I swear, in 90% of interactions, if we're not flirting, all they do is either fucking complain about the same shit and feel entitled about their opinions which are mostly based off emotions rather than actually anything thoroughly researched. Don't get me wrong, they have knowledge about shit, it's just more like "my home country is like this" or "school is like this", "my job's industry is like this" or like a half-fleshed out statement about a hobby they might have. One girl worked in administration (something I find a lot of girls seem to be doing, along with nursing) and the only time things got interesting was when she mentioned that she liked raves and was into bdsm but there was nothing that amazing about how she described it. She is wild though. Spent like 20k on her tools. Anyways, it's more like, look at me, I do this. It's hard to explain but it's like all that goes on in their mind is "me me me me my feelings my work me me me me drama me me me horny me me me me stability me me me social proof". Turns me off so quickly.
There's this one girl that just spends 3 days complaining about how sick she feels and how her voice is hoarse and she thinks it makes her cool or something. Seriously? You can't talk about anything interesting? I try to steer the conversation elsewhere but it's like either she can't read it or just doesn't have it in her to branch from it. We flirt, but it's boring honestly. At first I found her interesting because we were talking about actual deep shit and opening up which gave me interesting perspectives, but now she just seems like the biggest tool. And this has happened so many times with chicks. We start off the interaction interesting, and then eventually all they can do is flirt and complain (thankfully not about their past relationships, because they can miss me with that), with rare moments of opening up about anything remotely interesting. Even if they want to have video chat sex or phone sex or send me nudes, I might get a boner but I'm not even in the mood to fuck around with them. It's like I lose the respect to even want to treat them as an object. Maybe I just can't be interested in girls who don't stimulate me mentally, unless it's a hook up because then I don't know much about them.