An elementary concept. A man evaluates his circumstances, and then causes things to happen. The most important thing is to realize what can be changed and what can't be. Meditating on this prayer can help.

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.

It is helpful to make a list of variables you can change and variables you can't change. So I can't change the fact that it is raining, but I can get an umbrella or raincoat.

If you catch yourself blaming white knights, feminazis, modern culture, technology or anything that is beyond your direct control you are a pussy. I personally try and be vigilant. I find these things will often sneak up on me.

Even if you are a victim. Always ask what could have been done to prevent the problem. Things like false rape accusations. There are two possible solutions, never have sex for the rest of your life and never talk to women. From my observations most false rape charges are caused by lack of discretion. If the woman seems flakey you are just asking for trouble. The second solution is to take proper precautions like I outlined.

If you think being a SJW or evangelist will solve things. Have fun with that.