Hopefully this is a place for questions?

DangZagnut · 2020-10-01T14:28:44+00:00

Just what it means. Let’s say you’re trying to get a relationship with a girl. You might have look, wealth, status, career, and whatever else she may desire.

From a woman, you get...what? A vagina I suppose. Many men don’t care about career, status, and things women value in men. So when a woman, say, has the liabilities of a child, debt, etc., one asks, what exactly are you bringing to the relationship other than sex?

SwinginPastMyKnees_ · 2020-10-01T14:45:32+00:00

Typically this question is asked to women who have a plethora of requirements/demands for the men she dates.

Meanwhile, she's less than desirable for many reasons. However, she feels like she's entitled to this hypothetical, high-status man.

For a man to be considered attractive to a woman, he has to put in a lot of time and effort into himself (e.g., working out, making a lot of money, buying a house, improving his social status, being charismatic, being interesting, etc.). He does this to attract a woman. Meanwhile, she doesn't do much to make herself attractive to men. She just expects men to want to commit to her.

HornsOfApathy · 2020-10-01T14:46:42+00:00

Sex is a commodity. One in abundance.

It ain't exactly a sellers market.

What does she do to ads value to my life otherwise? How does she contribute to my overall success? Why her?

There are many like her, but this one is mine.

road_laya · 2020-10-01T14:28:49+00:00

https://www.powerthesaurus.org/bring_to_the_table

Kevin061 · 2020-10-01T15:37:37+00:00

Thank you all for your responses I appreciate it

Title	Hopefully this is a place for questions?
Author	Kevin061
Upvotes	1
Comments	29
Date	October 1, 2020 2:22 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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