A lot of the behaviors feminists describe as "toxic masculinity" like sexual assertiveness, violent behavior, aggressive behavior, etc. are pretty much key reasons why many women will flock to a guy. Basically it seems like feminists are saying men shouldn't "feel pressured to exhibit toxic masculinity/AKA be Chad" meanwhile in reality all the women are bending over for the guys who exhibit the exact behavior they are saying men shouldn't feel pressured to exhibit. The "toxic masculinity" thing seems DOA to me, as you can't change women's biological proclivity to seek out Chad's cock.