This is not really a question, I just want to share what I think in this sub and see your opinions about it. I'm a latino in his late 20s, I've been living most of my life in my latin country and right now I've been in USA for a few weeks visiting and I want to give you my perspective about the dating market in the US
I'm not your typical Alpha latino guy who is extremely skilled dancer and goes to dancing places every weekend and all girls know him, or that other alpha latino who is into smelly business and has 20 chains hanging on his neck and all bad bitches love, but I think that I've been lurking around long enough to have a good understanding of most of the red pill concepts and I've actually successfully used a lot of them in real life, specially the abundance mentality mindset.
The dating marketing in US is very skewed against man, it's confusing and complicated. Brother, whoever is reading, it's not like this in other countries, believe me, I've tried to analize the whole dating scene from ground up and it's incredible how difficult it is to actually score for an average guy here in the US. Back when I was blue pilled, it was hard, but I could still score from time to time a decent looking girl for my SMV at that time, I thought it was hard there, but now that I visit the US I understand many things that you need to live in order to believe them.
The dating market is WAY better and easier for a variety of reasons:
The culture of endless discussion and debate(I found this online, and this is gold): American culture is based on endless and endless talks, discussions and debates. Turn on the TV and you’ll be greeted by talk show after talk show consisting of people discussing all kinds of things. If it’s a news program, then the endless talk will about current events. If it’s a political talk show, then they’ll discuss politics, economics or foreign policy to death. As a result of this information overload, most women you meet in America have already formed various opinions on a wide range of issues.
Flirting vs. formally discussing sexual topics(also from the internet): There’s a huge difference between flirting and merely discussing sexual topics. I hatetalking about sex with someone on such a politically correct level that it feels like we’re discussing America’s foreign policy.
When I went out and talked to women tt felt completely unnatural to drop the discussion and transition into emotional flirting. I couldn’t force her to flirt: I couldn’t force her to do what she wasn’t comfortable doing. You can try touching her, being a little flirtatious to try to make her uncomfortable, but for a lot of girls here it just won't work, a normal girl would blush and get excited and shy about it, or at least get a little uncomfortable, but to my surprise she boldly began sharing her opinions on this subject as thought she had discussed exactly this topic countless times before.
So, what’s the problem, you may ask? It’s the fact that I wanted to genuinely flirt—flirt without all the politically correct bullshit on subjects that have already been discussed ad naseum—but I couldn’t
For the average guy that doesn't really have any outstanding attributes, I imagine it must be extremely frustrating not to be able to have a girl, if you add the fact that prostitution is ilegal here(so you never learn to be dominant or have sexual experience), it's an extremely uncomfortable situation.
I was able to score here in the US, but not as easily as latin and european countries, here things are way against man, also expectations are unrealistic here and I think they've made it so hard that it's completely worthless.
To be honest if I"d live here I think I'd become 100% mgtow(I'm only at 80%) very quickly because here in the US going after girls is pointless UNLESS you are in the top 5%(which is a genetic lottery), look I'm 6 foot tall, I workout often and don't look bad, but you cannot compete with bradpitt looking face, 7 figures salaries and steroid use together, you simply cannot, period.
Just share your opinions!!