Been working RP for 11 weeks now. A week ago began implementing A&A, fogging per recommendations here with good results.
A little history....our bedroom is dead (sex 2 times in the last 12 months). I gave up initiating when I found RP and went monk mode to focus on myself.
Last night I came down with food poisoning...a really bad fucking case, to the point where I called out sick today for the 1st time in the 9 years I've been at this job. Spent all day puking and on the shitter.
Wife comes home from work and initiates. This is the first time shes done so in 3 fucking years at least. As much as I wanted to fuck her I gave her a hard no....I literally just got done sitting on the toilet for 30 minutes and felt the dry heaves coming again. She lost her shit - flipped out, started yelling about how she cant believe I turned her down, bitching about the fact that I'm not ready when shes feeling horny for once, that I should be lucky she wants to fuck, etc. I'm feeling like shit and not particularly witty so I just STFU. She eventually stomps off and is in the media room watching her stupid shows.
I'm pretty sure she is trying to manipulate me as she knows I'm sick as fuck and would say no....but unsure as to what end. I think I handled this well but I'm also unsure. Thoughts?