From time to time in /r/TRP a post will come up talking about happiness, often offering advice along the lines of self acceptance and improvement, or else merely observing the state of most people in a long term relationship.

In particular, /u/Archwinger wrote this post about a year ago and argues that men are unhappy. His post was extremely well received, gilded five times, and remains one of the highest voted threads of all time in TRP.

Now, I think it's fair to say that most people end up thinking about all these pills in their general pursuit of happiness, but I'm not interested in debating the truth in Archwinger's words specifically.

I can't help but wonder - how many of you, whether in the Red Pill camp or Blue Pill camp or somewhere in between, are really happy? Interestingly, I've asked this question to quite a few Endorsed Contributors over at /r/TRP and the answer is predominantly "not really, but I'm doing a lot better than I was when I was a total loser in a garbage relationship." Which I don't doubt. But that's not my question.

Are you really happy where you are? Are you in a place where you have a healthy, frequent sex life, you don't feel like your SO is shitting all over you and neither of you is playing manipulative games?