I've been in a bit of a rut since school started and, after being out for 3 weeks with pneumonia, I'm finally getting my shit back together. One thing I've noticed, however, is that my motivation is largely based on getting girls.

When I want to eat crap or skip gym or just binge Netflix all day, what stops me is the thought that I won't get any pussy whatsoever, and then stay sad and depressed, if I don't remain disciplined.

Is this a problem? Should my motivation be more based in excelling in my career? Will this lead me to a dependency on women for happiness and then ultimately neediness?

Thank you, this community is more than I deserve.