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"If she is getting traumatized, it's her job to leave the relationship, not mine to stop using my emotional manipulation."
I said this in one of my earlier comments in another thread. I edited that comment and ended up removing this statement because my comment was not concise and did not accurately convey my thoughts on the subject. That being said, I still stand by this statement
Before you answer, I want you to take a look at this thread: http://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/137owz/my_wife_makes_me_wear_a_chastity_and_its_not_for/
Read the first comment. The commenter is basically telling the OP that he is being abused and that he needs to leave the relationship. How come when a man is emotionally abused its his job to 'man up' and leave the relationship, but when it's a woman being abused, she isn't told to leave the relationship?
As far as I'm concerned, I see a double standard here, and I don't like it. So please explain to me as to why what I said is bad when men are being told to leave abusive relationships. Why can't I tell women the same thing? Give me your wisdom TBP.
EDIT: I don't want to be an abuser. Given a choice, I'd rather not emotionally manipulate a woman than manipulate her. Forget morality, it's less effort for me. But my quote is honest. An abuser is not going to suddenly stop abusing his wife. Hence, it is her 'job' to leave the relationship since the abuser won't stop.
EDIT 2: I can see why I'm having a disconnect with people on TBP. I'm advocating for women to not dress proactively at night, and you guys are advocating for rapists to not rape. The problem is, rapists don't care what you think and are going to rape anyways.
Do you see my point?
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