How do you escalate with a shy girl after you isolate her?

Dimenzije90 · 2019-09-19T18:38:22+00:00

You have to show her that it is fun to loosen up. Try taking her hand while leading her throught the crowd or put your arm on her waist when you two are talking(while standing) or on her knee (if youre sitting) over time she will loosen up. And with these type of girls never be serious. They loosen up to the guy who is fun and teases her. That way you show her it aint that bad to loosen up.

P. S. From my experience these girls are dangerous because you can easly catch feelings since they are so pure. And then when they finally open up it's like shes not the same girl anymore. Its easy to catch oneitis with these girls so my tip is to every time you think youre getting oneitis read the sidebar all over. Youll realise she isn't the unicorn and you still gotta hold frame no matter what.

Freezer2609 · 2019-09-19T17:15:36+00:00

Just greet her with a hug when you see her tomorrow

Pwnishment87 · 2019-09-19T18:01:55+00:00

Put on some tunes and ask her to dance. Isolate -> Kino -> Escalate -> Bed -> Procreate (but wrap that up even shy looking girls could screw up your whole life.)

Don_Draper27 · 2019-09-19T21:27:18+00:00

Try building more comfort and keep escalating at a steady pace until she starts giving IOD's or verbally tells you to stop. Then you can try soft nexting and deciding if you want to give it another chance.

She might also just be the really slow type. Like the "wait until the 10th date" type and you need to realize that maybe your guys' values don't align.

[deleted] · 2019-09-20T02:30:30+00:00

OP I was pretty much in your position. I was 20 and my first GF was a virgin and just turned 20. I took it slowly and got her comfortable with me. After that we would fuck on every date.

The thing is of she is a virgin then she will have no expectation of what is good or not. When I was with my first gf we’d fuck in the back of my car all the times, sometimes we’d fuck at the park near her house. She was super shy, we texted a lot but the first kino I ever did with her was holding her hand in a taxi and playing around with her hair.

Like one commentor mentioned these girls are very dangerous, because theyll start getting hit on by guys more as they age.

Read up on kino escalation. Read up on shit tests. I got shit tested HARD and I got shit on thousands of time her because I let her. It doesn’t matter how many times you guys fuck, or how many times she says I love you, you dont spend enough time with me, dont take any bullshit.

Also have u hit the gym yet? There are some good programs over at r Fitness

mismm · 2019-09-19T19:07:46+00:00

Stop making excuses and kiss her when you're alone

cyyr · 2019-09-19T20:50:16+00:00

AirDrop her a dick pic

Rx_Red · 2019-09-19T23:04:43+00:00

If she genuinely has not been with anyone before, be prepared to instantly attain alpha status with her by default and be prepared if she becomes overly attached. It does happen with fresh virgins

ac714 · 2019-09-19T23:50:43+00:00

After you’ve isolated your prey things become real simple. She’s not likely to resist your approach as long as you are confident and make sure she doesn’t feel like she can say no, because of the implication.

VigilantSmartbomb · 2019-09-19T22:17:40+00:00

Kino man

My teacher just escalated with kino today with me lol crazy

Sendmeloveletters · 2019-09-20T03:45:11+00:00

Who asks to hug?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-09-20T07:06:17+00:00

Poke her in the eye. Insist it was an accident. Then poke her in the other eye.

You escalate with shy girls the same way you escalate with any girl. Just decrease the angle of entry slightly.

Also, it’s not uncommon to get a fuck ton of LMR, and then all of a sudden the panties come flying off, b/c she’s decided that she’s put up enough resistance and it’s time to get busy.

[deleted] · 2019-09-20T01:56:14+00:00

"How about I take you home and...eat your pussy"

Abnull · 2019-09-20T04:29:27+00:00

If you generally touch everybody all the time, men and woman, it won't feel weird for you to touch another person. Game is all about the foundation you lay.

Also, if she likes you she wants you to kiss her. Even if she is nervous and shy, just do it. How much do you value your time? Stop wasting it. You also already have oneitis with this girl. If your concerned about screwing it up in the slightest, you have oneitis.

Zanford · 2019-09-20T04:42:22+00:00

Touch should be a natural part of other activities, not something that has to be an explicit trainstop. Hold hands while walking, put on some music and playfully dance, arm around waist while standing/walking or shoulder while sitting, just ease into it naturally. Taps to emphasize a point while talking.

uptimex · 2019-09-20T07:00:19+00:00

Hugging, shy girls love hugging because it lowers tension. So hug a few times and then go for kiss.

Velebit · 2019-09-20T08:39:05+00:00

You don't. If she is really shy just build comfort and raport maybe manage to touch her shoulder or knee a bit during your talking but it must be done naturally as out of your gesticulations. You make an arrangement to stay in contact or get a date set and take it slowly.

troyohchatter · 2019-09-20T10:51:22+00:00

Discuss if she is nervous about physical touch. She might be an abuse victim or she may have a family that simply doesn't hug and such. If she comes from that sort of background, give her some time. Open the discussion and let her set the pace.

jesuswasnotacuck · 2019-09-20T15:10:55+00:00

"isolate her" bro that's a bit creepy no?

jjj2576 · 2019-09-19T17:43:35+00:00

Do you know what Kino is?

Scorchyy · 2019-09-19T22:54:28+00:00

Wait long enough and keep going on dates and eventually she’ll initiate sex by herself

ihatespunk · 2019-09-19T20:20:16+00:00

Try treating her like a person and not a mark.

iceporter · 2019-09-19T18:18:43+00:00

Anyone have good tips or source to learn how to isolating a girl?

Title	How do you escalate with a shy girl after you isolate her?
Author	MeditatingParadise
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Date	September 19, 2019 5:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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