I got out of the shower this morning getting ready for work..wife immediately accuses me of using "too many towels". She went searching to solve the fucking towel mystery and found out she was wrong. I sternly told her to quit being a spazz and she's no longer chief of the towel police.
I held frame in the moment (which for me was remaining calm) and and then got to work and I am fucking pissed. This is not how normal humans interact with each other. I would expect a good morning at the minimum. I don't find this to be a shit test but just a complete disregard of general human decency, below my standards and completely unattractive.
I would not put energy or time into a friend that acted like that. Yes in the big picture this is petty shit but it also finally clicked that I will not tolerate that kind of behavior especially from my wife. What an eye opener that I need to spend a lot more time, energy and attention on myself.
No I don't plan on addressing this with her or bringing it up. This is my rant and I'm moving forward with how I spend my time and attention because the above isn't worth it.
EDIT: Thanks to u/FereallyRed for the post on Stranger Test this is a better summation of my attempted post and what I needed to realize, internalize and proceed. Everyone else thanks for reminding me it is another shit test and to chill the fuck out they're always going to show up.