Understanding HOW to apply TRP to women (depending on your intended outcome) is the hardest part. The easiest part is reading all of this shit and learning WHAT to do.

This may be a semi long post so I will try to keep it as short as possible.

Been seeing a chick for about four months now. It was the beginning of summer and I had just come back from Europe from a nine month employment opportunity so I was ready to get some American ass again.

Everything was working fine because we both had an understanding that I would be leaving three months down the road. So she was almost able to block the way her brain naturally told her to try and settle down with this male prospect, and just have a summer fling.

Now I am naturally kind of a dick. I don’t mean to be at times it’s just the way my life has shaped me to be with the things I have been through. Used to be fat and was treated like shit and then got fit and now most people would refer to me as an attractive male. Now that I am getting older and I am still fit, my market value has only risen. (My job requires me to remain fit). She is a pretty attractive chick who probably hasn’t been used to being treated the way she was being treated by me. I would ignore her text three or four times during the night, allow her to throw hissy fits and walk off expecting me to follow her out the club or bar, only to see me no where in sight and eventually get into an Uber. But as TRP has taught us if you look good enough and you treat them like dirt, they stick to you like mud. This went on for three months. After each one of these outbursts she would call and text me “I can’t believe you would let me leave” and “you choose our friend group over me”, and then follow up w/ “come get me please babe”.

Eventually, circumstances had it to where I would not be returning to Europe any longer. So she naturally began to fixate on the idea that maybe we could have an exclusive relationship. She no longer wanted to be “just having sex” and “only coming over to watch a movie”. Now she began to ask for dates and to be courted. Which was naturally understandable. Given the circumstances. And I would always brush it off or find a way not to answer the question. Let me not act hard or cool, I liked the chick. We cuddled we fucked we had fun, it was a good time.

Long story short, this weekend her best friend from her hometown came to visit. Naturally, her best friend wants to meet this “awesome” guy that she’s been dating. I didn’t mean for it to work out this way, but I caused an argument in front of her friend. I can admit when I’m wrong, sure. her friend in turn took up for the chick I was seeing (which she is supposed to), and that started a whole down spiral to the weekend. The chick I was seeing began to act very out of character and do things that she would normally not do. She slammed my door. She caused many scenes. Wouldn’t text me. And put on a show in front of the best friend.

Now I did nothing that I would normally not do in front of her. However, she was able to give her friend an insight into how she was being treated. This allowed for her to come to the realization in the end that maybe I AM being treated like shit, but she only needed someone to be a witness and tell her about it in order for her to actually tell herself it’s true. She even told me that she would make excuses to herself to be treated like this.

The whole weekend goes by without a word from her and I finally see her at our usual spot on Saturday. We have an exchange of words before it’s apparent that you can’t talk to a drunk chicks and try to find a happy medium. Especially in front of their best friends. She caused a scene, her best friend is a bitch, and we go our separate ways only to have her text me at 2:30 in the morning like everything was normal. But just an hour ago you were causing a scene and making a ruckus like you didn’t want me?? Did what I usually do and didn’t respond a few times and she would text me two or three times in a row. Finally left her on read at four in the morning. During these text one of the things that stuck out to me the most was the fact that she said she didn’t know how I felt about her. She said she never did and it was apparent that she grew frustrated with not knowing.

I won’t lie, I am not the type of person who can close off my emotions after hanging with someone for an extended period of time. As science has revealed, it only takes three months for the person to hang out with someone to activate the same receptors that give you the feeling of love. Which is basically just the infatuation phase if you will. Not saying that I love her or anything but just that it is bound to happen when you hang out with someone so much and you start to become accustom to their presence.. No matter how much you disrespect them even if it isn’t intentional disrespect, it is disrespect nonetheless. (Not texting back or calling back, hanging out on your terms, etc)

I felt bad/missed fucking her and hanging out, and so after not speaking or writing her back, I went and got a card and just let her know that I care about her. Radio silence the next day. Sign of disrespect? Maybe. sign that maybe she needed some time to think. possibly.

So I text her and asked if she read the card. No reply. The next day I’m chilling w/ another chick asking her thoughts on the situation (35 year old blonde who’s party days are way behind her, but has an insight into how women think) and she tells me if I wanna possibly see where it could go w/ this chick, that I need to text her and let her know that I like her and that I would like to take her on a date to explain our situation. (Mistake). At this point with the card and the text message, I give her the power. In her mind she thinks that the last four months she has been feeling insecure and that now she is finally secure in knowing that I have given her what she has wanted and that now I see how SHE feels about the uncertainty she’s dealt w/ for four months.

She finally reaches out and calls me and basically says that she didn’t know that I liked her and that over the past four months it has been very hard for her to put herself in a position to be seeing someone without dating them. She said she only has seven bodies but we all know that women can or cannot lie. I believe her but maybe that is the immaturity in my part and not taking the red pill as I should. She’s says that I embarrassed her in front of her best friend. (Women want to be treated like shit and they are fine w/ it up until people notice that they are treated like shit or you do it in public) Call me a blue pill but I don’t like to see the worst in everyone.

Long story short she says that she wants to take some time away to decompress because she feels drained by my lack of respect and allowing herself to put up with such behavior. She says that she needs one or two weeks to get back on track and be herself again and maybe we can “start fresh and see where this goes” but that she wouldn’t be going “back to just hooking up w/ no commitment”

This field report just goes to show how women are. When you give them what they want it only makes them want more. Or maybe not?. Or maybe I am just not analyzing the situation correctly. She wanted a relationship, initially I couldn’t provide that, and now that there’s a possibility for one, she needs to think because I’ve done her so wrong in the past . Was I a dick yes. But I treated her better than the other chicks I fuck and kick out afterwards.

I think the main takeaways from this is just to show that TRP only teach you how to use the information. But a big part of it is also knowing when and how much to use. Never meet the friends until you are ready. Never meet them unless you actually like them and could possibly see them with you down the road even if you don’t explicitly state that to them. Being in my mid-20s, women are less likely to want to put up w/ games and just hook up, sure. But for that certain person (Chad), they are willing to disrespect themselves in order to hopefully have a chance. But even when they realize how they have been treated, one of two things will happen. Either she will allow herself to be disrespected again and again, or she will begin to lay ground rules and tell you that she will not go back to just being your fuck toy. And then it is on you to decide whether or not you want to pursue a relationship. Maybe she comes back around? Maybe she doesn’t. But as a man, you have to be upfront and honest w/ yourself AND w/ her.

Will I try to take things further? Maybe hit her up in the next few weeks and check on her and see if it’s somethin there. But as history has shown, breaks hardly ever do both parties any good. But will I will take from this is There comes a certain point in life where the games ends up fucking us all in the end. Maybe in the beginning it is a good way to cause intrigue, but after a while, the games eventually cause more good than bad depending on the intended outcome. (Relationship or not)

Takeaways:

Women act different around their friends

Women want what they can’t have

When they get what they want, you still have to play the game but not as much

Never break or fold but also let your intentions be known

If you like a chick tell her

The older women get the less games they play. Know when to play them and for how long

If there are any other takeaways feel free to let me know. Just wanted to share this w/ you guys. Now go out there and use this shit.