I've had a few conversations where the girl gets triggered because I try to very calmly argue there is no patriarchy in the western world and that women aren't oppressed, and they get very triggered instead of arguing.

I've mentioned how 79% of murder victims are male (and how why they always read about women getting murdered is linked to the death of mass media), how the pay gap is a myth, how there is no rape culture and proof of this is that just the accusation of rape can ruin a man's whole life (whereas in the middle east rape can be legal), how domestic violence is statistically more likely in relationships where women are involved (lesbian 44%, heterosexual 30%, gay 25%), and how women are much more prone to physical violence at the end of a relationship (but that men wield lethal force so its more dangerous). And how we even had a female president elected twice (not american).

They just fucking lose it, call me a chauvinistic pig, a cis gender hetero male of the patriarchy, etc. I've told them, hey, I will listen to what you have to say, just calm down, and make your point, and they don't want to know anything about it and just get insanely mad. I've even questioned how they are pro abortion but not pro financial abortion and they were just dumbfounded.