I'm just going to flat out say it. Most men aren't attractive to most women. And because women are the choosers the are enamoured with male attention left and right and try to find the best possible partner for herself. Lowest standards might be for orbiters and highest standards for husbands. ( They want a provider, someone who has a great personality, leader, great in bed, a good father).

Most(key word most) men grow wondering why getting getting women to date with them and sleep with them is so damn hard to do and often fall for the first girl that gives her attention. So you can't nessesarily blame alot of men who vent that the dating game is rigged against them. And don't even get me started on casual sex. For most men getting casual sex is considered lucky very lucky and most women aren't willing to give up their bodies to a bunch of unnattractive men. To put simply. Dating is harder for men..

Which is why I think need to talk with more, date more, kiss more, seduce more, and sleep with more than our female counterparts. In case you're not sold on my why reasons up top, I'll provide more. Simply because most men aren't enough to women for them to be impressed. Ask yourself how many women are chasing after an average guy right now? Maybe 1. Now how many men men are Chasing after one average women. Probably 8. And that's being generous. Why is prostitution the world's oldest profession? Why are more than half of divorces initiated by women.

Women simply hold all the best cards for her not be desperate for nearly any man. They hold the power to sex, they have multiple options, they are less likely than men fall in love, they rarely get crushes, they recover from break ups better,etc. Man advantages are really small in comparison. If you're a 5 man attracted to a 5 woman your standards are actually too high nowadays.