She doesn’t arouse me anymore, so what now?

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October 18, 2019

Despite the significant improvement in our relationship since swallowing TRP, I have no desire to fuck my wife of 14yrs. I can’t even get aroused from her even from her stimulating my dick. I’ll get semi-hard enough to penetrate but after while I lose interest and end up finishing on my own. She’s still kinda cute but the years of disappointment from rejection after initiating sex has taken a toll on me. Since TRP, she will supply on demand but it’s not all that great either. It doesn’t help that I’ve had women 10-20 years younger (HB8+) actually compliment and approach me. I’ll admit I stepped out once with an insanely hot 25y/o (I’m 39) for wild sex but even then I still was able to fuck my wife with no hesitation. Lately, I’ve lost interest despite her willingness and enthusiasm to please me. What do I do?

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Title She doesn’t arouse me anymore, so what now?
Author rcbanks00
Upvotes 22
Comments 21
Date 18 October 2019 08:11 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat38 points39 points  (0 children) | Copy

Before you decide to pursue other pastures you should give up porn for two months.

I don’t believe in nofap but porn fucks up your brain and erections.

[–]boy_named_su11 points12 points  (5 children) | Copy

Her: diet, gym, esthetician

You: check your T and E. Nofap. You should be waking up hard most mornings

[–]Naj_md3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sorry, what's T and E?

[–]boy_named_su4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Testosterone and Estradiol

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Instruction unclear.

Walk around hard nearly all day.

[–]boy_named_su1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy


[–]VigilantCMDR1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

his levels aren't high enough!!!

[–]FereallyRedHard Core Red5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Your old wrinkly wife that drip feeds you old wrinkly pussy doesn't compare to young fresh juicy hot women.


Use her to push your fantasy life. Use her as a fleshlight. Tie her up, spank her, make her wear a buttplug while shopping.

She only now exists for you. What do you want to do with her?

[–]i-am-the-prize0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

make her wear a buttplug while shopping.

I saw one, that is blutooth to 'her' phone, then from my phone i can make it 'ding' and move via her phone. now that looks like "reach out and touch her" kinda 21st century tech.... sorry, what were we talking about?

[–]TRT_Maybe_Deca4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

You swallowed the pill and are fucking 20 somethings.... what do you want to do?

The fact you you bring up the years of resentment makes me question what you get out of sex. Go read that post a few down about the guy who lost desire for his wife... it's a phase as you transition from fucking for validation to fucking because you want to get your dick wet.

Sounds like you get more validation from the younger model so the wife doesn't do it for you anymore.

Otherwise if your life is better without her, go that way. But if that were true why are you asking questions? What is your mission?

[–]go-RED-go0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Spot on!

[–]Vegasman200023 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

In my case my wife doubled in size to 5'0 200 pounds. If that is your wife I sympathize. But if not, the whole point of this group is to make yourself a better man so that you have options. It that isn't what you are doing then what are you waiting for? And it it is, then your path should be clear.

Good luck.

[–]adeptintact3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

It is difficult after you had amazing sex with a hot young girl to return to bad sex with your not so good looking wife.

You have 3 options.

1) Be faithful and continue having dismal sex with your ugly wife. 2) Continue being married and cheat on her secretly with hot young girls so you get the sex you want. 3) Divorce her to get the sex that you want with whoever you want.

Personally, I'd choose 2 or 3.

[–]Big_Daddy_PDX1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

OP, sounds like your reference to getting limo has more to do with the fact that you can’t believe you’re fucking someone s is gusting as your wife and less to do with “my dick doesn’t work”?

Swallowing TRP doesn’t mean you “save your marriage”. It just means that you think more clearly. Lots of guys wake up out of their blue fog and question was the hell they were thinking. How do you manage to stay enthusiastic for that kind of woman? If you’ve lost all interest in trying to stay w/ her, then clean yourself up and prep for divorce but visiting w/ an attorney for a 2hr consult. Pay the money to learn what you’re in for with divorce.

[–]tap09885341 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like you're an old man. If you were horny enough, you'd fuck Richard Pryor's corpse. Maybe you swallowed a black pill, and are seething with bitterness, instead of accepting your wife as the full flower of femininity that she actually is. Do you also resent your children forever, when you discover they act like children?

You aren't trying to fuck the kinda cute girl you're married to, but a mountain of baggage. It's time to cut yourself from all this resentment. Every day is a clean slate. She is a kind of cute girl that you completely own. Have your fucking way with her. The person you should resent for the past is yourself.

[–]hack3geRed Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

So you are angry at your wife because you have a limp dick because you have been a giant faggot for 14 years and as such she put zero effort into making herself attractive to you? Sounds about right - why don’t you whine some more you little bitch.

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your wife is 14?

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Divorce her ass, be single, enjoy your freedom, and fuck other women.

What the fuck else?

[–]JameisBong1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She seems ok,OP has lost interest maybe he needs to get out of his head and get some kinky action going. If he exhausts every option, then open relationship/divorce should be considered.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Id give you 69 upvotes but I can only give one.

[–]ice_walkerHead Negotiator0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What is your mission in life and how are you pursuing it at the moment?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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