I knew a girl during high school. She definitely had a crush on me back then, but I had no clue how to escalate. I'm 24 now and have a stronger understanding of sexuality. Recently, I was looking though my old Facebook messages and found a conversation between us. I figured, what the hell, and texted her.

One thing led to another and we setup a dinner date. She was so nervous to see me that she was literally shaking. Still, she invited me back to her place -- which is when I realized that she still lives with her parents. She has no job, dropped out of college because of a mental breakdown, and basically has no direction. We watched a movie. Then I initiated a makeout. Her dad walked in on us which was pretty fucking awkward. So I left.

All throughout the week, she kept texting me long ass paragraphs, GIFs, and begging me to hang with her again. I had a free evening yesterday, so I brought her over to my apartment. For whatever reason, she randomly told me that she's addicted to porn and showed me her subscription to some website. Then she told me a story about how she jerked off two guys one time.

I laughed off all of her silly stories and proceeded to escalate. Everything was going smoothly; makeout, took off our clothes, went to my bed, etc. Yet when we finally arrived at that point, I couldn't get hard to save my life. I simply wasn't feeling it. Plus, her skills were awful. Probably the worst blowjob I've ever received. When she jerked me, it was like a fucking jackhammer and she sack-tapped me a few times.

What the fuck.

So I just fingered her for awhile. She just laid there, eyes closed, not even moaning,. Until she perked up at one point and said, "Fuck me hard." I straight-up told her I cannot get hard right now. So we cuddled for like ten minutes before she left.

My plan going forward was to totally forget about her. She killed all of my attraction. However, I noticed that she left her necklace at my apartment -- a special birthstone necklace that she had received as a birthday present. I know she's gonna ask for it. What the hell should I do?