When I upgraded her from plate to gf, there were still guys in her DM’s trying to hit on her, guys she has never slept with or even seen in person. She would tell me the messages the guy would send and she would tell them about me being her boyfriend blahblahblah. She even posts pics of me everywhere. Now every month usually has one DM from a guy.
One month ago she got a DM from a guy and she told me to open it and reply. I just copied/ pasted what she said to the guy I just mentioned previously. He stopped instantly.
Yesterday she kept asking me if I wanted to see messages if a guy is trying to hit on her, because she says she has nothing to hide. A guy DM’d her yesterday complimenting her instagram and she instantly went to “Complimenting my boyfriend?”. He tried to get her attention but to no avail for him, she just kept mentioning me.
The few friends she has, her family, and people on social media have known for months that her and I are together. I don’t care if she shows me or not, I told her that I trusted she would do what’s right. I’m curious if you all think letting her show me DM’s when they pop up is a sign of weakness from my end, or maybe i’m just overthinking.
Thanks a bunch.
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