34:16+00:00

What do you mean act?

Plopolok · 2019-04-24T07:05:58+00:00

Imagine you can communicate with squirrels. If you speak with a female squirrel about mating, you could conceivably fit concepts like "what she deserves", how high she should set the bar. If you speak with a male squirrel about mating, these ideas will be alien to him. Why would he set any bar? What would it mean for him to deserve someone? Males compete, females select. So of course women are gonna discuss their "entitlement" more than men.

MGTOWKapow2 · 2019-04-24T07:44:16+00:00

I can't imagine the same sentiment being expressed by a man in the gendered reverse

To be fair, men used to.

"I'll ride the shit out of easy, fast girls who put out, and then I'll find a good, virgin, Christian girl to be the mother of my children." It was a weird Madonna/whore complex time where men thoroughly expected to find someone to vigorously fuck in his eariler years that he'd treat ilke a pariah once he wanted to be a good family man.

There are tradcons out there, but most men have abandoned that. Meanwhile there's a hell of a lot of young women who want to ride the bad boy cock carousel and land at 36 with Billy Betabux to pay for her kids and the rest of her life.

Muse_asvhedu · 2019-04-25T01:07:53+00:00

Because men’s entitlement is an unspoken expectation - men don’t say that they’re entitled to a wife who makes them dinner every night, who cleans house, who handles the household and child care, but how many men do you know that wouldn’t be pissed if their wife stopped? Especially men whose wives work equal or longer hours than they do?

It comes down to social expectations. Women still have to say it because these are desires, not expectations. Women rarely expect to be treated well by their SO, so they have to be reminded that no matter what society says, they don’t have to take shit from the person they’re in a relationship with. We deserve to be treated well - men already know they will be.

Cunari · 2019-04-27T15:00:47+00:00

Everyone who complains about entitlement feels entitled that some other person should not be entitled.

NightLettuce709 · 2019-05-07T03:18:55+00:00

As a feminist I agree legitimately

LillthOfBabylon · 2019-04-23T14:50:59+00:00

Of course there’s more entilted women than entitled men. That doesnt make whiny entitled incels any less annoying. In fact, similar to how Feminists act too masculine to be desirable, incels act too feminine to desirable.

Mr_Smoogs · 2019-04-23T14:38:02+00:00

They 'act' more entitled? What does this mean? They pretend they're more entitled, but actually they're not?

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Mr_Smoogs · 2019-04-23T14:41:11+00:00

Judging which gender is more entitled based on whether one style of writing or another is more prevalent from which on the Internet is far from a complete analysis.

Sorry but you'll have to expand this like 10 fold to include more acts that show entitlement to be convincing.

exit_sandman · 2019-04-23T14:48:08+00:00

What you're describing is the result of social engineering.

Take a long hard look at basically any Muslim society and you'll get a bunch of dudes whose entitlement is through the roof as a rule.

In the West, we get the typically female "I am princess kiss my feet"-attitude coupled with the whole grievance culture, which makes for a particularly toxic combination.

[deleted] · 2019-04-24T00:14:19+00:00

Ugh ....

PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE.

Men are entitled, women are entitled, if you let them be.

Title	Women act more entitled than men
Author	Mr_Smoogs
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Date	April 23, 2019 2:29 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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