The IMO common sense rules:

  1. Don’t be alone with a man you don’t intend to fuck
  2. Drive your own car to dates or take some other transport
  3. Pay your half. Insist if he tries to prevent you.
  4. Have another person around or hang out in a group if you don’t want to sex with them

Basically common sense, treat the gun like it’s loaded. They are bigger than you. They are stronger. Do not fuck around with your safety. If it’s your SO/BF/husband obviously this doesn’t apply! But apply to any men who aren’t your SO/BF/husband. And if you don’t follow these rules sorry hun, but you kind of set yourself up for anything that happens. Yes I’m victim blaming because this shit doesn’t happen in a vacuum. Take some responsibility.