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I can’t stop fucking my room mate

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October 12, 2019

Hello again. I guess this is technically a follow up.

At the start of this year I made a post asking for advice on living with 5 women. Long story short so I don’t have to link it, This year I moved to a student sharehouse, 6 bedrooms, and the 5 random people that moved in all happened to be girls. Within a week I was getting iois from two of them, but I knew trying anything at all, let alone the very beginning of my lease, would be a bad idea.

Asked for advice here, got some good tips, but turns out I didn’t have to worry for most of the year as shortly after moving I went exclusive with one of my plates. That’s another story irrelevant to this question, but as a TL;DR that ended just over a month ago cause, you know, I like my girlfriend like I like my coffee: without another dudes dick in it.

All was well, my turn was over, got back on tinder, was glad to know I still had game, then about two weeks ago I went clubbing with 2 of my room mates (call these girls b and k) + b’s boyfriend. Came home a bit more drunk than I should have been, ended up in k’s room. No escalation beforehand either, we didn’t hook up while clubbing, shit we barely saw each other. The idea didn’t even cross my mind once. But we came home, were next to each other on the couch, got close, and boom. That was it. Maybe it was on her mind a lot more than I thought.

Aftermath, post nut clarity kicked in on what I’d just done. I told her we should probably not do that again. K ‘agreed’.

But last weekend, it happened again. Nearly exactly same scenario. Clubbing, no action. Get home, couch, K’s room. I was screaming on the inside after this one, since I’d promised myself I wouldn’t make the same mistake twice, yet there I was. I calmly told K there and then that we are room mates, this probably isn’t healthy, and we needed to stop. She ‘agreed’ again.

Fuck me, watch their actions not their words, right guys?

All was good for a week. Cut to TONIGHT. Fuck sake, I didn’t even fucking go out. I got home late from work, was making dinner, and K, B and B’s bf come in the door after a night out. the other two make their drunk asses to their rooms pretty quick, but as K is walking up the stairs she gives me the fuck me eyes. My brain was yelling no, but my dick was yelling yes. I listened to my head at first, and I headed to my bedroom. But K must had heard my dick yelling yes, as not 5 minutes later she invited herself into my room in her underwear. Sorry brain, I failed you. You trusted me, and I failed you.

Aftermath was déjà-fucking-vu. Did the whole ‘we shouldn’t do this’ but with a lot more ‘for real this time’s. She laughed and ‘agreed’ with me again, then as she was leaving said ‘I guess I won’t see you next time’.

And now I’m lying in my bed typing this feeling like a dumbass. Don’t shit where you eat. Why can’t I stick to that. It’s so damn simple.

Lying here with my balls drained, I know if this keeps going it can only end bad. I guess I’m asking what I can do next time this happens, because I know it’s gonna happen again. What can I tell my horny self next time my room mate spreads her legs and invites me in, that’s gonna make me say no? Cause right now I feel like I got no self control, and it’s gonna come back to bite me. That’s all really, cheers for reading.

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Title I can’t stop fucking my room mate
Author bostonburrito
Upvotes 83
Comments 65
Date 12 October 2019 05:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]Truedemocracy5104 points105 points  (4 children) | Copy

“Listen to their actions, not their words right”

As you do the same fucking thing lol

[–]Vsaint9 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

The best part is he’s giving plausible deniability AS HE’S DOING IT. This guy may be smarter than he lets on. First he parlays himself into a 1<4 roommate scenario and then he can’t stop banging one of them. When does he make the other’s jealous and bang them all too? Will be waiting for a follow up post OP

[–]GiftOfBlackKnighting17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

The best part is he’s giving plausible deniability AS HE’S DOING IT

Yeah, the dude is so red pilled he shouldn't starting threads here, he should answer threads.

[–]MeansToABenz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]faustian_talos0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Fromstatepharm178 points179 points  (1 child) | Copy

Haha sounds like fun

[–]MeansToABenz26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

Keep hitting it

[–]potatoegg9375 points76 points  (0 children) | Copy

Brazzers wants to buy your biography.

[–]Hypnot0ad171 points172 points  (4 children) | Copy

Nice humble brag bro

[–]Truedemocracy556 points57 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep that’s all this is lmao

[–]liquorbaron14 points15 points  (2 children) | Copy

Seriously. The amount of humble brag posts on here is skyrocketing nowadays.

[–]Laweezyanimal2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I haven’t been on this sub in a while but is it people humble bragging or people just being insecure

[–]liquorbaron1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nowadays it's a little of both.

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy

What a fantastic "problem" to have

You're just fuck buddies, enjoy it. I get the concern, as she could potentially catch more feelings...then she sees you bringing other chicks back to the house and she ends up sabotaging things up to and including your ability to live there in peace. That's the worst case scenario.

Or maybe she's casual enough about it herself that it won't ever be an issue...maybe she'd be down for a threesome. Hmmm

[–]jrterry196921 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

There is no good reason to stop. Sure, there is some risk of it "ending badly", but it's not inevitable.

[–]BornShook17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Who cares? Just do what you want, and if things end up bad just move out. Things probably would end up going south either way living with that many girls. Just enjoy it while it lasts. No regrets

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed52 points53 points  (3 children) | Copy

It's a weak man that allows his circumstances instead of his reason to drive his behavior.

[–]sniper19051 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

What do you mean? Not talking about this specific post, but in certain scenarios isn't it best to drive your behavior through circumstances and not through reason?

If I'm in a tribe, and my people are hungry, we're gonna have to find food no matter what and that is because of the circumstance I, as well as the other tribesman and female counterparts are.

How do you differentiate circumstance and reason in what you said:

It's a weak man that allows his circumstances instead of his reason to drive his behavior.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Your job is to take the inputs from the outside world, and design a solution based on that info that gives the best chance of reaching your goals.

We think, we consider, we plan.

Be the rational male.

[–]sniper19050 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ehhhh, being the rational male? Is being empathetic and having a soft side for certain things being the opposite of rational?

In scenarios people are going to have to adjust to a situation not because their being more or less rational, but because of the cards their dealt with in life. This by definition is their circumstances, which means that they'll have to act not based on thought but based on their circumstances.

However maybe you and I are thinking of the same thing but with different words. If there's a boy raised in the ghettos of Detroit and in order for him to survive, he's going to have to do shady shit like sell drugs, be in a gang, commit crimes and robberies.

What I'm thinking: That boy is born and raised in a city full of crime and because of his circumstances, he's going to have to act immoral just to get by.

What you're thinking(?): That boy is born and raised in a city full of crime and realizes he needs to develop a dark side, aka, his "Shadow" and not be known as a punk kid so nobody is gonna fuck with him like a pinata.

[–]JedYorks48 points49 points  (13 children) | Copy

Meanwhile I cannot even get a girl to look at me

[–]wtfoshizzle18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

i feel u brotha

[–]holeintheceiling8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]sniper19057 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Look at yourself within the past month, have you improved on anything?

Physique? Relationships? Habits? Finance? Mental Health? Etc...

[–]MeansToABenz6 points7 points  (6 children) | Copy

It’s your own fault that you’re a loser with women

[–]LurkMan30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol beta orbiter

[–]JedYorks-3 points-2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Kind of,my Genetics mainly.

[–]MeansToABenz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shut up

[–]Laweezyanimal1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

If you blame genetics for being a loser you’re a beta

[–]JedYorks0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Not beta enough to send e whores money

[–]Laweezyanimal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That’s good but your standards are backwards. You shouldn’t compare yourself to the lowest of the low, you should compadre yourself to the best of the best. I hope you do good in life man

[–]Dustin_Bromain5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–][deleted] 23 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy

Why is this a bad thing tho?

[–]CryptoManbeard2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's awesome while you're getting free easy pussy. Watch what happens when he brings another girl back. Or she does. You don't shit where you eat.

[–]LoneWolf0mega6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

LMAO that was a great post You ever heard of a lock? Also crank one out in the car if your that horny

[–]PhaedrusHunt5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I tell you what man, looking back on my life my only regrets are for the times I DIDN'T bang women, not the times I did.

Take your pleasure and move on. Don't get butthurt when she brings a guy home and don't get surprised if she catches feels.



[–]ThreeEyez7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Aww poor OP, he has no options and can only manage to get laid by his roommate.

[–]MisterMarbles19882 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This wasn't post-worthy. You already know what the right thing to do is. So just do it.

[–]ArcangeloPT[🍰] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha I remember reading your post back then! Well if we all had problems like that wouldn’t it be a treat? Anyway, worst case is you move out and find another place to live! Keep on banging bro, and see if you can squeeze a threesome or three

[–]Dustin_Bromain2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This was a hilarious read. Thanks op

[–]infamous32381 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Stop thinking with your dick and start thinking with your brain.

[–]This-Point-Forward0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just need another warm hole to put your dick in homie. Focus on abundance and hold off until you get that next plate.

[–]Red_Pill_Brotherhood0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This sounds awesome. Keep at it brother, you can always lease a new place if shit hits the fan- its just a goddamm temporary room in an apartment anyway.

[–]ngyuhnang0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t see this as a problem. Keep banging her and keep it secretly, you guys both have needs so let it be until something happens.

[–]skuttt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shit where you eat is for work not room mates. Have fun with it. You can move!

[–]QawL0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The only problem is here that you care about this and think about this.

[–]JazzyHustlah0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just keep your emotions/ego in check so when she brings another dude home to fuck, you can be cool

[–]Startlivingfornow0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

lmao I remember this post. You were advised well in advance

[–]intergalacticmagma0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Override. Override. Override.

[–]Dionysus12950 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't understand the problem,this is yet another ”humble" brag thread am sure

[–]Casanova-Quinn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The only issue here is that there is no agreed arrangement. Next time you fuck, just tell her that it's cool with you to keep hooking up, but it's strictly a no strings attached situation. That way she doesn't start expecting anything more and cause drama.

[–]furcryingoutloud0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dude, she's not asking you for a relationship. At least it's not in your story. Just keep hitting it like it's 1999! If it turns out bad, what do you have to do? Move? Fuck it, you find another place and done. BTW, this is not where you eat, this is where you sleep, one pussy is just as good as any other.

[–]afterthe_fapocalypse0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, dipping pen in the company ink can make things complicated. Sounds like you've been in this rodeo before. Other commentators neglect to acknowledge that this situation is basically like having a girl move in and live in your house after knowing her a handful of weeks. She's in your house, it's been a couple weeks, and you're banging. So a live-in fuckbuddy. And she's not even your gf. She's basically a stranger and already this important to your 'needs'. They're not needs. But BIG fucking no. Beta move. Now she's already letting herself into your room. Where are your boundaries, bro? Do you really think you need sex that bad?

Think about the pros and cons. I have a girl on campus who's been trying to jump my bones all past year, and I've been telling her no despite her throwing herself at me over and over again. It's better I don't. If I found myself at a club and she was there and we were drinking and she kept pulling me back to her place, Idk what I'd decide. it would be difficult, and I realize your situation wasn't easy.

So, think about your own pros vs cons. Is it so hard not getting laid? Or are you making it harder to say no than needs be?

[–]SirMarsprellot0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Keep up the good work lol

[–]Crixusgannicus0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Once you're in the shit, you might as well embrace the suck and enjoy the ride.

[–]Yummmi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck it. I’d keep doing it. There’s not much that can really go wrong. As long as you both understand that you’re just fuck buddies.

[–]LeEbinConchShell0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

id just keep smashing and also bring other girls over and turn it into a fuck fest. then start filming it like a reality tv show so then more bitches wanna see whats good at ur house with all the hoes

[–]SpinPlates0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like a good gig. Enjoy it.

Whenever you're 90 years old on your deathbed, you won't regret this. Even if by some chance this causes a little drama now, it's easy pussy and apparently pretty good! Get it while it's hot.

[–]CryptoManbeard0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You already fucked up at this point might as well ride it out.

[–]agjrpsl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

hahaha she has no respect for you now lol....she's talking about you with her friends and their having a good laugh....get control man..snap out of it.

[–]xNinja360 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

beta bitch

[–]faustian_talos0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i think this is an unsolvable problem. you better kill yourself

[–]Massap240 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Get tf out of there as soon as possible. You can’t turn down puss for some reason.

[–]Scheme000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You have zero self control over your impulses aka weak. Work on that.

[–]bodybuilder98-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck off. If you're so weak you can't even control your urges you definitely don't have the discipline to be in college. You also don't have a question since this post reads like a humblebrag.

Reported and hope you're banned.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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