What's your gender, age bracket and notch count? Have you lied about your count?

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May 22, 2018

I disbelieve studies and stats because people lie.

I also don't know if people under this anonymous roof will lie, but I'm taking a good faith leap here.

To define the terms I mean penis in vagina.

I'll start.

Male, 40's, and I never reveal my number IRL, but its well into triple digits.

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Title What's your gender, age bracket and notch count? Have you lied about your count?
Author RogerNorvell
Upvotes 4
Comments 143
Date 22 May 2018 06:11 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit PurplePillDebate
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/262296
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8lc6pl/whats_your_gender_age_bracket_and_notch_count/
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[–]LittleknownfactsVaguely Uncivil Comment15 points16 points  (19 children) | Copy

Female, late 20s, more than 30 but less than 50 (honestly I just can't remember). And I haven't lied since like, HS (which ironically I lied up).

[–]SmurfESmurferson8 points9 points  (6 children) | Copy

(honestly I just can't remember)

Careful admitting this. Last time I did, a fairly regular (at the time) PPD person followed me around being abusive until I blocked him

[–]sublimemongrelBecky, Esq.3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy


[–]PPD-AngelIncel Ban Count: 9[M] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Do not oust people in public like this on here, it has no place.

[–]sublimemongrelBecky, Esq.1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ok....I assume the person running around insulting smurfy was dealt with.

[–]PPD-AngelIncel Ban Count: 90 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Perhaps, I do not know who it was so I can not say.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

witch hunty

[–]Mr_SmoogsThe 2nd most obnoxious poster here0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]PuleaSpataru69|||4 points5 points  (11 children) | Copy

More than 30??? When I hear about numbers like this I genuinly wonder HOW. Like..I dont think I've ever met 30 people that I was attracted to in my entire life. And of those people, they would also have to want me back.

Casual sex is so strange for me. I;ve never been asked. I do wonder how it happens, especially so often.

[–]LittleknownfactsVaguely Uncivil Comment6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy

Well I started fairly young, and though I don't regret casual sex in general, I got started for the wrong reasons and I wish I had put it off a couple more years.

As for how it happens... Idk, it just always seemed normal and organic to me. Sex was just a fun thing to do.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

What "wrong reasons" were those?

[–]LittleknownfactsVaguely Uncivil Comment4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I had a step sister about a year older than I whom I was very competitive with. One day she was bragging to me about how far she went with her BF and I was "OH YEAH?!"

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wait... so you started having casual sex because your older sister was also; and you wanted to have "more" casual sex than she did?

This sounds like shit guys do. I thought girls had casual sex because he's hot, it's fun, he's there, you're there, you're horny, you're bored, etc....

There were a few girls I had one nighters with who said "it was great. You were there, I liked you, I liked the way you looked, you were fun to talk to, and I was just horny."

[–]LittleknownfactsVaguely Uncivil Comment1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wait... so you started having casual sex because your older sister was also; and you wanted to have "more" casual sex than she did?

It wasn't casual at that point. It was a HS boyfriend that I had been with for a few months.

This sounds like shit guys do. I thought girls had casual sex because he's hot, it's fun, he's there, you're there, you're horny, you're bored, etc....

I would say your right for the typical girl. I don't think my actions were typical, or normal. When I got older those were the reasons I engaged in sex, but at the time I just don't think I was "mature" enough to really find the guy hot, the act fun, to be horney, etc...

[–]crackrocksteady7Jason tell me what you're chasing3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Like..I dont think I've ever met 30 people that I was attracted to in my entire life. 

What a divergent experience. If I go out I'll probably see 30 women I want to bend over the barstool/table and fuck in one night

[–]PuleaSpataru69|||1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

80/20 I suppose?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Do you go to parties? Bars? Music events?

[–]PuleaSpataru69|||1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

No, I've never been to a club or a bar. I've went to like 2 open field concerts with friends.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well there's your answer.

[–]themoderationPeople Over Pill9 points10 points  (5 children) | Copy

Female, 27, 0 penises have entered my vaginagum, but I guess you either forgot about gay people or don’t think our sex counts as real sex?

I’ve had sex with 5 women counting my girlfriend. Never lied but also was never asked, outside of silly college drinking games. My SO and I HAVE shared our numbers, but more for fun than information. What do I care? In my last LTR, my girlfriend had made her way through half our class, both women and men, before we started dating. It never stopped her from being faithful to me for four years.

[–]Gravel_RoadsJust a Pill2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

For some reason a lot of people on this thread don't like queer perspectives. It kind of shatters the AWALT/AMALT beliefs when they can't play straight male/female monoliths against each other.

[–]PhucCheet 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

AQANLT (all queers are not like that). Your experience matters, but it's irrelevant to cis-hetero male-female dating dynamics, which is what the pillsphere is about.

[–]Gravel_RoadsJust a Pill1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I am a man that dates and fucks women for fun and profit. Wtf are you on about

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin🔪Yeetus that Feetus🔪8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female 48 triple digits Can't get any more exact than that had to arrive at that number by estimation

[–]tiposkChad Thundercock: the story of a manospherian homoerotic fantasy5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Female, late 20s. 6 partners. Never been asked.

[–]hating-life 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Female, 20, zero. Ehhh I've suggested to guys that I'm not a virgin from embarrassment lol but never explicitly lied.

[–]PuleaSpataru69|||1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Me too, I lost my virginity at 24 but I lied a few times about having sex with one person but as soon as I revealed that I was a virgin guys would back off.

[–]limac_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Have you written anywhere about your experience as a "female incel"? The word incel carries certain connotations and my preconceived notions make the concept of a female incel at age 20... perplexing. Just curious about your thoughts and experiences.

[–]wekacuckstupid buggy bot7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Male, 40, 1.

As a teenager I lied to a cute nurse at an annual checkup when she asked if I was sexually active. She didn't care :(

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol. So did I

[–]philomexaIF THE POISON WON'T TAKE YOU MY DOGS WILL7 points8 points  (14 children) | Copy

female, early 30's, 3. I lied up when I was younger to appear cooler/ impress my husband (his notch count was 50+ at 21 years old).

[–]PuleaSpataru69|||0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

Can he go from 50+ to 1 forever? Where did he even find 50 people? lol

[–]philomexaIF THE POISON WON'T TAKE YOU MY DOGS WILL2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

rock band in high school, rock band + frat in college.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

I would assume it is easier for men to go from 50+ to 1 forever rather than marrying without being a player before, thus increasing his risk of cheating because he feels like he missed out on having sex with alot of women of different kinds

[–]philomexaIF THE POISON WON'T TAKE YOU MY DOGS WILL2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Right. My husband had the much vaunted Chad experience in late high school and college, he was pretty burnt out on easy skeez by the time he graduated.

[–]PuleaSpataru69|||1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

he feels like he missed out on having sex with alot of women of different kinds

The point is for him to value sex and not wish or want casual sex to begin with.

Would you trust an addict not to relapse?

You know those people who say: this is my last mcdonalds, from tomorrow on I will be on a diet nd I will never eat unhealthy again! Yeah...they need cheat days eventully.

If he likes casual sex it wont be enough to "have his fill". He will still want it. Thats why I want a guy who doesnt want casual sex to begin with. I've never had or wanted casual sex.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Very few man who are attractive enough/have good enough game to have casual sex and maintain a harem of women without committment, are going to not do it. So if you are looking for a high value man, he probably has had lots of casual sex with lots of women. I for one plan to have sex with at least 100 women before settling down

[–]PuleaSpataru69|||3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Lol, he is a very high quality man, very handsome and hot and he didnt sleep around. He slept with 7 girls-one of which was a one night stand, the others were gfs.

Not everyone-even hot people want to slut around.

If a guy likes sluts then he's not the man for me. He cant appreciate me since his preference is the opposite of me.

And let me ask you...will you settle with a girl who slept with 100 guys, right?

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you think a girls sleeping with 100 guys vs a guy sleeping with 100 girls is even remotely the same thing, then you are far from a Red Pill Woman. Your husband must be either bluepilled or not as good looking/high value as you think he is

[–]PuleaSpataru69|||4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's not the same, I understand men sleeping around isnt the same as a woman sleeping around. This is why I was a virgin when I married but my husband slept with 6 gfs and 1 one night stand. So I fucking understand the difference.

But 100 one night stands??? That's sex addiction. I wouldnt risk sleeping with a man like you and get HPV and get cancer and die and leave my kids orphans.

And you cant "get your fill". If you like sluts now you always will.

And I cant stand sluts so I could never ever be with a man who likes them. How can he appreciate me being a virgin/non slut if he feels the same about girls who sleep around? Being a virgin/not slut/not a cheater was one of my biggest "selling points" so i want a guy who apreciates it and looks for it. I wouldnt marry a guy who doesnt care either way because it will be wasted on him.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Why would you think a man would be impressed by a woman with a higher N? Why would you (or anyone else, for that matter) think a woman's "cool" factor increases with a higher N?

[–]philomexaIF THE POISON WON'T TAKE YOU MY DOGS WILL4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Because being a low N good girl is pretty lame when you want to hang out with a drug dealing rockstar frat guy and his party slut crew.

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[–]philomexaIF THE POISON WON'T TAKE YOU MY DOGS WILL5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good to know you were there for my early college experience, pray tell were you the one dealing coke or MDMA to the sorority girls sleeping with husband's frat? My memory is kinda hazy.

[–]yenvalmar0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

man, all the good ones are taken...

[–]PennnyLameMade a margarita once6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Female, early 30’s, 1.

Some people know my number because I know other married women in the same boat and we all high five about it after a couple glasses of wine.

[–]whitetrashcarlselfish ghost6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Male mid 30s, I stopped counting around 20, I’d estimate around 40

I don’t lie about it, I don’t even know it. I do generally dodge the question in real life tho. I think it’s generally inappropriate to ask

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Exactly lol. Who is going around asking each other how many people they've fucked? So weird.

[–]whitetrashcarlselfish ghost0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I talk about it in general terms but Anything more than that no way

[–]LyaninaBlue Pill6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

To define the terms I mean penis in vagina.

One. I personally count mine as 3, but if that's the definition we're using, 1.

I have deliberately implied my N was higher to seem "cool" to a group. When I told my boyfriend he was like "Oh, shit, really?" because he was a part of that group and saw me playing Never Have I Ever. Told him before we slept together though (he didn't ask), as I told my past SOs.

Female, early twenties.

[–]lefactorybebe6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, 25, two. Never been asked, but I've never omitted anything when the topic of previous partners has come up.

[–]yaseedog will hunt5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

female, early 30s, 1

I don't think I've ever lied about it. I don't think anyone irl has ever asked

[–]Xholica6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, 20s, 1. Yes, I implied/told various family members and some church members that we were waiting when we weren't.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

29 year old female. 4 PIV sex partners. I've never lied, but I've also never been asked except by my very first boyfriend who was also my first sex partner.

[–]Artpop_Tattooed Red Flag5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Male, 40's, and I never reveal my number IRL, but its well into triple digits.

Sure thing lol

I’m mid 20s, female and around 30-40 probably

[–]belletaco5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

Female, 27, less than 10. I wouldn't lie but no one has asked me since i was like 19.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

if it's less than 10, you should be able to be precise about it....

[–]belletaco6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

There’s one or two I’m not 100% sure id consider. I think less than 10 is fair.

[–]PhucCheet 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Incomplete penetration? Lasted less than 10 seconds?

[–]belletaco2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

something like that!

[–]abriefhistory_Supporter of science and respect1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe she doesn’t want to be, and that’s okay.

[–]darknessbemyfriend0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

There’s always the occasional time you were actually going to have a one night stand, but they were too drunk to get it up! E.g. F 23, 4. (2 while dating, 2 casual acquaintances, and 2 I missed out because it didn’t proceed due to aforementioned logistical issues). See?

[–]belletaco0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]SmurfESmurferson5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy

37 (for less than a month!), female, between 15 and 17

Edit: I've never been asked, nor have I ever lied or mislead

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

happy belated birthday, Smurfette. (And could you respond to my PM? I really need some help there.)

[–]SmurfESmurferson1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Oops, not yet - It's mid-June (I meant I'd only be 37 for one more month)

I totally blanked on that - I'll do it now!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

oh, misread that. Well, happy early birthday. 38's not so bad. Or at least what little I remember of it; that's way, way back in the rear view.

[–]SmurfESmurferson0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks!! Fingers crossed that it's a good one!

[–]frogsgoribbit7375 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm a female in my mif 20s and my N count is... 4. By your definition. I would probably jump it to 5 by my own. That includes my husband.

I've never purposefully lied, but I don't really keep track in my head and have to really count them. They were all LTRs except one. He had some relationship issues and it may have turned into something, but I ended up moving away to live with my now husband. It's a long story.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, 31, 10

I lied once to the second man I slept with that my notch was two instead of one. Two sounded better than one to me at the time for no reason.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, early 20s, 6. Never had to lie since I've never been asked! Although frankly anyone who would balk at an n-count of 6 is not someone I'd be interested in dating

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, 30, ~50ish?

No one's ever asked me my number.

[–]RockinSocksII25F poiple INTP - Not single, Eastuss needs to know this5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, 24, and no. By your definition, my n-count is 2.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy


mid 20's,

exactly 20.

I have lied to religious parents(obvious reasons), some girlfriends and my friends (yeah, I am not proud of it).

[–]PuleaSpataru69|||4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, 24 years old, 1 sex partner.

I have lied and said I had sex with one guy when I was a virgin because I hoped I can get a chance before guys run away because they think "there's somehing wrong with me"

Edit:250????????????????????????? Where do you even find that many people??? Are you hot?

[–]quotient_isPurple Pill4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, 25 and my count is 16. I've never lied about it, but I honestly don't think I've ever been asked. My partners and I have talked about past experiences, but not exact numbers. My husband knows all about my sexual history.

[–]sublimemongrelBecky, Esq.4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, early 30s, 9 PIV (11 if you include other stuff), and no. No need to lie.

[–]paccount112You're delusions are making me red5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Late 30s, early 30s.

I wasn't around for tinder and xanax

[–]SmeggingRightGot flair? Hell yeah!3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male, mid-20s, a bit over 40 - or maybe a few under that if we're just counting PIV. I don't keep a running tally.

I haven't exactly lied about the count, but I'm always evasive about it with women. I don't see why she needs to know.

[–]DebatePonyLet's ride!3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Woman, 30's, 1.

Edit: never out and out lied, but I let people assume we were waiting to keep the peace.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

but I let people assume we were waiting to keep the peace.

Religious reasons?

[–]DebatePonyLet's ride!1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not so much mine, but theirs.

[–]shoup88Report me bitch4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, 29, n count of 1. I don’t recall every lying about it.

[–]Son_of_Tzu3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

male, 26. often disclosed as its nothing to talk home about... but it's 22. never lied, back when i was a sex negative virgin i had female friends prove me wrong. good times.

[–]mistercheeez-o____O-2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male, 27, 4. Nah I don't see why I would lie about this.

[–]WestsideMoonWalker"That fucking WestsideMoonWalker boomed me" "he's so good (x4)"4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male, early 20s, 2. Never lied about. That number probably stays as is assuming things stay on track in my life and relationship.

[–]Aufbruch4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Male, late 30s, 13 in "notch count", if you're insisting on the term... Never lied about the number. Now happily married to a woman I've been living with for over seven years, now, our first anniversary fast approaching.

[–]RogerNorvell 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy


[–]Aufbruch0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]ferretsRfantasticBlue Pill Woman3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, mid-late 20s, 30+ partners

I think it is somewhere around 31 or 33? Anyways, in my adult life I haven't lied. When guys start to ask, I tell them they might not like the truth so it shuts them up pretty quickly. Those who persisted anyways? Some got upset and others didn't care.

[–]nonnimooseRP when it suits me, feminist the rest of the time3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

Woman, 50's, 4, never had the opportunity to lie about it because no one was asking

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I'm asking, go ahead and lie to me...... :)

[–]nonnimooseRP when it suits me, feminist the rest of the time2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

0h wait, did I say 4? Are we supposed to double that and add 30? Or is that converting Celsius to Fahrenheit.... ;)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

No matter girl. They're just numbers to me since I have so little experience myself.....

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male, 18. 7

[–]wtknightHardcore Romantic2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male, 40s, 3. I’ve never lied about it but have never been specifically asked in real life.

[–]Fingercel2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male, 26, zero.

No one has ever asked my number. I don't think any of my friends even realize I'm a virgin. (I've made it known that I've "hooked up" with "a few" girls before, which is true, and I think they all assume those two lame-ass half-hearted hookups ended in sex. I haven't bothered to correct this misconception.)

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, college student age, 2.

What qualifies as lying?

I've always been honest to my partner. I told my ex that I had zero romantic or sexual experience before I met him, and while I've never given my SO the number he knows that I've had 1 relationship before him and I'm not at all interested in sex outside a relationship. My SO never asked, but I'm pretty sure he "knows" my n count (aka guessed it correctly), but if he ever asks I'll give him the honest answer.

The only thing I've done that could possibly qualify as lying was nod my head yes like I knew exactly what was going on (spoilers: I didn't) when friends talked about boys.

[–]Jammerly1Snatching TRP Bald since 20172 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, early 30s. Less than 10 P in V, but I’ve gotten oral only from about 3-4 guys on top of that. Was a hardcore fundamentalist Christian until about 23, so I lied sometimes about the oral so I could say I was still technically a Virgin. Don’t care what people think now so I don’t lie. Never lied to a boyfriend.

[–]Gravel_RoadsJust a Pill2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 32, male, bisexual and transgender. I'm only clarifying this because my "P-in-V" experiences are inversed, in that the V is mine, and the P comes from my partners, but I am otherwise a normal (if short), blond man with a beard.

I was an escort for a few years when I was still trying to live life as a female, so I'm in the 3-digits. I don't have an exact count because I don't really give a shit. I had myself tested every 2 months, so I'm clean and healthy and don't seem to have suffered any lasting effects.

I'm up front and transparent about my past with my partners, as I believe in informed consent. But it's honestly never cost me in my love life -- My male partners just seem relieved that I'm experienced and non-judgemental; my female partners appreciate my uncomplicated familiarity with how their junk works.

I'm very savvy at navigating social circles, though, and I'm extremely discerning on who I court, so I'm pretty good at "dodging anything that looks like a bullet", so I've never actually had any BAD experiences. I have a long-term (18 year) open relationship with my bf, so I'm mostly from the kink/queer community where people are more laid back about this sort of shit. Dirty millenials.

[–]Reverend_VaderSith Lord4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've got 14,560 i don't know whether to humble brag you or diagnose your childhood issues with that number

Actually 6-7 i forget, 45yrs and i identify as sith

[–]RogerNorvell 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Any stats geeks up to compiling the data?

[–]Artpop_Tattooed Red Flag8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

The average price of a prostitute is $50 and you’ve been with at least 250 so that’s like $12500.

[–]yaseedog will hunt3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Ok so at the time of compiling:

-56 people responded

-23 were male, 33 female

-11 were red, 10 blue, 14 purple and the rest no pill/unclear (from flair)

-age was a headache because pretty much no one gave an exact number, so it's been broken down into 10-year-ranges: teens (1), 20s (31), 30s (17), 40s (6) and 50s (1)

-overall mean=20.5, median=6 (standard deviation is huge as fuck thanks to you outlying triple-digiters)

-mean for women=12.6, mean for men=31.8 (fun fact: this difference is not significant at the a=0.05 level because of the crazy variation in the data)

-Mean for red=46.9, for blue=27.4, for purple=7.21 and for other=12.24 (again these differences are not significant)

-Mean for those in their 20s=10, for 30s=26.6 and for 40s=62.5

aaaaand I did not do analysis for the lying thing because I forgot :( sorry.

[–]RogerNorvell 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy


22/52 lied about n count. 42% lied.

The raw data is corrupt.

[–]yaseedog will hunt1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

neat. As interesting as this is, I think the overrepresentation of people like yourself make PPD a poor sample in terms of generalizability though

[–]yaseedog will hunt4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

sure if you cut it off before the end of the day

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

someone called?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male, mid 30s, it's 12 right now. All except one are from sort of relationship (more serious or more casual). I have been asked, but I have never given a number. I'm actually more into LTRs, but many prototype of relationships have ended being more casual (with either side being sad at this fact at some point). I've, however, said twice that I was a virgin when I wasn't. For some reason that became my excuse when I just couldn't get it up because the girl didn't turn me on when naked (when clothed it was ok).

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

Male. 24. Virgin.

I tell it like it is.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Sorry to hear it, do not feel bad, it happens.

[–]LittleknownfactsVaguely Uncivil Comment3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lol I'm pretty sure he's vocel for religious reasons.

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

My time in the sun is coming.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

good luck my friend

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[–]darudeboysandstormMama Tried1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male 25, 30-40 (3 LTR), didnt lose my virginity until 19 and I told everyone I did when I was 17.

[–]crackrocksteady7Jason tell me what you're chasing1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Mid 20s man somewhere around 15

I lied about my count before it got to 5. I haven't been directly asked in a while

[–]RetardCat69Black and Blue1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, 6, 27. 3 girls and 3 guys.

[–]AnarchkittyBetter dead than Red1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male, mid-30's, I don't hide it but I don't bring it up IRL, and that's partially because I don't know what it is. I estimate between 150 and 200, but that's as close as I can get because I never really kept track and I have a terrible memory.

I was a virgin at 18 too, so all of that has been in the second half-ish of my life.

[–]couldbemage1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male, 39, 10, no.

Was in a monogamous relationship from 18 to thirty, more or less. So all my fun is post thirty. I'm also bi ish, and often do casual play with either sex that doesn't include piv.

[–]reluctantly_red1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male, early 50s, and unless I've forgotten someone a nice even 60.

I've never lied about my count if someone asked.

[–]peeingclitoris1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, 21, 20 bodies of both genders. I used to sleep around more in high school but toned it down. I lie up/down given the situation but prefer to stay silent. The only dude I met who bragged about their body count was TERRIBLE in bed. Sometimes there's a reason why average joe burns through rockstar numbers instead of building a better dynamic with someone that isn't just charisma.

Edit: I actually don't tell doctors my body count because I think it's unnecessary. I just say that I recently had sex with a new partner and that's why I'm getting tested.

[–]Entropy-7Old Goat1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male 51, basically averaged one new partner since losing my V-card. Met my wife a year and a half ago and it hasn't gone up since then.

[–]wigglysharkpurple people eater1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Female, 25, 1. I've been asked about it a couple of times, and while I've never lied about it, I've learned to stop volunteering that kind of information to certain types of people. My husband had also asked me about it when we first stated dating; he was a virgin and wanted his partner to be a virgin, too.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Male. I'm 49.

PIV N is 14.

Yes, I've lied about my N. Anyone who tells you they haven't lied about their N is lying. Men fudge theirs up; women fudge theirs down.

[–]Ascimatorsmirks audibly2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Did you lie just to support your own assumption?

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sure. If that's what you want to believe....

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 100% honest about being a virgin, Lewis.

Even when I cry myself to sleep at night.

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[–]TwentyX42 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Was this post created just to give you a chance to grandstand about the number of women you've slept with?

[–]DrippyskippyMonk1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Gentlemen don't kiss and tell.

[–]crackrocksteady7Jason tell me what you're chasing3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Note how the self admitted sluts are absent from the thread

The ppd average for women is 1.3, wow!

[–]TwentyX46 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

And then atlas posted 14 minutes after your comment.

[–]crackrocksteady7Jason tell me what you're chasing0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lotsa luck getting accurate counts from the women.....

[–]EdwigSpooner0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

People with triple figures, ever heard of a TV?

[–]larkinnaire0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Straight dude, late 30's, 35-40 partners. I don't lie about it, but it doesn't come up much and I don't think it's very far from the average in my community.

[–]Fabianstrategy1Asshole with asshole opinions0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Man, 32, upwards of 30 probably, stopped keeping track in college.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Male, Late 20s, Its at least 40 but heck if I know. Lost count in college.

[–]rpwthrowaway2016LD LTR0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Female, mid-20s, 5 (6 encounters total), never lied. Most guys don't ask.

[–]JezebeltheQueen5656Crushing males' ego since 19930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

nice try.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol I love it. Guys I want everyone to tell the truth no lieing. Cool we straight? I've fucked 18,000 women and 7 of them weren't even human.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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