A dude my LTR used to fuck called her last night at 2am. I knew they used to fuck because I sometimes check her phone when she’s unaware. Call me insecure, beta, or whatever, but I won’t be made a fool.
She was asleep when he called her. She had the dudes number still saved and everything. I didn’t mention anything of it until the next morning, tactfully of course.
I let her know someone had called her and said the dudes name. She doesn’t know I knew they fucked in the past. I didn’t even say the gender I just told her a friend and said the dudes name called her at 2am.
I told her she should call them back because it might’ve been an emergency. She said no. I said asked why not and she wouldn’t answer. So I said what kinda of person calls you at 2am? She said “a friend”. I said okay. Then I asked her what kind of name is “John”? Which was the dudes name, (real name redacted for privacy concerns obviously). She didn’t answer. So I asked her if it was a girl. She said no it was a guy.
I asked her why a guy is calling her at 2am. She said she didn’t know. So I asked her if they used to fuck which she blatantly lied to my face and said no. I didn’t confront her nor say anything.
I showered, got my stuff, and I guess she knew I knew because when I was showering she came in and said we needed to talk and that she did fuck that guy in the past. I said thanks for telling me. Then I collected my stuff and left.
Obviously hard next. She kept calling and texting me saying she was sorry. I didn’t respond.
I have way higher SMV then her, I lift, have social status at university, and will be doing an internship at a Fortune 50 company next summer. I won’t be doing another LTR for a while. I have also reached out to some former plates and meet up tonight and fuck.
I’ve been a longtime reader and internalizer of TRP. I know what I did was the right thing I just wanted you alls perspectives. I’m not going to change my mind or take her back. She lied to me. I can’t trust anything she says. She also still had a dudes number saved that she had sexual relations with.
Any advice, tips, etc. on how to move forward from here? It hurts I admit because you until this point she was good LTR material. But AWALT. She’s only sorry she got caught and wouldn’t have told me if I didn’t say anything otherwise.
Caught LTR in a lie about a dude she had sexual relations with in the past. Broke up with her.