Following this “wait for sex” trend. The common theme among many women is wanting to wait for sex with guys they are serious about. As their emotions are more at stake for fear of getting hurt.
While I still think it’s fucked but can kind of understand the ‘logic’, in a vacuum, without regard to how it affects the man’s perception.
We’ve all heard plenty about how “waiting for sex” is a poor strategy for men as it opens them up for getting taken advantage of. Getting hurt, feelings of being undesired etc.
Instead of the tired of comparison of “if you found out a guy spent more on gifts for his last gf” and other bullshit. I want to flip it.
If you were dealing with a guy that didn’t want to rush into sex with you, despite the fact he had done it with other women but excused it by saying it’s because he was more serious about you. How would you react?
I’m not talking about mutually waiting on agreed timeline. I’m talking about a man that wants to wait past the time you were ready.
You want it, you are ready for sex, he isn’t. But has been more than ready with others before you. Is it flattering because it makes you feel important? Would it make you question your desirability?
Have you been in this situation before and share that story?
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