Disclaimer: In the words of /u/MachiavellianRed :

TRP's position on marriage is simple "it's rarely worth it." If we had an official position (we don't) it would be: "don't get married."

The other night, I went out to eat dinner with 7 other friends, 4 men and 3 females. This conversation lasted for about 5 minutes, but before I share it I'd like to provide some background.

Female one is a proud supporter of transgender rights, gay rights, lesbian rights, queer rights, etc. She loves to talk about any type of social liberalism. Female number two openly talks about sex, and has made it known to all members in this group that (her words, not mine) “the perfect guy to girl ratio for me is 3 : 1. That way I can have choices.” She basically confirms the cock carousel. Female number three, surprisingly, dresses nicely, acts like a lady to those who don’t know her, but in reality swears like a sailor and acts rude and obnoxious while talking with people, putting people down.

The four other men are all beta nice guysTM.

So we’re all talking, and at some point in the conversation, the topic of divorce comes up. Female two says “I want to marry a rich man.” Female one chimes in saying, “I mean, there’s got to be more than money, but money is nice.” I and the other four guys don’t say anything, we just let them talk.

Female two continues “like if I knew a man was rich, I’d so marry him. But only if he didn’t have a pre-nup.” [Emphasis mine]. This caught my attention. Curious, I asked, “why do you not want a prenup?” She responded the following, “because he’s going to be rich not me. I’m going to get married to him and divorce him so that I can get his money.

Now, I know—AWALT. It didn’t surprise me that this woman was being a woman; what did surprise me was that she was so honest about it.

Female number one commented immediately after, “yeah, like, he gives you 90% of his stuff and he keeps 10%.” All 3 started laughing, and female #2 responded, “I could live with that.”

At this point, hamster primed, female number 3 joins the conversation: “I mean like, he’s going to keep on making money, so he should give us more money.”

Females one and two both agreed.

Lessons to be learned

  1. AWALT. While not all women will express their true feelings so casually, every woman on Earth thinks selfishly, in her own interest. This is very important to understand. AS men, we are brought up to help others. We are taught the concepts of loyalty and honor, and we are taught that being a “gentleman,” i.e. putting others above yourselfs shows character. Women do not abide by a similar ethical code. They put themselves first, and do not give a shit about you.

  2. Test a woman if you plan to LTR her. Tell her that you want a pre-nup. As female number two said, she doesn’t want to marry a man who wants a pre-nup. You should not want to marry a woman who doesn’t want a pre-nup. Better yet, don’t’ get married.

  3. If applicable, Hide your wealth. Do not let these golddiggers find out how much is in your wallet. Move your wealth overseas, and hire a tax attorney to make sure you don’t break any laws. Protect yourself in every which way possible.

  4. Trust no one. These women were in their early twenties. Let that sink in. Women this young already plan on deceiving you, financially handicapping you, and using the system to their advantage. Your woman is not special. She is female. She is prone to woman-like behaviors, and is simply not capable of being the good-natured person your BP self thought she could and would be.

Stay safe brothers.