Not inserting a TL;dr because that would be too ironic
Something I've noticed this week I'd like to share. Use of vocabulary.
Recently I've been on a very specific monk mode where I've just been consuming a lot of reading material. I'm an engineering student and exams are coming up, so I've been in a different mindset but along with that I've been reading at least a book a day and at times where I can't hold a book (commuting, gym, showering, cooking) been listening to audiobooks.
As a result of this I've noticed a steady change in myself. While conversing with people I've been in a "listening mode" and not in a thinking mode, coupled with a little intense stare. This has resulted the person in point talking 90% of the time and I genuinely processing information. And because of the immense amount of reading I've been doing, I've been using words more than 3 syllables and to be honest, ones that I barely even know the meaning of. But regardless, because of this I've been having more and more stronger relationships.
The point of this is, last night I was at a party and talking to multiple people. And I hooked up with a 9 fairly easily. Today she was texting me and telling me how smart I am and glad that she met me. She told me that she loved how I made her feel like the only girl in the room. She said she liked the way I talk and made her feel like a grown up (we're both 19). What she said is true, albeit something I didn't intend to do.
But in essence what happened is, while I gave her focus and conversed in a "high IQ" manner, she felt I was a high status male. And because women get intoxicated by attention, she felt she needed to do everything she can to keep my undivided attention on her because otherwise I would move onto my other options. I was able to pull this off correctly and not come across as a nerd because 1) I've been lifting for 2 years and dress accordingly, so she noticed the other IOIs I was getting around me and 2) It was completely natural, the amount of reading changed the way I processed the world. I was fully in "reading" mode.
So all this was to say: READ. I'm sure we all know the positive effects it will have to your life and your mindset, but it will also increase your SMV in a very unique way. Women will recognize you move in a different way and the "smartness" of the way you conduct yourself will make you stand out from 99% of men. The amount of information you will have and the expanse of your vocabulary will allow you to have a freeflowing amount of confidence at your will.
It is a special kind of charm that will not only work on the most upper tier women, but also help you in your career. Your boss and your colleagues will think you know what your talking about and will think twice before conflicting your opinions. Obviously don't be a bookworm, that is ugly. Couple your power of words with other SMV boosters (power of body, power of wealth, power of self), and women will be only a part of the rewards this world can offer you.
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