I've only had anal with hookers. I want to change that, it feels intensely dominating to fuck a girl up her ass but my plate won't do it. I think making a point of it actually hurts things and have dialed back / shown disinterest more recently.

Do higher SMV guys get back door access more often or does it come down to the girl and whether she enjoys it? I know there are some who just don't like it no matter the guy, but ignoring those ones...