Hi, I [21F] have recently started seeing this guy [22M].
So far, we’ve gone on one date. He took me to Disneyland and two pricey restaurants there for lunch and dinner. He did not try to even hug me nor hold my hand, as he said he wanted to be respectful.
This guy is my dream man. He doesn’t drink, do drugs, party, sleep around, have social media, etc. And of course, when he found me, he went through the whole, “WOW! You’re so much different than the other, liberal girls!” spiel that I’m sure all RPW are familiar with. He told me I was exactly what he’s been searching for, a submissive, monogamous woman who wants to dedicate her life to her man.
There is just one issue..this guy is a self-made millionaire. He was literally homeless at 16 and by 20 had more than most people could ever dream of seeing. Because of this, he is a very busy man.
He hasn’t been able to have a conversation with me for an entire week. When he didn’t send a message to me for a couple days, I voiced my concerns to him, telling me that if he was going to be MIA, he could have at least warned me, and he told me, “I’ve been working on this deal for at least a year. I have to dedicate myself to my work, sweetheart, and I refuse to give out a sub par half hearted text, even if it’s on the lighter side.” And then he disappeared again.
I understand that male brains are a lot more linear than female’s brains, and that they can’t really have distractions while they’re at work, and I understand that one doesn’t get to his level without INSANE amounts of work, and I know that he’s basically working almost every minute he’s awake (he even was responding to people for work while we were at Disneyland for a little bit, and he pissed some of his clients off in order to make the time to go on our date), but I’m just wondering at what point does it become unreasonable? I just want to be a good RPW, and I know I’m young/inexperienced, so I really wanted to know the opinions of some more-experienced women.
Thank you all.
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