Wife calling me 'Daddy' a LOT...

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October 8, 2019

Wife and I are in our early 30s, no kids, great sex life, great communication and dynamic between us. I swallowed the RP about 6 months ago and my wife responded to it immediately. Went from vanilla yet intimate/passionate sex to a more d/s dynamic, which she definitely is into. She started calling me 'Daddy' during sex and soon after it entered normal conversation and texts. I was a little put off at first because of the incest angle but she said she likes the term because she sees me as the man of the house, the future father of her choldren, the provider and leader, etc. Now, don't get me wrong, Im digging her enthusiasm and obvious adoration of me that is inherent in this dynamic but I can't help but have some concerns about how prevalent it has become. She does not ever do it in front of others (except to tease me when we get a moment alone) but the texts and solo convos are always overflowing with her calling me Daddy...

So is this a red flag or just her being enthusiastic and fully embracing her sub role in our relationship? Do I need to be worried or should I just keep rolling with it? I do find it sexy but also want to avoid any slippery slopes it could lead to. How should I proceed?

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Title Wife calling me 'Daddy' a LOT...
Author skizzum97
Upvotes 12
Comments 45
Date 08 October 2019 03:22 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/289343
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/df1gi4/wife_calling_me_daddy_a_lot/
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[–]HIJKelemenoP37 points38 points  (0 children) | Copy

Take a deep breath Daddy.

[–]RoccoPinkman24 points25 points  (2 children) | Copy

My LTR calls me ‘fat cunt’ what does this mean?

[–]UltimateCrypto5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

You’re doing great. Keep it up

[–]RoccoPinkman4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]mrpthrowa21 points22 points  (3 children) | Copy

Autistic humble brag.

[–]vplatt10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

What would you prefer? 'Master'? 'Sir?' I mean, at some level you're just going to be a little uncomfortable with any of those because you're still worried about what others will think if they overhear it or see it, right?

I'm no guru, but even I can tell you need to just up the DNGAF factor and just own it. If someone is nosy enough to ask you about it because of leakage, then they deserve an honest answer which will likely result in them wishing they hadn't asked and minding their own business in the future.

Beyond that, her use of the term seems to be giving her nice comfort material that you get for free. I don't see a point in messing with it.

[–]HIJKelemenoP17 points18 points  (4 children) | Copy

You obviously are getting a case of the gays. No bueno daddy.

[–]jjj257619 points20 points  (3 children) | Copy

Don’t be a dick. We’re fucking strangers on the internet— not medical professionals.

OP— Ask your doctor if you have a case of the gays.

[–]HIJKelemenoP7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Fair. I just know a guy who had an uncle who’s boss’s stepdad slowly developed the gays. It can happen overnight or progressively.

[–]jjj25762 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Some people say you’re just born with it, Daddy,

[–]JameisBong1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The government puts chemicals in the water than turn frogs gay - Alex Jones.

[–]adeptintact6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's awesome. My LTR calls me daddy too mainly during sex. I go with it and tell her she's been a good girl and fuck her hard. It makes her super wet.

It's a dominant, submissive thing. Take that dominant role and it will carry over in all aspects of your relationship. To me a dominant, submissive relationship takes the red pill captain/first officer model to the next level.

[–]themerovingian014 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I love when women call me daddy. It is completely normal if they are totally subbed out to you. It is a good sign. "Fuck me daddy."

[–]RicoDunne4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Daddy in slang usage by the younger set also refers to a person in charge or a female may use it in reference to another female as a woman worthy of being dominated by strong man.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (16 children) | Copy

Proceed with extreme caution. My wife started calling me daddy when we first got married, it's a bad thing. Be super worried.

[–]tom-anonymous3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy

Every time I see your flair it makes me chuckle. BTW the Mods should tag OP with "Daddy" flair.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

The flair only works if you don't like it. I think he would resent it, and it would remind him of his faggotry. You have my support.

[–]RicoDunne1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

No way... that's like giving a kid a loaded gun. OP doesn't deserve that

[–]tom-anonymous1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

lol he's got some flair. I almost spit out my protein drink when I read it.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good suggestion.

[–]slabsofmuscle2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

What sort of things did you do to see these changes in how she responds to you?

[–]red88lobster2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Next time she calls you daddy; bend her over the knee and tell her daddy is mad about all this kinky talk.

Tell her from now on every time she calls you daddy you will give her a firm spanking .

This will for sure aid you in your situation.

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Next time you're fucking her, say 'take that cock, Mommy.. '.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]coinbaserep2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

My wife calls me daddy around the house (we have kids) but not in the bedroom. What does this mean?

Why won’t she call me daddy while she’s riding my cock. Just once I want her to say “fuck me daddy”

Maybe she’s not as broken as I originally thought ?

[–]peaceandlug1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

What, you've never heard the phrase "Call me Daddy"??

It means chicks be digging on you.

[–]tom-anonymous1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Who's your daddy and what does he do?

[–]marv86kw1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Who cares what she calls you?

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

As long as she doesn’t call me bro.

[–]SoyTanto1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Normal for Latinas. “Papi”

[–]JameisBong0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do you prefer step daddy instead?

[–]RoccoPinkman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A friend of a friend told me you have to suck a dick to get rid of it.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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