99% of your problems posted here can be solved by reading the main sub and sidebar

jaynort · 2016-08-20T21:49:23+00:00

"Girl giving you shit? Next. Friends putting you down? Next."

Great way to die alone. Learn how to handle the shit you will inevitably receive from girls, because no girl is shit-free. Learning to make light of jokes and put downs will also earn you friends.

A lot of the problems here can be solved by just reading, yes. But these two points are poor advice, because you can't just run away from every problem you ever have with another person in life.

Still upvoted because you're right, a lot of the stuff here gets stupid.

GayLubeOil · 2016-08-21T00:13:57+00:00

People on askTRP don't read the sidebar let alone Red Pill. Their impatient fucks that want answers right now and are incapable of helping themselves.

brooklynisburnin · 2016-08-21T05:13:57+00:00

BUT YOU DON'T GET IT OK, I'M A SPECIAL SNOWFLAKE THE SIDEBAR DOESN'T APPLY TO ME BECAUSE I'M A 4'4, HALF INDIAN HALF ASIAN, HARDGAINER ECTOMORPH I EAT THE MICHAEL PHELPS DIET AND TAKE MY X-PLODE SUPER PRE WORKOUT BUT WOMEN STILL WON'T SUCK MY DICK PLS HALP.

[deleted] · 2016-08-20T23:29:01+00:00

You are right and you are wrong. This child-sub would not exist if the mods over at TRP thought it doesn't add anything of value. People misuse it, sure, but others create and exchange real value here.

Fact is, just reading something doesn't always communicate the message. People on the side of ignorance often fail to understand and internalize concepts, sometimes because they are lazy, sometimes just because you have to see it for yourself.

Taking field experience and bringing it here, asking questions, and being willing to act on feedback has helped me immensely in my journey. Most of the benefit I have received is in accepting my self during the climb, learning patience, discipline, and letting go of self-loathing thoughts and self-limiting beliefs. I don't know if I could have "forgiven" myself quite the same way, or as quickly, without the men here sharing their perspectives and helping me to understand that I am, finally, headed in the right direction.

lanky32 · 2016-08-21T04:45:32+00:00

You are both right and wrong. Yes, lots of dudes who are asking for help can solve their problems by reading and implementing the sidebar. However, reaffirmation from others encourages them in making the difficult choice. Understand, it is a new path for them. These men are not used to dropping females who act shitty with them. Its a completely new idea for them - pretty much a paradigm shift.

Giving them a little push in enabling them to make the right but difficult decision should not be a problem for us. For these people, its pretty much like being a part of Alcoholics Anonymous. The drunkard knows that he should quit drinking,he is very well aware of it. He still joins the community because it can push him in quitting drinking.

And, anyway, if you do not want to see betas whining there is TheRedPill for you. AskTRP has been kept separate to encourage people to ask their questions, irrespective of how beta or repetitive those are.

SonsOfRome · 2016-08-21T14:05:21+00:00

A lot of what's posted here is literally the same question rephrased a thousand times over

faggotbrains · 2016-08-21T07:10:54+00:00

Any update to the sidebar should be announced!

tukue · 2016-08-20T23:03:18+00:00

And even if it is something you can't find on the main sub just fucking search both for it.

Title	99% of your problems posted here can be solved by reading the main sub and sidebar
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	77
Comments	46
Date	August 20, 2016 9:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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