It's something I've been thinking over and over for the past couple of days. Don't you think that the more TRPed you are, the more alpha your behaviour is, the more sexual vibes that you give, the sluttier the girls you attract are?
Esepcially if you're good-looking, and you happen to be TRPed, then girls will throw themselves at your lap just to have sex with you and then dump you. I've experienced this with a bunch of girls I've dated/fucked in the past month.
One girl was from the countryside. She's obviously inexperienced, and all the while we were hanging out, she was blushing and unable to gather her thoughts to say something meaningful because I obviously made her anxious by my teasing and kino. Eventually that night we started making out and she almost passed out. The girl lost the ability to speak and said that everything happened too fast for her. It's true that she enjoyed it, but I'm 100% sure that she got the vibes that I'm a fuckboy who fucks and dumps girls and she's just one of them. I hit her up after a few days and she ghosted me.
Another girl, a plate I fucked a few times in the last month too, just yesterday, I asked her if we could cook some rice and eat it at her apartment (she's Asian). You can argue that that was beta, and that was the point of the request: will she reject such offer and hint at staying at the plate-level, or will she take it up and actually bond some meaningful human experience? She opted for the former, and then said she's sick, she can't make it this week to which I just said to get better. In other words, she only wants to have sex, and that's not a problem in itself, but I'm feeling disgusted at myself that this is the type of girls I'm attracting, the plate-material girls.
My point is this. Confidence, game, and overall that self-centered attitude towards life is great and gives you great power in many fields in life, esepcially women and dating, but don't you guys think that in order to attract girls that are not actually crazy and neurotic you need to tone it down a notch?
Why am I saying this? Because I've seen this type of girls firsthand. As much as this sub wants to promote AWALT (I know i'm gonna get roasted for this) but women are not all like that. Some women were raised right, some women would never cheat on their boyfriends, and some women won't throw tantrums or transgress your boundaries.
Here's an example of such woman. A classmate, from Eastern Europe is dating a guy from the middle east (go figure). The guy looks like Jesus with long hair and beard, pretty masculine, been in martial arts for years so he looks great, and is a harworker at uni. He's always the guy who gives the presetnation with no notes and never take notes at lectures. You can argue he's the best guy in the room in every class and his grades are all excellent. This girl has dated him for a few months and then they became into a relationship (pretty sure they never fucked because he's religious), and I KNOW for a fact that she'd never cause him a problem like the shit discussed in this sub because his frame is rock solid and she's stable enough to not fuck it up.
I apologize for the length of the post, but these are some thoughts that must be put out there in the manosphere because I think they're pretty damn interesting.
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