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Plate calling other name during sex

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October 2, 2019
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So I was fucking this plate good and then suddenly she called out another name. She could stop it herself mid-word but I know who she was calling out. She's fucking me but obviously in love with the other dude she called out. I pretended I didn't hear it but it certainly turned me off

Is this a sign of disrespect and ditch her as a plate or? What are your thoughts?


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Title Plate calling other name during sex
Author bobbiebobberbob
Upvotes 69
Comments 94
Date 02 October 2019 05:49 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/288208
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/dc63cf/plate_calling_other_name_during_sex/
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[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev228 points229 points  (21 children) | Copy

He wasn't fucking her, and you were. Who gives a shit? Stop being butthurt. It's not like she's your wife.

Tell her that, during sex, it's acceptable to yell out (a) your name, and (b) God's name, only. Nobody else's name.

[–]seducter23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha picturing chick's yelling "Yah-Weh!!" in bed. "Bitch, just say God how bout that."

[–]Pasta177632 points33 points  (1 child) | Copy

At least spank the shit out of her or slap her. Otherwise you might as well have had a threesome.

[–]NightTripInsights8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

A threesome is two women w/ 1 man, trains are multiple dudes w/ one woman.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tell her that, during sex, it's acceptable to yell out (a) your name, and (b) God's name, only. Nobody else's name.

If she calls out God I accuse her of cheating on me with a diety.... followed by "Is he bigger than me? Is that god dick better than mine?"

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Uncle Vasya, coming in with the best advice once again.

[–]nateydanger2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I can't THIS hard enough. You can disregard all other posts.

[–]PraiseBasedDonut1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You can always say THIS .

[–]nateydanger0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not good enough

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes.

[–]ChadTheWaiter1000 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Hey big unc,

I wonder something. Do you believe that a certain type of woman, with high confidence, is more difficult to pull? Example- a woman who is extremely fit with a fantastic ass. Do you think that she would be more of a challenge Bc basically she knows she is the shit?

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do you believe that a certain type of woman, with high confidence, is more difficult to pull?

Can be depending on her personality. But it's not always the case. The girl I refer to as "The Hotness" in my model post was actually something of a girl-nerd. Very good at chess, and totally dug it that I did an exposition of the Battle of Midway for her on our first date. I realize that sounds odd, but it was topical, I went with it, and she dug it. I stopped halfway through to inquire and she enthusiastically said she dug it and she had been afraid that the convo was going to be "What kind of dog do you like?" and such. I wound up plowing her, so evidently it was ok.

Example- a woman who is extremely fit with a fantastic ass. Do you think that she would be more of a challenge Bc basically she knows she is the shit?

So I am working on just such a girl. She is basically the hottest girl I have ever seen. Hot like "inside of the sun" hot. Anyway, she def knows, but she still has the same existential problems as other girls, still wants the same thing as other girls - a Leader not a Loser - and so forth.

Sometimes, super hot girls are actually easier to game because most guys are terrified of them, and many who do approach them supplicate. If you treat them like "normal" girls and maintain Frame it's like catnip for them. If you build a narrative, like I do, then you can wind up with what I do, which is hot girl saying "OMG! No guys has ever talked to me like this before!"

So Mighty Aphrodite? She said to me earlier this week, "I think my dad will like you."

Me: "I think it's cute that you are already thinking about whether your parents will like me or not."

Busted, resulting in a 5 alarm blush. But hey, my pimp hand is strong, so she can hardly be blamed.

[–]sumethreuaweiei 1 points [recovered]  (9 children) | Copy

my plate wants to see other ‘fun’ guys when she visits her hometown during thanksgiving. Any advice on improving so she might be less inclined to sleep around?

I’ve already read SGM, ramped up my cardio, and started jelqing. I’m thinking about telling her “I’m not the kind of guy who gets with girls who sleep around. You can do what you want, but I’m not interested in being part of your rotation”

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

Any advice on improving so she might be less inclined to sleep around?

She's a plate. Why would you care?

jelqing

Will I regret asking what this is?

I’m thinking about telling her “I’m not the kind of guy who gets with girls who sleep around. You can do what you want, but I’m not interested in being part of your rotation”

Except you are the kind of guy who gets with girls who sleep around; that's why you have plates.

It sounds like you have caught feels. If you try to restrict her, she's either going to (a) demand exclusivity, or (b) dump you. Or (c) say "Nah, sumethreuaweiei, I just wanna bang" <==This would actually be the best outcome.

She's a plate, stop giving a shit.

[–]sumethreuaweiei 1 points [recovered]  (7 children) | Copy

Thank you for taking the time to respond.

jelq

Jelqing is dick extension and increasing hardness by ‘milking’ yourself to increase bloodflow.

Except you are the kind of guy who gets with girls who sleep around; that's why you have plates.

The intention was “sleep around” = multiple men in rotation

why do you care?

The thought of another man pumping/dumping, licking her body and sucking on her mouth is frankly disgusting. I don’t want to think about her sucking someone off while I’m kissing her. I’m not interested in sharing. I don’t know how this doesn’t bother you.

stop giving a shit

Problem is, she keeps me secret, has me come over for exactly 1 hour on Fridays, and knows that neither of us are built to LTR one another. She keeps telling me her sex stories and this one guy she wants to meet over Thanksgiving. He’s stupid and annoying, but apparently his bedroom game is so good that she keeps going for more. I want to know how to improve after going through SGM

When I asked if she was seeing other men, she said, “Why does it matter? I make you use a condom.” She told me she reserves bareback for people she’s dating, and my guy tells me it’s also for that other guy.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

Jelqing is

And...I regret asking. Hope it works out for you.

Sleep around

She's a plate; when she's not with you, as far as you are concerned, she ceases to exist.

The thought of other men...

Ceases to exist.

I am not interested in sharing

Then you either need an LTR or an OLTR.

I don’t know how this doesn’t bother you.

I have actual abundance. When you are banging multiple girls and you can put a new one in the rotation if starts acting out, then none of it matters: She's not yours, it's just your turn. <==You need to meditate on this.

neither of us are built to LTR one another.

That's why this isn't going to work out. Or you need to get over your jealousy. Because even if you blow her mind, she sounds like the type that's going to keep balling other guys. At least she's an "ethical" slut.

She keeps telling me her sex stories

You can tell her you aren't interested.

I want to know how to improve after going through SGM

You should introduce light bondage into the bedroom.

When I asked if she was seeing other men, she said, “Why does it matter? I make you use a condom.” She told me she reserves bareback for people she’s dating, and my guy tells me it’s also for that other guy.

So are you annoyed that you have to use a condom and other dudes don't?

[–]sumethreuaweiei 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Then you either need an LTR or an OLTR

Isn't the whole point of a plate/fwb to have a woman that isn't interested in other guys, but understands you come with the condition of nonexclusivity? Even so, I've told her that I wasn't seeing anyone else (for now), and I enjoyed spending time with her.

At least she's an "ethical" slut

Because she's telling the truth?

You should introduce light bondage into the bedroom

Already done, as per SGM recommendation: using a necktie to tie her up or cover her mouth. I didn't know if there was anything else I could do or a place I could get more ideas.

So are you annoyed that you have to use a condom and other dudes don't?

Honestly, I don't know if it's annoyance, jealousy, or what. She's the only girl I'm seeing because it took me two short dates to bed her. We see eachother 3x/week in class and chat a bit before and after lectures, but she isn't interested in any physical touch outside of the bedroom besides a handshake and doesn't want anyone to know about our sexual relationship. Good, bad? I don't know.

We're at a small college, so we both don't know very many people. I suppose I started to develop some sort of attachment because we know about each other's lives, she occasionally helps me out, and she's intelligent with relatable interests. We're both desirable people because the average student here is immature and overweight.

I don't know if it's because:

  1. I feel disrespected that she's seeing other guys and is so open about it

  2. I'm frustrated at my inability to be 'mind-blowing' and she schedules me exactly once a week and kicks me out right away like a dog. Note: I live far away, and she lives on-campus, so we only go to her place.

  3. I'm being territorial/disgusted because I really don't want to fuck her while another man is slobbering all over her.

The most frustrating fucking thing is when she says, "This guy from my hometown that I'm texting is incredibly annoying to text, but I put up with it because I need to keep the connection because it's so fun to have sex with him." When she first said it, it was like a punch to my stomach. Is it my inability to assert boundaries, not be sexually good enough, or just her stupidity that made her say that?

When I asked if she was seeing other guys, she snapped, "Why do you care? I make you wear a condom," making me feel like a bitch. I just responded, "Good question, I'm not sure. I'm a germaphobe."

I don't care if it's no longer "my turn" because I made it clear I didn't want an LTR with her because she wouldn't stop talking about sex when I met her i.e. she's a whore. She's 19 and also doesn't want an LTR until she's older. But I do care if she's with me and fucking others. And because I know she values me as a catch, I'm considering to just nuke with, "I'm not interested in being a part of your rotation," either now or closer towards Thanksgiving.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Isn't the whole point of a plate/fwb to have a woman that isn't interested in other guys, but understands you come with the condition of nonexclusivity?

Not really. The point of plates is having ready access to sex and then you both do whatever (and whoever) you do on your own time.

An OLTR is a situation where she is exclusive and you are not.

Even so, I've told her that I wasn't seeing anyone else (for now), and I enjoyed spending time with her.

Right, but I doubt she’s going to alter her behavior.

Because she's telling the truth?

Yes.

I didn't know if there was anything else I could do or a place I could get more ideas.

Go to the Ask TRP Sidebar and look for “CorporateLand”. I have a thing on it there, in the 2nd section.

Honestly, I don't know if it's annoyance, jealousy, or what.

…wait for it…

She's the only girl I'm seeing

BOOM!, it’s scarcity. You only have one plate; she’s banging lots of dudes. So YOU are the plate and SHE is your girlfriend...except she’s banging lots of dudes. And THAT is your hangup (which isn’t unjustified, but if you were tapping 3 girls on the regular, you wouldn’t care, or you would care a lot less.)

We see eachother 3x/week in class and chat a bit before and after lectures, but she isn't interested in any physical touch outside of the bedroom besides a handshake and doesn't want anyone to know about our sexual relationship. Good, bad? I don't know.

She doesn’t want a hit to her reputation. Be cool about that, because you’re getting “appointment” sex with no commitment.

We're at a small college, so we both don't know very many people.

Hmm. Shouldn’t you know basically everyone? Or is it just that there aren’t many people to know?

I suppose I started to develop some sort of attachment because we know about each other's lives, she occasionally helps me out, and she's intelligent with relatable interests.

And she’s the only girl you are banging.

1) I feel disrespected that she's seeing other guys and is so open about it

It’s scarcity.

2) I'm frustrated at my inability to be 'mind-blowing' and she schedules me exactly once a week and kicks me out right away like a dog. It's been like this for the 4-5 times we've been together. Yet, she's incredibly aroused every time we meet.

It’s scarcity.

You are hitting it just fine, or she wouldn’t have you over.

3) I'm being territorial/disgusted because I really don't want to fuck her while another man is slobbering all over her. Definitely will not introduce oral when this is the case.

It’s scarcity.

The most frustrating fucking thing is when she says, "This guy from my hometown that I'm texting is incredibly annoying to text, but I put up with it because I need to keep the connection because it's so fun to have sex with him." When she first said it, it was like a punch to my stomach.

Congrats, YOU are the Plate.

Is it my inability to assert boundaries, not be sexually good enough, or just her stupidity that made her say that? Or is she trying to get a reaction, and I should call her out on it?

No, you should STFU and keep nailing her and stop caring about it. Girls tend to narrate their lives. Don’t worry about it. You can always tell her ”I don’t really need to hear about other guys.” If you want.

When I asked if she was seeing other guys, she snapped, "Why do you care? I make you wear a condom," making me feel like a bitch. I just responded, "Good question, I'm not sure. I'm a germaphobe." I repeated, and she refused to answer.

Someone doesn’t want to feel like a little slut. That’s what’s up. Don’t make her feel that way (in the bad way). Assert more dominance in the bedroom.

I don't care if it's no longer "my turn" because I made it clear I didn't want an LTR with her because she wouldn't stop talking about sex when I met her i.e. she's a whore. She's 19 and also doesn't want an LTR until she's older, so she said she didn't mind.

/Facepalm. Dude she is promiscuous. If you enjoy nailing her, do it, if you don’t, then move on. You’re not going to fucking marry her. Chill out.

But, I do care if she's with me and fucking others.

Because: Scarcity. If you were nailing 3 other girls, this wouldn’t be a problem.

And because I know she values me as a catch

No, she values you as a lay.

I'm considering to just nuke with, "I'm not interested in being a part of your rotation," either now or closer towards Thanksgiving.

That’s a bitch move.

But at the end of the day, I know that if people want to do something, they'll do it and lie if they need to. So, I'm stuck.

No, you’re not. It’s time for YOU to have a rotation. Add a couple of girls in. Right now, you basically do want to be exclusive with this girl, because you don’t have other current options. So go get some. And yes, that’s difficult. Congrats, you’re a man. Make yourself in the Prize. If you build it, they will come.

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY2002100 points101 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a good thing.

Something like this will stop you developing oneitis for her, and just reinforce the fact that she will never be anything more than a plate.

[–]Fromstatepharm141 points142 points  (9 children) | Copy

Agree and amplify.

[–]Rkingpin89 points90 points  (1 child) | Copy

Instructions unclear, plate recognised my uncles name

[–]Fromstatepharm39 points40 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sorry to hear your uncle is cheating on you.

[–]MultiMidsets83 points84 points  (2 children) | Copy

While y'all fucking 💀.

Plate: "Oh joe"

You in your head "who tf is joe"

agrees & amps

You:"aww yeahh joe"

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

I would go with something more like...

*slaps her ass hard* "Joe can't help you now!"

[–]2dfx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No dude she was saying "yo Joe" she's just a GI Joe enthusiast

[–]PizzaAndProtein37 points38 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'd start calling out stupid names and eventually burst out laughing instead of finishing.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m going to try this lol

[–]RevolutionRose-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Instructions unclear, plate taking underage sons name

[–]AllTay44 points45 points  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly, I would’ve paused for a second, laughed, and then kept fucking her. It’s moments like that when you should be thankful you have the knowledge in this sub on your side.

[–]Bornagainslayer92 points93 points  (10 children) | Copy

I actually lol’d. Sorry to hear that dude. Not a lot you can do, if it were me I’d keep fucking her harder to beat the other guy but I’m competitive like that

[–][deleted] 43 points44 points  (8 children) | Copy

Only way to beat the other guy is not the sex. It would be to see her maximum once a month and start ignoring her texts. I'll just keep fucking hr every week, don't mind her being in love with another guy but her yelling out another name kinda turned me off bigtime during sex.

Anyway thx.

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

kinda turned me off

I sympathize, but please consider the possibility that this indicates you're too attached to her. You should not have feelings like that for a plate - it will benefit you greatly to learn how to fuck a girl without catching feelings. Use this as an opportunity to practice that.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

I am too attached to her. I am aware of that but I guess you gotta go through all the steps first to be able to become fully detached to woman. I am not that experienced yet.

Thanks though, great response!

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good luck to you, man.

In general, the person who cares the least about a relationship has the most power in that relationship. But, that's not the reason why I'm claiming you'll benefit from learning to not become too attached. The reason is, men who become too attached too quickly are harmed more than women who do the same.

Imagine a blue-pilled guy pining over a girl vs. an average girl crushing on a guy. The blue-pilled guy likely isn't approaching, therefore isn't dating/banging, therefore never gets over his feelings. The girl, on the other hand, is being approached, and will be open to a casual date, and that gives her the opportunity to move on.

You can't help that you get feelings. Also, it's fine to have appropriate feelings for a girl who reciprocates and with whom you have a healthy relationship. But dwelling on, fomenting, or accepting them when they're not reciprocated, is a death sentence for you as a man.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks! My goal is to be able to emotionally attach to a girl but have the guts to cut it off whenever I want where my mind/will will be bigger than my emotions.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Might be fun to make a joke of it, start calling her Karen.

[–]thrwy7547931 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy

if it were me I’d keep fucking her harder

while howling at the moon

[–]AngloWolf42 points43 points  (6 children) | Copy

This might be her overtly playing some dread on you to see how you respond/if you get jealous.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy

100% this. OP's story is not something any girl in human history has actually done. They're not retarded, they're just not as good at manipulation as they think they are

[–]Zanford0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

idk, it hasn't happened to me, but I've come very close to mixing up plates' names myself, or referring to some convo I had with a different plate....so I could see a slut doing something like this accidentally.

[–]MotiMorphosys10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

This would honestly be my first inclination as well... "Is this some sick form of a shit test? I bet she's looking for a reaction"

I'd agree and amplify

"I've always wanted to fuck him too, but I don't think he's into guys"

But like everyone's been saying, the worst thing you can do is get butthurt.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

dude, you guys are crazy.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

overt dread? Are you serious? Wtf?

[–]ZR19870 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This was my first thought. I don't think this happens naturally.

[–]MR_SKINNYPENIS6937 points38 points  (1 child) | Copy

She's a plate. By definition she's nothing but sex to you.

Two options:

  1. Let your ego go and just enjoy the sex you're having. Focus entirely on getting yourself off and let her close her eyes and think about the other guy. Look at her titties bouncing as you pound her and enjoy the view. Who cares what she's thinking about. It's not like she's your gf. There are some guys who would be relieved to know they can just use her like an object and she's not going to catch feels for you. You've actually found the perfect plate - available for sex but no risk of asking to be your gf. Personally I'd love to get a plate who was in love with another guy and just meeting me for relief. In a way it's kinda hot.

  2. If it bothers you hard next and fuck a different plate.

Either option is totally fine. It's all about what works for you personally. Keep it simple. Peace

[–]abir0696 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Option 1 is the way to go.If you get hurt that means you are emotionally involved.Don't be.Cuz that's how you loose.

[–]TheCamelRustler12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

Her actions. Not her words.

Peace.

[–]abir0692 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Damn straight.

[–]kfd_capital12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

Say her best friend's name. That'll teach her real quick.

[–]Uzinero3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Or her mum's name...or her dad's.

[–]trunksshortsman10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’s a plate.If it keeps happening then drop her

[–]Flux_79 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

  • She’s using you as a living dildo, while you’re using her as a hole. This is fair game, obviously you don’t have feelings for each other.

  • Calling out someone else’s name is still wack though, so give a good spank if it happens again.

[–]sebastianconcept8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not LTR material so you now confirmed she stays as plate. But I can see how it can be a big turn off when happens

[–]amphix3396 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I mean it happens bro, gotta take the hit and keep it moving

[–]deathhandmachiavelli4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It might be an easy shit test to pass.

She is trying to see if you are going to get rattled by her calling another name. Some guys will get real jealous and start asking about this other guy and doing all kinds of whiny, insecure bullshit.

I would just laugh about it or ignore it and not be rattled one bit. See her shit test become instantly deflated when you don't care.

If it wasn't a shit test and just happened because she was thinking about the guy, which is unlikely IMO, she is just a plate, so don't worry about it anyways.

[–]cracksniffer6669 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

Cracks me up how low IQ they can be. That's like me eating a dank ass slice of pizza and yelling "HOTDOG! OH, HOTDOG!"

Jesus fucking Christ, at least pay attention to who's dick is in you.

[–]papunigga0311 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

It just shows they aren’t to be taken seriously. Not something to be angry about.

[–]cracksniffer6660 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

IKR? It's crazy once you see the truth. (it sucks telling people about it though lol)

[–]ThrowsSharksAtBirds2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It is a plate, you decide what to do. If you got turned off then ditch her. Unless it is your only plate then you know what to do.

[–]rookieMale2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

You are fuckin her just for sex. She is also clearly fucking for just for sex. What seems to be the issue?

Pull aways all the non sexual attention and keep fucking.

[–]Hungboy696942010 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Cause dudes here want to be a girls entire world while only offering casual sex and get upset when chicks view them as living dildos

[–]Flux_73 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fair crack.

But it would still be kinda awkward having her call out another fella’s name during sex.

[–]Scorsone2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’s a plate so it’s nothing serious. Don’t overthink this shit. Share a lol with all of us.

[–]anotherchump992 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

In love with the other guy but she is fucking you? That's some messed up shit

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Meeehh tons of girls are in love with a guy they can't get. I mean it's not real love, it's love for the non-existing perfect image they put up but they don't know the difference.

[–]red_matrix2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If this happened with your gf or wife I’d be worried, but this is a plate, and plates don’t last - they break. In this case I wouldn’t next, but know she could be moving on soon.

[–]boom_bostic2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I used to accidentally call girls different names. It used to drive them mad whenever I slipped up & did this. I’ve even had girls hit me when it happened.

I can tell you why it happened in my case and why it possibly happened to you. I would spend a lot of time with my girlfriend, then for like a day or so I’d be with another girl and I was so used to saying my gf’s name that I’d blurt it out without effort or thinking about her.

So this chick is probably just used to saying her main squeeze’s name during sex so it’s just like a muscle memory type of response. I wouldn’t get to caught up into my feelings on this one.

[–]friendandadvisor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's just a plate. Plates are like us-they're expected to have other paramour. You could have done the same thing.

[–]mymindislikeaseive1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Call out another woman's name too! ...maybe her friend's? ...her Mom's?

Lol, call out your own name?

Who give a shit, she's a muff bag at that point anyway.

[–]chim_city1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Randal Graves:
People say crazy shit during sex. One time I called this girl "Mom."

[–]Bruchibre4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe you weren't fucking her that good after all

[–]khuper1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Who gives a shit? She’s not your gf and you clearly have zero respect for her based on your comments where you talk about treating her as an object who you plan to ignore.. so what does she owe you?

[–]IRunYourRiver0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You have to write a song about it.

[–]2stoned0jaguar9tre0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She aint your lady.

[–]MultiMidsets0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is weird shit

[–]mickey__0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s good mate, that’s why she’s plate and not ltr lmao

[–]throwawaybpdnpd0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It just confirms that she stays a plate

Either you keep fucking her, or you next for a better plate to take the spot

Personally I’d next for a better plate... not dumb > just o.k. sex

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

but obviously in love

This is not the right conclusion at all.

Is this a sign of disrespect and ditch her as a plate or? What are your thoughts?

Of course it is..... she's thinking of someone else in that second.

Equally though.... this isn't your wife, this is a girl you're fucking. Lower your expectations and enjoy the sex.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Thanks. About your first note: She is in love with this other guy who is the standard Chad. Her best friend told me during a drunk evening while going out. She loves me too but loves Chad more most likely cause of scarcity.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don't believe in love.

Think about this more in terms of attraction

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah no love, just attraction in the moment. Thanks!

[–]Don_Draper270 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She’s not yours. I’d continue to fuck her and maybe gag her so it doesn’t happen again. I would also avoid investing much in this.

[–]Zanford0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

LOL dude. If it's getting inside your head and it's upsetting to you, you're catching feels, so just ghost her. It doesn't get much clearer than this. 'Disrespect'...yes of course....it doesn't really matter if she couldn't help it / just an accident (obv it was). Even if she's not (still) fucking the other dude, it's clear that's where her heart and tingles are.

Now that said, if she really is just a plate to you, and you don't think she's a high STD risk...you might consider still fucking her, but I strongly suggest 1. treating her like a booty call and nothing more 2. upping the ante and going into roleplay and kinky stuff, start calling her different names and make her roleplay as other women (fictional characters, the one that got away for you, doesn't matter), do BDSM etc.

Edit: someone else theorizes it's a shit test. Interesting idea...even if true, it shows some callous thottery and is also a reason to consider her booty call plate at most.

[–]66pisstrooperorder660 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Whooooo caares she’s just a plate keep doing your thing nothing disrespectful about it unless your feeling are hurt because you have feeling for her

[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She's not your gf. Who cares? You want to next her because she's interester in other people? You wouldn't get up and walk off mid sex if a hooker you were fucking starter calling out some random dude's name in ecstacy. So why do it with a plate?

Just know that this one is nowhere near GF material for now

[–]Aymane221 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Plate did this to me a few weeks ago I left the room to make a call legit came back and her pants were off. Don’t show ur jealous and you’ll be balls deep

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dude. I was already balls deep when she said this...

[–]bakamoney0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

F.

[–]EspressoCappuccino-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

The guy is definitely Chad

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

yup



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