Men who stay in the matrix make bad decisions because they don't have the information they need to make good ones. Garbage in, garbage out. Blue pill men can't make the good decision intentionally, only accidentally. They can't see things for how they are.

When the Red Pill lifts the veil, many men come to the shocking realization that the risks in dating/marriage/life are much greater than they thought. And many men reasonably withdraw from these risks -- marriage being the first institution to be written off. You have gained some understanding into the reality of how things work and how things will likely end up; much like how an actuary can estimate the financial risks of a decision better than the layperson.

But an insurance company doesn't stop taking risks because they more fully understand them. Neither should you. Weigh the risk of your possible courses of action with your RP knowledge and act. Every action in life has consequences and risks. Specifically, plating/LTRing a woman has serious risks. Do not use this as an excuse to hide from the world. Everything worth doing is risky in some way. You must decide for yourself what level of risk you can tolerate, and much like insurance or financial markets, you should receive value in return for taking that risk. Accept that you are a risk taking man, intelligently mitigating but never shying from the juice that's worth the squeeze.