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I don't want to be the reason for another MRP

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October 24, 2019
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Hey guys! Right off the bat - I'm deeply sorry about the experiences you're facing in your day to day life, some of the posts here are very troubling and make it seem like these individuals are living through a daily hell... Now here's where I would really appreciate some enlightenment - I watched the Red Pill and it blew me away completely. Now I was never feminist since I'm from an oriental conservative country, but the docu put a whole different perspective on things for me on tremendous male inequalities. I really would like your help on this - I'm currently in a relationship with someone absolutely marvelous who I want to spend my life with. But I'm afraid he won't be satisfied or will at some point feel unjustly treated. So here's the question: in what way would you wish your wives treated you in order to render the relationship more equitable?

It would help me loads to try and better myself for the sake of this young man and his happiness! Thank you!


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Title I don't want to be the reason for another MRP
Author holyammo
Upvotes 9
Comments 21
Date 24 October 2019 10:45 AM UTC (12 months ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/292521
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/dmem75/i_dont_want_to_be_the_reason_for_another_mrp/
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[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (1 child) | Copy

Circle jerk potential on this one way too high. You guys get too excited when women show up. That's 10 demerits to all of you.

To OP, your answer is simple: don't try to be a man and your man won't be a woman.

PS - DM me your tits or GTFO.

[–]817illdegradeu21 points22 points  (7 children) | Copy

If he is worthy of respect, respect him.

If he is worthy of your loyalty, be loyal to him.

If he is worthy of your sexual attention, indulge him.

If he is worthy of protecting you, allow him to protect you.

If he is dominant, submit to him.

The only thing you can do to prevent being "another reason for MRP" is to choose a great man.

[–]Cloudy_Pirate13 points14 points  (3 children) | Copy

Good answer. Another way of saying “be feminine” and he will be more masculine.

And if he starts slacking off in a few years, send him here.

Don’t feel sorry for the men here OP. It was entirely our fault.

[–]holyammo1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yes i interpreted it this way too. I sense he's most comfortable when i stay to the natural female archetype. I hope it works out really! And I still do feel sorry for the men on here, emotional abuse is something and a constant state of torment is another, you all got both. No one deserves that...

[–]Cloudy_Pirate3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

> And I still do feel sorry for the men on here

We don't (with a few rare exceptions), you shouldn't either.

checking your post history

- Older narcissist ex that committed suicide

- doesn't want to be responsible for another MRP story

- post to r/insaneparents

The overdeveloped sense of compassion and history of codependent relationships would be red flags to me.

[–]holyammo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ouch..... I'm making sure none of what I've experienced in the past brushes off on my partner, if this is what you're referring to with "red flags". My only concern is that I don't want to be his burden.

[–]holyammo1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

He definitely is! Thank you for your sound advice :)

[–]EasyDaysHardNights9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

He definitely is!

You are evaluating him based on present circumstances. This is normal and a feminine thing to do. There is a reason most marriages fail, some publicly, most privately. The world changes, the marriage partners change, but they do not change together.

There is a life tax that will be applied against both you and the man you settle down with. It is the passage of time and it comes with many things that can tear your world apart.

As humans we are cognitively wired for stimulation. Without it, we get bored. Your marvelous man will bore you someday.

We are also wired for procreation and will go to great lengths to assure it's success. As a young woman reaches her late twenties and early thirties her biological clock ticks louder and she starts pressing hard for children. While science has made great strides in trying to slow down the clock, the reality is infertility can hit at 35 and even with tools like IVF and freezing embryos, it gets more and more difficult to have kids. So children become a priority and the relationship dynamic changes. She now divides her time between him and the kids, and responsibility increases with more lives to take care of.

You mentioned you come from a oriental conservative country. Whether you stay there or not ... that country came with a culture which places expectations on how things should work. I'm overgeneralizing to a degree but oriental cultures place a premium on honor and conformity. Here's the problem. Life is not fair. Dominance hierarchies exist and your man will fall somewhere on that hierarchy. You and your children will look for him to provide for you and someone else will come along who is not honorable and will not conform to the rules. If your man is not able to act outside the rules when necessary in a way that is for the greater good ... he ... and you ... and your children will lose. This is why you will look for a man who isn't just good ... there will need to be a bit of a dangerous streak in him. It's an instinctual need and it's important that it's there. So you find a man who has it. But that imposes an additional problem.

You're looking for him to exhibit a behavior. And you can't be sure he's going to always to display that behavior. And displaying that behavior to others doesn't count ... because you need to it to apply to you and your kids. So you will test him. Over and over you will test him. To assure yourself it's still there. For the rest of your life you will test him. Because at any minute he may need to act in a strong and powerful way ... and you need to know he can still do that. That he is STILL dangerous.

But not TOO dangerous. Not so dangerous that he is wild. Wild like those men who could leave you and your children. So you will test him even more. You want to be comforted. To know that he still cares for you and your children. That you are still a priority to him. That he, and his resources and his skills, are there for you.

And all that testing will wear him down. The testing the world gives him. The testing you give him. It will all wear him down. He will grow tired and weak unless he has support. Unless he can see clearly the task before him and is given the tools that will allow him to succeed over the long term. Then and only then ... does he have a chance to be successful. If he has those things .... then he is a man of high value. He will be a rare and desirable man to have. He will be someone you will naturally respect, be loyal to, indulge his sexual desires and ultimately submit to. Because he is a man you will feel is worthy of being submissive to.

Send your man here now, before the world ... and you tear him apart. The brotherhood that is here will provide the guidance, mindset and tools to aid him on his journey.

Spend time with the ladies at /r/RedPillWives. They can help you understand your role in the journey better.

Normally someone would wish you both good luck at this point in a missive. I will do no such thing.

I will simply exhort to you both ... work hard. Keep each other a priority. Know that time will change you both ... and the odds are stacked against you ... but it is possible with great focus and effort to make your lives together better as you get older ... rather than have it fall apart.

[–]holyammo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm speechless man... thank you for this both incredibly eloquent and helpful comment. you sure know what you're talking about!

[–]SepeanRed Beret6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

  • I'm deeply sorry about the experiences you're facing in your day to day life, some of the posts here are very troubling and make it seem like these individuals are living through a daily hell...

Fuck that, we all get exactly what we deserve. Act like a bitch, get treated like a bitch.

The only thing you should be sympathetic for is that no one told them about the red pill before and instead fed them lies about what women want.

I watched the Red Pill and it blew me away completely.

The Red Pill documentary is about the Mens Right Activists and incels, it's not about our red pill. And those MRA/incel guys are mostly whiners, wanting the government or society or whatever to give them access to pussy even though they're fat, weak losers. There are some legitimate gripes like the custodial and financial issues around divorce, absolutely, but a lot of MRAs don't stop there.

Here, we tell people to get in great shape, look good, be strong and confident and cocky and charming. That's how you get a happy relationship, not this Handmaid's-Tale-light that the MRAs and incels see as a solution to their unattractiveness.

I'm currently in a relationship with someone absolutely marvelous who I want to spend my life with. But I'm afraid he won't be satisfied or will at some point feel unjustly treated. So here's the question: in what way would you wish your wives treated you in order to render the relationship more equitable?

Send him here. Tell him that this is what works for you, he should come here and read and implement, and other than that you never want to hear about it again.

The thing is, you can't do shit. You really can't. If he is becoming more beta over time, as many men do in relationships, maybe you can fake love and submission for a while, but it won't stop him becoming more beta and that will gradually make you resent him more and more.

The only thing you can do is send him here.

I've had this talk with several red pill aware women before, including on the red pill wives subs. And like them, I expect you can't do it. Even the red pill wives don't have it in them to tell their husbands to man up, or to send their husbands here. They try to be submissive to their men, but it doesn't make the husbands man up, so they keep on being miserable.

Your man has to be either naturally very alpha, or have red pill knowledge, if you want a happy marriage in the long run. The idea that you can just treat him right and he'll stay alpha, it's a fantasy, it has no bearing in reality.

It would help me loads to try and better myself for the sake of this young man and his happiness! Thank you!

No it wouldn't. The only thing that helps is that he gets red pill knowledge.

So, the question is, are you going to send him here?

[–]sidepiecebandit3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Head over to r/redpillwives

[–]holyammo0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Perfect !! Thank you!

[–]InChargeManRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Second that, they can help. Generally though, the fact that you even are considering another's needs is most of the battle...

[–]hack3geRed Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Does he pull your hair and slap your ass nice and hard when he fucks your from behind? The true sign of a good relationship is if he can leave his handprint on your ass and you love it.

Men are pretty easy to keep happy just make sure you feed him and fuck him and let him lead you to a good life.

If it doesn’t work out hit me up and I’ll show you how to be a good woman.

[–]Hornyonion7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy

When he comes home, give him head. As long as you can. Repeat daily. Make him feel like a king in bed and you have completed your part of the deal. Drain his balls and he is yours.

[–]holyammo0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Shouldn't be too difficult thank you! :D out of curiosity - possibility of getting bored of blowjobs?

[–]coinbaserep6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

A finger up the anus should revive the excitement for a blowjob. If he resists at first tell him it’s going to be ok and as long as he says “no homo” while your doing it. It’s not gay, unless he’s thinking of his male friend then it might be gay

Ps it feels amazing

[–]Hornyonion1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't be so fixated on the blowjob. For me blowjob is really top priority so If I knew that a nice blowjob is waiting for me at home I would be really satisfied. Maybe he is not that into it so find the thing that makes him happy and do it.

Attention is drawn on the "drain his balls" part. Does he like doggy style? Passionate sex? Lots of kisses? Then do this for him.

Complementary action, since you are honestly trying to be a top gf for him: Have a talk with him and start by sayingsth along the lines of:

"I would like to take our relationship to the next level and do my part. Let's talk about all the things you would like me to do/bother you etc and I will do the same. This is going to be an ongoing discussion so no pressure there to change immediately. But I would like us to VERBALLY, VERBALLY, (DID I MENTION VERBALLY?) communicate our thoughts. "

I think after that you are done. The relationship is either going to fly or crush, depending on the level of maturity of your bf.

Good luck.

[–]JameisBong1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hmm a unicorn who isn't solipsistic and overly concerned with herself? That's rare if not downright impossible. Like someone else pointed out,just chose the best available man to you. Make sure he's masculine and a capable leader,and not just some blue pill Alpha,he has to be the real deal. Depending on what asian culture you are from it shouldn't be too hard to find one.

[–]iamwolfmonk-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

STFU and side bar. What are your lifts?



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